Ironically, I’m a little late writing this post today because I’ve been unplugged. Life has been busy this week; our schedule has been packed with school and dentist appointments and playdates and soccer. With so much on the docket, I haven’t been able to be online much. And surprisingly, it actually feels good.
Technology can be such a tricky thing.
On one hand, I consider it a lifesaver. I started my blog in 2011, when I was a young, lonely mother searching for friendships from like-minded women. Through the years, the relationships I have created because of this space have been a God-send. I also run a business online, a side job that gives me so much joy. Big White Farmhouse was a passion I didn’t know I had and I am enjoying learning and growing in that brand new arena.
On the other hand, though, technology – and social media in general – can give the “illusion” of community without real effort into community. It can expose the not-so-pretty parts of ourselves: jealousy, envy, comparison. It can be addicting and without true intention, fruitless.
I’m ready for a change.
Here’s my pep talk to myself, as I navigate the balance with technology:
+ It’s time to be intentional with my time on technology.
+ Get on and get off. There’s no need for mindless scrolling or falling into every Google rabbit hole. The Internet will be there tomorrow.
+ Don’t look at life through an “Instagram-worthy” lens. Life is messy and hard, but it’s still good, even if it can’t be perfectly photographed.
+ It’s time to be brave and meet new people (maybe even a blog reader!), look them in the eyes and give them your full attention.
