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May 30, 2019

No.246: My Latest Reads // May

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#27. THE LYING GAME by Ruth Ware
My Rating: ★★☆☆☆

A lie. I’d almost forgotten how they feel on my tongue, slick and sickening.

I enjoyed Ruth Ware’s The Woman in Cabin 10 last year, so decided to give The Lying Game a shot.  And…it was okay.  It’s categorized as psychological thriller, but that may be generous.  Long meandering plot with a lackluster twist.

#28. AMERICAN RADICAL: INSIDE THE WORLD OF AN UNDERCOVER MUSLIM FBI AGENT by Tamer Elnoury
My Rating: ★★★★☆

How do we defeat an enemy who is willing to die for a cause that they believe in?  That is the question I ask every one of my students at the FBI undercover school before I start my lesson on radical Islam.  Over the years, I have heard many different answers, but never the correct one: education.  In order to defeat your enemy, you must first understand them. (p.342)

I had a feeling I would like American Radical just from the description and I was right.  I blew through it in days!  So much respect for undercover agents who have to do this type of work to keep us safe.  (Also available at Book Outlet here.)

#29. THE LAST ROMANTICS by Tara Conklin
My Rating: ★★☆☆☆


What I wanted to say about this man was that the greatest works of poetry, what make each of us a poet, are the stories we tell about ourselves.  We create them out of family and blood and friends and love and hate and what we’ve read and watched and witnessed.  Longing and regret, illness, broken bones, broken hearts, achievements, money won and lost, palm readings and visions.  We tell these stories until we believe them, we believe in ourselves, and that is the most powerful thing of all. (p.195)

The Last Romantics is a hard book to rate.  From the reviews I’ve read, you either love this one or hate it, so take this with a grain of salt.  I enjoyed the first half of this family saga, but felt it took an unnecessary turn with its feminist undertones.  I’m just turned off by the idea that to be a “true” feminist, you must also be anti-men and make them look idiotic or a hindrance to your success.  

#30. BE BRAVE IN THE SCARED by Mary Lenaburg
My Rating: ★★★★★

Back to our choice.  It is our pride – our desire to be in control and fix the situation – that directs us to fight against instead of through trials.  Fighting through challenges allows us to accept the reality of a difficult situation without having the ability to change it.  Oddly enough, fighting against challenges ourselves –  alone – does’t help us avoid the pain; it simply puts off and prolongs the misery.  (p.62)

Acceptance is where healing begins.  Life didn’t get any easier for us.  It did, however, become richer and more filled with love and meaning.  This shift can happen only when you’re ready to hear God’s truth and move beyond your desire and need to fix the situation.  If you wallow in the misery, you allow no room for the joy God has for you.  And there is joy, even in the difficult times. (p.68)

Be Brave in the Scared is the first book I’ve ever pre-ordered!  I have read Mary’s blog and followed her story for years now.  We said prayers and held vigil for her daughter, Courtney, on her last days in 2014.  Mary is funny and real and just an awesome lady.  I knew I would love her new book and I did.  So much honesty and wisdom and the ability to make you laugh and cry, which I think is Mary’s specialty.  Highly recommend.  I definitely think Be Brave in the Scared is the perfect compliment to The Louder Song (the book on suffering I read in April.)

#31. AND THEN THERE WERE NONE by Agatha Christie
My Rating: ★★★★
★

“From now on, it is our task to suspect each and everyone amongst us. Forewarned is forearmed. Take no risks and be alert to danger. That is all.” 

Oh my goodness.  Agatha Christie totally fooled me with this one. I’m pretty good at figuring out “whodunit” in these types of mystery books, but I was so wrong with And Then There Were None! What a crazy psycho-thriller of a book.

#32. MWF SEEKING BFF: MY YEARLONG SEARCH FOR A NEW BEST FRIEND by Rachel Bertsche
My Rating: ★★☆☆☆

“Psychologists have long described four major types of friendships,” she wrote. “1) The acquaintance, someone you’d chat with on the street or at a local café, who gives you a sense of belonging; 2) the casual friend, a ‘grab lunch’ pal who often serves a specific purpose, such as a tennis or running partner; 3) the close buddy, an intimate, trustworthy comrade you can say anything to; and 4) the lifer, who’s as deep and forever as family.” Frankel’s research found that women should have 3 to 5 lifers, 5 to 12 close friends, 10 to 50 casuals, and 10 to 100 acquaintances. (3%)

Teenagers spend nearly 33 percent of their time with friends, but that number drops to less than 10 percent for adults. When we do have time for friends, most people would rather spend it with already-established BFFs than having to be “on” with a possible new one. Because when we’re not busy, we’re tired. (23%)

I’ve had MWF Seeking BFF on my Goodreads TBR since 2012, so when I stumbled on it at the library, I snatched it up.  The idea had a lot of promise, but fell short in execution.  Her blanket statements about women and friendship had me scratching my head, mostly because I am the complete opposite of what she describes.  (I think temperament plays a much bigger role than she believes.)  A few interesting parts, but could have definitely been 100 pages shorter.  Just okay for me, although I am inspired to join a local book club now.

#33. THE WIZARD OF OZ by L. Frank Baum
My Rating: ★★★☆☆

“But how about my courage?” asked the Lion anxiously.
“You have plenty of courage, I am sure,” answered Oz.  “All you need is confidence in yourself.  There is no living thing that is not afraid when it faces danger.  True courage is in facing danger when you are afraid, and that kind of courage you have in plenty.” (p.140)

I know this story but have never read the book before!  Now I’m anxious to watch the movie again.  (Also available at Book Outlet – in a gorgeous hardcover! – here.)

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MY READING IN NUMBERS FOR 2019
Books Read: 33
Pages Read: 10,209
Fiction: 19  //  Non-Fiction: 14
Kindle Books: 7  //  Paper Books: 26
Original 2019 books “to-read” total on Goodreads: 424 // Current “to-read” total: 424

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Comments

  1. Shelly Cunningham says

    May 30, 2019 at 7:42 pm

    I highly recommend starting a local book club. I am in two, and they are SO much fun! I just love people who love books!
    I have The Last Romantics on hold at the library and I will be interested to see if I like it now that I know how you felt about it…

    • Ashley says

      May 31, 2019 at 10:51 am

      You may love The Last Romantics! Making men look stupid to promote feminism is just a big pet peeve of mine.

  2. Tabitha Studer says

    June 3, 2019 at 4:38 pm

    ooooh, that Agatha Christie sounds like the perfect jump start to summer read I need!

    • Ashley says

      June 3, 2019 at 5:27 pm

      This was my second Christie book and I'm hooked!

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