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The Big White Farmhouse

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October 26, 2015

{contentment} Step Seven: Prioritize People & Look Out



We Mamas are busy, giving and giving and giving.  We’re caring for children, keeping a house, on the go and here and there and everywhere.  That unconditional, self-pouring love is good.  But sometimes I can get so focused on my to-do list and daily tasks that I forget to spend a little time looking out.


Discontentment seems to rear its ugly head when I start to get caught up in “me”: my to-do list, my dreams, my future plans, etc.  But life is so much bigger than me!  We all want to be seen, we all want to feel like we’re not alone.  I want to do my part to let the people in my life know that I really see them.  I want them to know that I’m thankful for their support, their example, their love.  Truly, I am so blessed to have so many wonderful people in my life and I want to share that love with others too.   

Mother Teresa said, “Never worry about numbers. Help one person at a time and always start with the person nearest you.”  I‘m starting with them and then working my way out, one person at a time.


Here are a few ideas, in case you want to look out too: 

+ handwritten thank you notes
+ something to curb the nausea for a newly pregnant mama
+ cleaning supplies or a candle for a new homeowner
+ snack box for a college student’s late night munchies
+ care package for someone who’s mentioned on Facebook/blog post that they’re struggling
+ drawings or paintings for grandmothers or those in assisted living/nursing home
+ flowers delivered to a friend going through a hard time
+ a remembrance gift for someone who lost a child or had a miscarriage


Links to check out:
Sincerely Monday: a gratitude project

Thank You Thursdays: a blog series at Team Studer

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