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March 20, 2020

No.369: 2020 Gratitude // 12

A new series for 2020: if I record 20 things every week, I’ll have over 1,000 items by December 31.  
That’s a lot to be grateful for.

slower days
dinners all together around the table
the ability for Mark to work from home
our emergency closet, which is still well stocked (except for TP, but we learned our lesson!)
watching how much the kids love Lucy
a time to really focus on our domestic church
an encouraging video from our former pastor
daily recitation of the Rosary
nature walks after breakfast
dreaming with the kids about hammocks and treehouses
starting schoolwork after lunch, just to change things up
art supplies out and being used
the calming effect of cleaning
how far we can stretch one pork shoulder
waking up to bird calls
celebrating St. Joseph’s feast day with cake
that the postal service is still up and running
messaging with family to check in
doctors and nurses and people who bravely still show up to work each day
this writing from C.S. Lewis, which is perfect for these uncertain times: 

In one way we think a great deal too much of the atomic bomb. “How are we to live in an atomic age?” I am tempted to reply: “Why, as you would have lived in the sixteenth century when the plague visited London almost every year, or as you would have lived in a Viking age when raiders from Scandinavia might land and cut your throat any night; or indeed, as you are already living in an age of cancer, an age of syphilis, an age of paralysis, an age of air raids, an age of railway accidents, an age of motor accidents.”
In other words, do not let us begin by exaggerating the novelty of our situation. Believe me, dear sir or madam, you and all whom you love were already sentenced to death before the atomic bomb was invented: and quite a high percentage of us were going to die in unpleasant ways. We had, indeed, one very great advantage over our ancestors—anesthetics; but we have that still. It is perfectly ridiculous to go about whimpering and drawing long faces because the scientists have added one more chance of painful and premature death to a world which already bristled with such chances and in which death itself was not a chance at all, but a certainty.
This is the first point to be made: and the first action to be taken is to pull ourselves together. If we are all going to be destroyed by an atomic bomb, let that bomb when it comes find us doing sensible and human things—praying, working, teaching, reading, listening to music, bathing the children, playing tennis, chatting to our friends over a pint and a game of darts—not huddled together like frightened sheep and thinking about bombs. They may break our bodies (a microbe can do that) but they need not dominate our minds.
— “On Living in an Atomic Age” (1948) in Present Concerns: Journalistic Essays

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P.S. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or struggling during this crazy time, I would be honored to pray for you and send you a little sunshine in your mailbox.  You can add your information here.  

March 18, 2020

No.368: What I Decluttered // March 2020

Month #6 for my 1,000 Item Declutter Challenge!  Here are the ground rules:

  1. Only spend 10 minutes at one time and only in one specific area.  
  2. Monday through Wednesday, seek out items that we no longer need and make a pile.  Then Thursday through Saturday, make a plan for how to deal with them.  (This has worked so well and avoided that dreaded box of “what should I do with these?” items.)
  3. Possible places to find new homes for items: Ebay/Poshmark, Facebook Marketplace, Trash Nothing website or the local Buy Nothing Facebook group and as a last resort, Goodwill

I feel a responsibility for the things I have and want to be intentional with how I dispose of them.  Questions I asked myself: If it’s here, what purpose does it serve?  Can I use it up?  Can I enjoy it vs. keeping it tucked away in drawers and boxes?  And if not, can I let it go to someone who may need it more?

At the end of last month, my decluttering grand total was only at a little over 300 items and I was feeling frustrated.  This challenge is going to take forever!  After a little whining, I realized that this may not be an entirely bad thing.  As I go through our things, tucked away in cabinets and drawers, I’m finding treasures I totally forgot we owned.  Dishes are being used, art supplies are making art, lotions are keeping hands smooth, “nicer” clothing is being worn just because.  What good are possessions if they only serve to look organized and worthy of Pinterest?

This month, I decided to tackle one of the bigger projects that I’ve been avoiding: the kids’ clothing.  Organizing what we have, making notes of what we need and giving away everything extra – it’s a HUGE job!  I’m not finished, but did make a big dent and that feels good.

WHAT I DECLUTTERED THIS MONTH

  • 10 books.
  • One pack of essential oil bottle cap labels and 6 essential oils.  I’ve been waffling about these silly essential oils for months, but I’m just not going to use them.  Gave them to my brother.
  • One essential oil diffuser.  Gave this to my brother too.
  • 46 pieces of Sophie’s outgrown clothing.  I posted two big lots of her spring/summer clothing from the last two years and they were spoken for in a matter of hours.  One woman was collecting the clothes for a family who had just had a house fire…can you imagine?  I’m so happy that I could take a tiny weight off of that family’s shoulders.
  • 78 pieces of P’s outgrown clothing.  This was one of the bigger projects I’ve been avoiding because…it’s hard.  My baby is growing up!  I kept a few favorite pieces, but posted lots of all the rest on Trash Nothing.   
  • One dress. Sold on ebay.
  • One purse.
  • One dress up vest.
  • One pair of sneakers.
  • 4 holsters. Sold for Mark on ebay.
  • One bag of shredded paper.  Junk mail and other personal paperwork that needs to be shredded counts as clutter too!  I’m counting each full container (which is the equivalent of a plastic grocery store bag) as one item.  Added to my compost pile!
  • One stuffed animal.
  • One magazine, 2 workbooks and one old math book. Into the recycling bin.
  • One pack of mini essential oil “sharing” bottles.
  • 11 various pieces of clothing.  Off to Goodwill.  These are pieces in good condition, but don’t have much resale value and weren’t substantial enough to warrant a post on Trash Nothing.
Items decluttered this month: 168
Money made this month: $86.51


Total items decluttered so far: 503 (more than halfway there!)
Total money made so far: $556.40


P.S. To “count,” the item had to physically leave my house.  So while I have listed a handful of things online, those aren’t counted until they have sold.

March 17, 2020

No.367: Top Ten Tuesday // My Spring 2020 TBR

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I’m linking up again with Top Ten Tuesday and today’s prompt is to share my spring TBR.  I grabbed a handful of books from my nightstand and was a little too excited to discover that most of the spines were in shades of blue and green – how perfect for the season!  Here are ten books that I hope to read in the next few months:


1 // Strangers and Sojourners by Michael D. O’Brien

I just started this huge novel (it’s almost 600 pages!) and am enjoying the saga so far.  I read O’Brien’s Father Elijah back in 2016 and really enjoyed it, so I’m hoping this story will be just as good.  


2 // Characters of the Passion by Fulton J. Sheen
I love Bishop Fulton Sheen’s writing (this post is about his book that I read for Lent last year) and think this little book will be perfect for Holy Week.

3 // Once Upon a River by Diane Setterfield
This novel is a little out of my comfort zone since I don’t read a lot of magical realism.  I totally picked it for the beautiful cover, ha!

4 // A Year Without a Purchase: One Family’s Quest to Stop Shopping and Start Connecting by Scott Dannemiller
I’m always looking for things to inspire and fuel my quest for simplicity and frugality and I hope this memoir will do just that.

5 // Peace Like a River by Leif Enger
This will be a re-read for me – it’s been on my mind since reading Ordinary Grace last month!

6 // There’s No Such Thing as Bad Weather by Linda Akeson McGurk
I put this one on my 100 Little Things list and I’m anxious to finally dive in.  This book comes highly recommended!

7 // The Automatic Millionaire by David Bach
I don’t remember how I acquired this personal finance book, but I’m curious enough to see what it’s all about.  The reviews on Goodreads seem all over the place…we’ll see where I fall.

8 // Trials of the Earth: The True Story of a Pioneer Woman by Mary Mann Hamilton
I looooove pioneer novels.  Reading about their hard work and struggles inspires me and really helps me put my suffering in perspective.  I can’t wait to read this true story.

9 // The Collapse of Parenting: How We Hurt Our Kids When We Treat Them Like Grown-Ups by Leonard Sax, MD
I’m not a huge fan of most parenting books, but this one came recommended by a few different people, so I’m giving it a shot.

10 // The Lost Art of Reading Nature’s Signs by Tristan Gooley
I’ve been slowly making my way through this one and it is so interesting!  Lots and lots to learn.

Have you read any of these?  What did you think?  What’s on your nightstand to read this spring?

March 16, 2020

No.366: Intentions for the End of March

At the end of February, I was writing in all of our activities on the calendar for March and whining that our days are just too full: we rarely get to all sit down for dinner together and we hardly have an evening to just hang out at home.  Careful what you pray for!  After managing to keep ourselves healthy all winter, we all somehow caught Influenza A and it would not go away for a solid two weeks.  And now with coronavirus becoming a real problem, schools and church activities and extra-curriculars are all cancelled.  Suddenly, I’m staring at two weeks (or more!) of wide open days at home.  In a time of great uncertainty, I’m choosing to see this as a gift. 

Also: because of that pesky flu, the first two weeks of March were a complete wash and I got none of my intentions list accomplished.  Hoping to play catch-up on those annnnd I added a bunch more because I can’t help myself.   

INTENTIONS FOR THE END OF MARCH

  • have the kids involved in making dinner each night
  • get back to my 20th Century in Literature Challenge and read two books that fit
  • buy and lay down landscape fabric
  • purchase everything needed for “Mel’s Mix” and fill the raised beds
  • start buying things for Easter baskets 
  • mail back ThredUp bag
  • buy new sandals for Sophie
  • gather supplies to make a framed chalkboard (100LT #17)
  • try a new bread recipe
  • give the little boys haircuts
  • March 2020 Giving donation to the local food bank 
  • try to propagate my Christmas cactus again

PREVIOUS INTENTIONS

If you’re reading in a blog reader, be sure to click over to see what I checked off the list!
    • continue a new routine of making bread daily
    • find a few new ways to reduce our food budget (not exactly how I envisioned it, but having the flu really helps the budget – no one ate anything but toast for days!)
    • say the Stations of the Cross with the kids
    • attend a holy hour
    • work on building raised beds (Mark surprised me by knocking this out last weekend)
    • start looking at compost options
    • get dead trees removed by the driveway
    • reorganize all of my Poshmark inventory
    • create a better hand-me-down clothing system (reuse old plastic totes if possible)
    • get photos printed for a special project
    • deal with Sophie’s duvet
    • get an estimate for Sophie’s bathroom
    • start a phenology wheel (I wanted to use this project as a way to intentionally notice nature changing around me and it’s working! so fun)
    • read at least 20 pages of The Art of Learning Nature’s Signs
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