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August 27, 2020

No.440: Mother Culture Commonplace Book // August 2020

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“Mother Culture,” an idea from Charlotte Mason and coined by Karen Andreola, simply encourages mothers to keep learning and growing, even while raising children.  Andreola describes it this way: 

Mother Culture® is a way-of-life, the skillful art of how a mother looks after the ways of her household. With a thinking-love she creates a culture in the home all her own. A mother does a lot of taking care, so she needs to take care of herself, too. Much depends on how she manages her life. 

I resonate with this encouragement because it feels like I have someone in my corner, someone looking out for me as I do the hard work of motherhood.  Taking the time to gain new knowledge/skills really fills my cup and I think my children notice.  So with that in mind, I’m committing to my own set of monthly assignments this school year!  Here’s what I did in August:   

✔ ASSIGNMENT #1: Crack open a classic novel.
Back in 2019, I started reading The Well-Educated Mind and was so pumped to start the “The Story of People: Reading through History with the Novel” reading list.  I ordered a beautiful hardcover copy of the first book, Don Quixote, aaaand…read the first few chapters and put it away, ha!  In August, I decided to tackle it again.  This book is a brick (over 800 pages!), so I gave myself the goal of reading just 50 pages for the whole month.  Sounded easy enough!  As of this writing, I’m on page 87, so about 10% finished.  I definitely don’t find it a page turner, but it is a good one for reading a chapter or two a day.  I actually think the writing is somewhat humorous!  Who knew?

✔ ASSIGNMENT #2: Discover and listen to a new type of music.
I popped around the Internet for some inspiration on this one and ran into Mildred Bailey, a Native American jazz singer during the 1930s.  A few fun facts about Mildred:

  • She grew up in Washington, but often visited relatives on the Coeur d’Alene Reservation in Idaho, where her mother was an enrolled member.  (Her mother was also a devout Catholic.)  
  • She was known as “The Queen of Swing” and “The Rockin’ Chair Lady.”
  • This little tidbit made my smile: “Whatever the reasons may have been, superstardom eluded Bailey. The singer blamed her plumpness for her lack of commercial success, while others suggested that it was really Bailey’s temper and sharp tongue that were her undoing. There’s plenty of evidence that Bailey felt especially bitter towards better-looking female vocalists, many of whom she felt lacked her talent. Throughout her life, Bailey blamed her obesity on a glandular condition, although many of her friends attributed it instead to her great love of food.”
  • She suffered from diabetes and died of a heart attack at only 44 years old.
  • She had many popular songs, including “Rocking Chair” and “Thanks for the Memory”, but I loved (and could relate to!) another of hers called “It’s So Peaceful in the Country”.  All three songs are below!







✔ ASSIGNMENT #3: Read and reflect on one poem.

For this one, I pulled out a beautiful old book from 1957 called Favorite Poems Old and New: Selected for Boys and Girls by Helen Ferris.  This is the poem I chose for August:
“Leisure”
by William H. Davies
What is this life if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare?
No time to stand beneath the boughs
And stare as long as sheep or cows.
No time to see, in broad daylight,
Streams full of stars, like skies at night.
No time to turn at Beauty’s glance,
And watch her feet, how they can dance.
No time to wait till her mouth can
Enrich that smile her eyes began.
A poor life this if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.
Fun fact: W.H. Davies was a Welsh poet who spent a significant part of his life as a hobo.


✔ ASSIGNMENT #4: Learn something interesting about nature.

I went back to The Lost Art of Reading Nature’s Signs and was excited to discover that I was on the chapter about stars.  Reading the sky is interesting to me but I have very little experience.  One fun fact that I learned:

It is commonly believed that the North Star is the brightest in the night sky, however it’s actually neither very bright not very dull… if you see a very bright white object shining more brilliantly than anything else in the night sky, it is very likely to be the planets, Venus or Jupiter, or the brightest star, Sirius, but it will definitely not be the North Star. (p.152)

✔ ASSIGNMENT #5: Memorize something: a prayer, a poem, or the lyrics to a song.
We’ve been attending the Latin Mass and the chanters have been singing the Salve Regina after Holy Communion.  I knew parts of the song, but never the whole thing, so in August, I practiced!  This video was helpful.

Salve Regina

Salve, Regina, Mater misericordiæ,
vita, dulcedo, et spes nostra, salve.
Ad te clamamus exsules filii Hevæ,
Ad te suspiramus, gementes et flentes
in hac lacrimarum valle.
Eia, ergo, advocata nostra, illos tuos
misericordes oculos ad nos converte;
Et Jesum, benedictum fructum ventris tui,
nobis post hoc exsilium ostende.
O clemens, O pia, O dulcis Virgo Maria.


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Comments

  1. Laura M says

    September 1, 2020 at 1:16 am

    This is so fun and I'm amazed at how disciplined you are that you read and learn and do all the things you do on top of your daily chores and responsibilities. I start the week with good intentions but end the days feeling so tired that I just watch tv.

    • Ashley says

      September 1, 2020 at 8:35 pm

      I have found that I have the most energy first thing in the morning, so I try to do as much as I can then. Lately, by bedtime, I can only read about 10 pages before I start nodding off, ha! I'm so tired too.

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