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March 31, 2020

No.373: My Latest Reads // March 2020

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#15. EVVIE DRAKE STARTS OVER by Linda Holmes || ★★★☆☆
An easy chick-lit read.  I don’t read much romance and appreciated that this one wasn’t too racy.

#16. GHOST: MY THIRTY YEARS AS AN FBI UNDERCOVER AGENT by Michael R. McGowan and Ralph Pezzullo || ★★★☆☆
I love a good undercover memoir!  This wasn’t as good as American Radical, but still interesting and entertaining.  Heads up: it was a little crass at times and had lots of language.

#17. I LET YOU GO by Clare Mackintosh || ★★☆☆☆
Well, this thriller was a wild ride!  It turned out to be nothing like I expected it to be, which was both a good and a bad thing.  Definitely a page turner, but the main parts (death of a child by vehicular negligence, domestic abuse) were a little too icky for me.

#18. NICKEL AND DIMED: ON (NOT) GETTING BY IN AMERICA by Barbara Ehrenreich || ★★☆☆☆
I really wanted to like this book about the difficulties of the working poor.  Unfortunately, while there were some thought-provoking parts, I just couldn’t get past the author’s condescending tone.  It felt like she would start to defend her coworkers, only to bash them in the next sentence.

#19. PRINCE CASPIAN by C.S. Lewis || ★★★☆☆
Our third read aloud from the Chronicles of Narnia series!

#20. DEAR EDWARD by Ann Napolitano || ★★★★☆
Thank you Shelly for sharing this book with me!  I enjoyed this story of survival and grief and healing. It was melancholy in tone, but I didn’t find it depressing.  Another reminder to treat everyone you meet with kindness because you never know the crosses they bear.

#21. MY SISTER, THE SERIAL KILLER by Oyinkan Braithwaite || ★★★☆☆
A short, unique story with dark humor.

#22. THE LATIN MASS EXPLAINED by Msgr. George J. Mooreman || ★★★★★
My sister-in-law gave me this book last year and while I’ve browsed through parts of it, this was the first time I read it cover to cover!  WOW.  So so good and gives me a whole new love for the Mass and the Eucharist.

#23. THE CHILDREN’S BLIZZARD by David Laskin || ★★★☆☆

It’s hard to find vocabulary for weather this cold. The senses become first sharp and then dulled. Objects etch themselves with hyperclarity on the dense air, but it’s hard to keep your eyes open to look at them steadily. When you first step outside from a heated space, the blast of 46-below-zero air clears the mind like a ringing slap. After a breath or two, ice builds up on the hairs lining your nasal passages and the clear film bathing your eyeballs thickens. If the wind is calm and if your body, head, and hands are covered, you feel preternaturally alert and focused. At first. A dozen paces from the door, your throat begins to feel raw, your lips dry and crack, tears sting the corners of your eyes. The cold becomes at once a knife and, paradoxically, a flame, cutting and scorching exposed skin. (20%)

This was a random pick from the library!  It’s about a huge blizzard in 1888 that came out of nowhere and was absolutely devastating.  The storm is sometimes called “The Children’s Blizzard” because of the numerous children that were killed on their way home from school.  A sad but interesting part of history and I learned a lot about hypothermia and meteorology too.

#24. STRANGERS AND SOJOURNERS by Michael O’Brien || ★★★☆☆
This is an epic story about one woman’s life in British Columbia and her search for truth and faith and love.  The story is a slow burn, but I enjoyed it.  There were a few parts that veered into magical realism and a few parts that I’m sure when straight over my head (clearly, I’m not as well educated!) but overall, a lot of beautiful writing and much to think about.  3.5 stars.  (This was also my 1997 pick for the 20th Century Reading Challenge.)

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MY READING IN NUMBERS FOR 2020
Books Read: 24
Pages Read: 7,243
Fiction: 13  //  Non-Fiction: 11
Kindle Books: 8  //  Paper Books: 16
20th Century in Books Challenge: 23/100
Original 2020 books “to-read” total on Goodreads: 414 // Current “to-read” total: 415
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March 30, 2020

No.372: Our Extraordinary Ordinary Life // COVID-19 Lockdown Week 2

HIGHLIGHTS FROM THE SECOND WEEK OF COVID-19 LOCKDOWN
Week two.  We’re doing this.

The Governor of Virginia officially shut down all public and private schools for the remainder of the school year, so that also officially cancels almost all of the kids’ extra-curricular activities.  D is especially bummed about his flag football season, but we’ve promised him regular games as a family in the meantime.  Definitely not the same, but will hopefully take away some of the sting.

On Monday, we brainstormed ways we could work spiritually, intellectually, creatively and physically now that we suddenly have all this extra free time.  Idleness is the Devil’s playground, as they say.  We each made a few goals for the week – here were mine:

  • ✘ 3 days of learning Latin on Duolingo (only completed 2/3)
  • ✔ Read at least 10 pages of The Lost of Reading Nature’s Signs
  • ✘ Take at least two 1 mile walks along the periphery of our property (I really need to prioritize this)
  • ✔ Start a new religious book
  • ✔ Start a physical scrapbook to document this time in our lives

We cannot seem to find yeast anywhere, so we started our sourdough starter again.  King Arthur Flour ended up having some in stock online by the end of the week, so I grabbed that while I could.  In other bread news, I’ve been a baking machine with sandwich loaves, muffins and banana breads.  I’ve been thinking so much about previous generations of women who literally spent 75% of their days in the kitchen.  If they could do it, so can I!  Solidarity through the ages.

We had quite a bit of rain this week, but worked on our garden plot on the dry days.  Maybe dry is the wrong word…because hello, mud everywhere.  (Shoes, clothes, the dog, my floors…everything is covered in mud.)  The big boys worked so hard digging up the sod and laying down the landscape fabric.  It’s so exciting to see my plans actually coming to life! 

Things that have kept us busy: puzzles, card games and Scrabble.

I’ve been battling insomnia for almost three weeks now and finally hit a wall on Thursday night.  I closed my eyes at 8:30 and was OUT for more than nine hours.  The next morning, I felt like a new woman!  Sleep – so, so important.  (Duh.)

Questions Mark and I keep asking as we see so many people and small businesses in our community suffer during this time is, What can we do?  How can we help our neighbor when we’re not supposed to be anywhere near them?  We’re constantly brainstorming, but here’s what we did this week:

  • We made it a point to say thank you to our mail carriers who are working so hard so we can stay at home.  I imagine that it must feel like a December holiday rush all over again for them.
  • We mailed postcards to grandparents.
  • We continued drawing pictures for the local assisted living facility and I hope to have enough to mail next week.

March 27, 2020

No.371: 2020 Gratitude // 13

A new series for 2020: if I record 20 things every week, I’ll have over 1,000 items by December 31.  
That’s a lot to be grateful for.

rain
two sales on ebay
having my family all under one roof
how dedicated M’s jiu jitsu instructors are to their students, even when quarantined
working all together outside
that Mark chopped down one of our dead trees safely
the progress we’ve made on our garden plot
watching the daffodils that we planted last fall grow and start to bloom
brother piggy back rides
our mail carriers who work so hard for us
our UPS man, “Mr. Bear”
our police officers who are keeping us safe
the small businesses in our community, who are being so creative in order to stay afloat
spontaneous library book choices that teach me something new
the amount of Masses that are live streaming on the Internet every day
our kitchen, which is in constant use
my bread machine, also in constant use
making snail mail for family with Sophia
small pockets of time all by myself
deep breaths in fresh air

March 23, 2020

No.370: Our Extraordinary Ordinary Life // COVID-19 Lockdown Week 1


HIGHLIGHTS FROM THE FIRST WEEK OF COVID-19 LOCKDOWN

My life right now feels like a surreal mix of ordinary and definitely not ordinary.  It looks like things will be cancelled or shut down until at least Easter at this point, so I spent much of the week figuring out our new normal.  I recently heard on a podcast that our children need “non-anxious leadership” in times like these and I’m trying to take that to heart.  (Easier said than done!)  The quote from C.S. Lewis that I copied on last week’s 2020 Gratitude post really helped me form a “plan” to just keep living my ordinary days in the most intentional way I can.  We can do this.

Because I was so distracted this week, our schoolwork was light. We spent a lot of time outdoors and had unseasonably warm weather for the first day of spring.  Fresh air has been good for all of us.  One day, the big boys and I dug up the remaining boxwood shrubs in our front flower beds and transplanted them in the backyard.  It was a big job and we were covered in dirt by the end, but it felt good to work outside.  A good stress reliever too!

On one particularly hard day when the older boys were constantly fighting, I calmly told them that they could continue to say mean things to each other ONLY if they said it in some sort of accent.  It’s really hard to be mad and keep a straight face when you’re yelling, “Shut up, stupid!” in a (bad) British accent.  They quickly cracked up and the stressful moment was averted.

Mark braved heading into town and managed to pick up a few more groceries and toilet paper.  We also ordered soil for our garden online and they had it ready for him to pickup at the store.

We quickly got back in the bread making game when our store-bought bread ran out on day three.  I made french bread and two different white loaves.

On Friday, I cut my thumb deeply on some broken glass.  It bled like crazy and I actually had to use a metal chip clip to help it to stop.  Thank goodness for BandAids and a husband who has basic first aid knowledge.

I don’t ever play games on my phone, but this week I needed a mind-numbing distraction that wasn’t social media.  Two lifesavers: Nonogram and Wordscapes.

Questions Mark and I keep asking as we see so many people and small businesses in our community suffer during this time is, What can we do?  How can we help our neighbor when we’re not supposed to be anywhere near them?  We’re constantly brainstorming, but here’s what we did this week:

  • Mark ordered takeout at a local restaurant while he was out running errands.  We can’t do that often (sooo expensive for our big family) but I’m glad he thought of them first.
  • We started drawing pictures and will be mailing them to our local assisted living facility next week.  The elderly are on strict lockdown too and we hope the nurses can pass along our messages to the residents.
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