{chit chat} Lessons I’ve Learned from the Penpal Project

Seven weeks ago, I introduced the Penpal Circles and 80 amazing women signed up.  Their excitement and enthusiasm was contagious.  It might have been a little selfish, but I included myself in a handful of the circles because I wanted in on the fun too!  Weeks have now gone by and letter writing has become a part of my daily routine.  Today, I thought I would share with you a few of the lessons I’ve pondered throughout the experience:      


Faster and convenient is not always better.  Technology is amazing and I am thankful for it. (I mean, how would I have connected with all of you?)  But there really is something to be said for a handwritten letter.  A letter takes time, effort and thought…all things that require you to slow down.  I typically write a letter after lunch when my boys are having quiet time and Sophia is sleeping.  I grab a cup of coffee, choose a few supplies and enjoy a moment of calm.  The process isn’t long – I’m typically done in 10 minutes – but it’s enough and I treasure it.    


Creativity is in all of us.  The letters and packages I have received from my circle-mates have been amazing.  Whether it be an envelope decorated in washi tape, a beautiful drawing on homemade stationary or a photograph, I am convinced we all have a bit of creativity in us.  I am so inspired by what I receive in the mail and that in turn gets my wheels turning.  I like how letter writing is a really easy vehicle to try new things.  

We were made for community.  I’ve only “known” my circle-mates for a few weeks now, but I already feel connected in a really neat way.  I like that letter writing takes the awkward small talk out of conversation and goes right to the heart.  Where else can you go right to parenting advice, religious discussion and hopes and dreams?  We were made for this type of community.  I just wish we didn’t live so far away from each other!