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The Big White Farmhouse

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June 3, 2020

No.409: The Wednesday Five #12

Looking back at May with my five today:

A QUOTE

Love and sacrifice are closely linked, like the sun and the light. We cannot love without suffering and we cannot suffer without love. – Saint Gianna Molla

MAY HIGHLIGHTS 

+ We completed our required standardized testing for the state and school is officially out for summer!
+ Mark and the boys finished garden fence construction just in time for Mother’s Day.  It was so overwhelming to see my little plan come to life that I cried and they all made fun of me, ha!
+ I planted almost everything I needed to, but had to get creative due to the lockdown.  I ordered all of my tomato and pepper seedlings in the mail and was pleasantly surprised by how healthy most of them looked when they arrived. 
+ I hit a wall with my mental health and had a hard couple of weeks, but am fighting my way back.  

FAVORITE RECIPES FROM LAST MONTH

  • Blueberry Peach Cobbler.  I made a double batch of our favorite summertime dessert and it was still gone in minutes.
  • Skillet Rice and Beans with Kielbasa.  I like this recipe because it uses cheap staple ingredients, is fast to make and it’s delicious.    
  • My New Oatmeal Concoction.  I got a little crazy and tried something new: I warm up cinnamon and spice oatmeal, then swirl in a big spoonful of pumpkin puree and sprinkle a handful of raisins and nuts on top.  It tastes like fall in a bowl and really keeps me full.  I’ve eaten it every morning since.

2020 GOALS UPDATE

  • ✔ I want to spend time with God everyday.  I unintentionally took a break from my Bible plan but started again at the end of the month.  As of May 31, I was on day 281/365.  I’m also still reading Saint Faustina’s Diary – almost done!  
    • ✔ I want to keep on, keepin’ on with our debt freedom journey.  These times are so uncertain that we’ve been doing a little bit of everything with any extra money including adding to our savings and starting to replenish supplies in our emergency closet.  We did make a small extra payment on a student loan – every little bit helps.  We’re getting closer!
    • ✘ I want to be a better steward of my home.  Still struggling in this department and I barely used The Confident Mom’s Household Planner.    
    • ✔ I want to hand write 52 pieces of mail. My first 2020 goal completely done!  Mother’s Day thankfully helped me boost the numbers because I hit a wall after that.  I sent out 11 pieces.  (Here is the post.)  Current total = 56
    • ✔ I want to write 150 blog posts.  I posted 15 times, which seems decent.  Current total = 80 
    • ✔ I want to read 52 books.  I read 7 books. (Here is the post.)  Current total = 39
    • ✘ I want to take the first steps for postpartum doula certification.  Put on hold for now.
    • ✔ I want to create a family culture of generosity.  We’re keepin’ on with our 20/20 Giving but are anxious to give more of our time and talent as things start to re-open again:
      • May’s $20 Donation // We donated again to our local food bank.
      • May’s 20 Minutes of Time and Talent // Mark is keeping his men’s group alive with texts and virtual meetings

      MAY 2020 IN NUMBERS

      + Loads of Laundry: 41
      + Loaves of Bread Made: 30
      + Total Hours Spent Outside: 35
      + Money Spent on Groceries: a gazillion dollars (but seriously, so much money)

      June 2, 2020

      No.408: Intentions for the Beginning of June

      “Every analysis must necessarily start from the premise that—although each person lives in a particular concrete social and historical context—every human being is endowed with a dignity that must never be lessened, impaired or destroyed but must instead be respected and safeguarded, if peace is really to be built up.”
      – Pope John Paul II, Address to the General Assembly of the United Nations Oct. 2, 1979

      INTENTIONS FOR THE BEGINNING OF JUNE

      • get dressed in “real” clothes every day (I’ve been living in workout clothes…minus the workout)
      • stay strong with our new “no screens from 9 to 3” weekday policy
      • go through my recipe printouts and make at least four things
      • paint my toes
      • fertilize the tomatoes
      • research natural/frugal ways to deal with garden pests
      • paint the inside of the fence
      • pull out the branches and shrubs in the spot where we want to hang the hammock
      • edge the new flower beds around the garden
      • chat with Mark under the twinkling lights on our deck (after the kids go to bed)
      • get back to my self-defense course and complete one lesson
      • support a small business

      PREVIOUS INTENTIONS

      If you’re reading in a reader, be sure to click over to see what I checked off the list!
      • order and hang a hammock (put on hold until we tear down a few shrubs and things in the way)
      • plant lemongrass for the back porch
      • plant tomatoes and peppers
      • finish clearing away the fallen trees and branches in the yard (this is the task that never ends!  we just keep adding more work for ourselves)
      • finish painting the fence (super close to being done with the outside)
      • powerwash the siding (100LT #6)
      • read another ARC due for Netgalley (I’m about 25% finished)
      • read 25+ pages in The Last Art of Reading Nature’s Signs
      • read the library books I have and then take a break from borrowing new ones 
      • have the big boys break ground around the garden perimeter for flower beds
      • collect eggshells for a natural fertilizer
      • work on revamping our emergency closet to fit a new space
      • finish up my DIY chalkboard and “season” the paint (this turned into a huge fiasco, so I’m back to square one)

      June 1, 2020

      No.407: Our Extraordinary Ordinary Life // COVID-19 Lockdown Week 11

      HIGHLIGHTS FROM THE ELEVENTH WEEK OF COVID-19 LOCKDOWN

      We’re in the second week of the “Phase 1” reopening plan in our state, which means businesses and churches can open but with limited capacity.  We’re also supposed to continue with social distancing, work from home (if possible), and wear masks whenever we’re inside a public building.  It doesn’t feel like much has changed for us still hanging at home, but it’s a welcome start for a lot of struggling businesses in my community.

      We had a quiet Memorial Day on Monday.  This day is always a somber one for me, as I think it should be.  My oldest son completed the Crossfit “Murph” workout in memory of those service members who died: 1 mile run, 300 squats, 200 pushups, 100 pullups, and another 1 mile run.  So hard!  We grilled for dinner and ended the night with our tradition of watching a military movie (this year with our two oldest boys).  This year, it was Black Hawk Down.

      I got started on school plans for next fall.  I will have five students (I cannot even believe it) and feel like I need to work on it all summer vs. procrastinating until the last minute.  This week, I got a solid booklist in place and started in on the first week checklist.

      Mark and I finally watched The Chosen and we loved it!  I cried at parts of almost every episode. 
      On Saturday, I power washed the siding and it’s probably one of the most satisfying housekeeping projects ever.

      We went to Mass for the first time in eleven weeks!  What a way to celebrate Pentecost!  Every other pew was blocked off, which ended up making the church about 25% full, but it was so nice to be back and receive Communion again.  

      May 29, 2020

      No.406: 2020 Gratitude // 22

      A new series for 2020: if I record 20 things every week, I’ll have over 1,000 items by December 31.  
      That’s a lot to be grateful for.

      my grandfather, who died serving this beautiful country
      Lego creations everywhere
      when the sun peeks out from the clouds
      getting a head start on school planning for next fall
      all the new-to-us books that have been arriving in the mail all week
      listening to little kids play pretend
      the way P likes to line his board books on the windowsill, all in a row
      Refrigerator Clean-Out Nights
      the color green, which represents life and hope to me
      a new chain for a broken necklace
      feeling more like myself after a hard week
      how much the kids love Mark’s homemade pizza
      re-reading a favorite book and loving it just as much
      my morning ritual of checking on the garden after breakfast 
      how fast everything is growing!
      the feeling of soil in my hands
      piles and piles of folded laundry
      chips and guacamole
      a new plan for less screen time
      belly laughs
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