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The Big White Farmhouse

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March 4, 2020

No.362: The Wednesday Five #08

Happy Wednesday!  Looking back at February with my five today:

A QUOTE ON GRATITUDE

Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life.  It turns what we have into enough, and more.  It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity.  It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.  Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow. – Melody Beattie

FEBRUARY HIGHLIGHTS 

+ Celebrated Mark and our dog Lucy’s birthdays!

+ The weather this month seemed to be full of cold rain followed by a few days of warm sunshine that had me itching for spring.
+ I decided to take a break from reselling as a side gig.  I still need to sell off my current inventory and will continue to sell our unwanted items as I declutter, but will no longer be seeking out product for now.  My biggest complaint about Poshmark is the amount of time it requires for you to be on your phone and I was starting to resent it!  A lot of peace and mental clarity came from this decision, so I know it’s the right thing to do.
+ Regular bread making resumed.
+ Lots of guitar playing in the house!  M bought himself an electric guitar and is learning so much.
+ Mark made dietary changes to help with some digestive issues and is feeling a lot better.
+ Lent begins!

FAVORITE RECIPES FROM LAST MONTH

  • Chicken Fried Rice.  This recipe satisfied our craving for Chinese takeout.  We served it with eggrolls from the freezer. 
  • Pretzel Bread.  My favorite bread of the month!  Because the bread machine does all of the mixing and rising, the hands-on time is only minutes.
  • Cinnamon Applesauce Muffins.  Thank you to my dear friend Tabitha for this one.  I had D makes these on his own and he’s made them about six times!  The recipe calls for 1/2 cup of sugar, but we’ve reduced that to almost 1/4 without any complaints. 

2020 GOALS UPDATE

  • ✔ I want to spend time with God everyday.  I’m still working through the Bible (as of Feb 29, I was on day 234/365) and haven’t missed a day.  I also watched the first six segments of The Wild Goose series on the Holy Spirit.  I’m really enjoying them and recommend it.  It gave me a lot of clarity as I struggled through the roots of my latest bout of stress/anxiety.  
    • ✔ I want to keep on, keepin’ on with our debt freedom journey.  We used most of our tax refund to pay a big chunk off of our car loan.  The end is near!
    • ✔ I want to be a better steward of my home.  I’m still using The Confident Mom’s Household Planner with great success.  I completed only 9/29 decluttering “missions” but still find it helpful, so will continue in March.  Frugal accomplishments hit an all-time high in February – I was on a roll!  
    • ✔ I want to hand write 52 pieces of mail.  I didn’t have anywhere near the numbers I pulled in January, but I’m still on track!  I sent out 5 pieces.  (Here is the post.)  Current total = 24 pieces
    • ✔ I want to write 150 blog posts.  I hit a mini writing slump at the beginning of the month, but still managed to post 14 times.  Current total = 34
    • ✔ I want to read 52 books.  I read 6 books. (Here is the post.)  Current total = 14
    • ✘ I want to take the first steps for postpartum doula certification.  Still nothing.  
    • ✔ I want to create a family culture of generosity.  Another successful month with our 20/20 Giving:
      • February’s $20 Donation // We learned about a holy priest who has recently been diagnosed with ALS.  We donated to help him with expenses that are not covered by insurance and for the eventual need of assistance as the disease progresses.  
      • February’s 20 Minutes of Time and Talent // leading a men’s group at church, altar serving, baking cookies for the first Lenten Supper, helping out at a children’s retreat

      FEBRUARY 2020 IN NUMBERS

      I thought it would be fun (and eye-opening) to keep track of how many loads of laundry I do in a month.  In the 29 days of February, I washed 49 loads.  INSANE.

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      Comments

      1. Laura M says

        March 4, 2020 at 2:34 pm

        Congratulations!!!You accomplished many things

        • Ashley says

          March 4, 2020 at 2:48 pm

          Thanks Laura!

      2. Torrie says

        March 4, 2020 at 4:54 pm

        Wow, you're doing amazing! And I love love love your 20/20 service goal as a family. You really are such an inspiration to me 🙂

        Also, I would be a little nervous to count how many loads of laundry I do in a month, ha ha! That is pretty insane.

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