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January 23, 2020

No.341: A List of January’s Frugal Accomplishments

Six months of frugal accomplishments!  (This post is a combination of December and January, since I missed it last month.)  Yesterday, I came across a post from The Frugal Girl, Marketers do not want you to be content, and it really resonated with me.  During November and December, I spent a lot of time “browsing” the Internet as I searched for Christmas gifts and I could feel the discontent brewing.  Suddenly, my list of woes against my furniture and my home decor and my kids’ wardrobe and my homeschool grew and grew.  But isn’t it funny how a self-inflicted No Spend Month can completely change your mindset?  I purposely don’t browse online stores or even Pinterest.  I don’t open the sales emails, despite how tempting they sound.  I have the head space to look at my house and be proud of it, despite its imperfections.  I can clearly see the things I really need – like hand towels and shower liners – instead of what social media tells me I need.  It’s freeing to be content.   

JANUARY’S FRUGAL ACCOMPLISHMENTS
My Goal: Use it up, wear it out, make it do or do without.  
And if you have to spend money, do it with intention.

+ I read and reviewed two free books from Netgalley.

+ While unpacking our decorations, I found a handful of old Christmas cards (received from others) from years ago.  To give them one more life, I cut off the tops – the side without the writing – and used them as thank you cards for my Poshmark/ebay packages.

+ I used up four rolls of Christmas wrapping paper from last year and all of my tags.  I even used the (sorta ugly, but completely useful) free sticker tags I received in some junk mail.  Feels good to know that I can start fresh next December!

+ We committed to No Spend January and have done okay so far!  Little things have popped up – like dental copays, an oil change, and a new phone for Mark when his old one wouldn’t hold a charge – but we’ve been able to pay for these things fairly easily.  I’m really enjoying the challenge of being creative with what we have in all the ways: in the kitchen, in decorating, and in toys and books.

+ The boys’ sheets were looking dingy, so I added 1/3 cup of baking soda to the bottom of the washing machine before starting the load.  Now they look as good as new!  Baking soda is also a deodorizer, which is an added benefit because…boys.

+ I gave two of the boys haircuts and trimmed my own using the ponytail method.

+ I gathered up all of the random makeup and skincare samples I’ve accumulated and put them in a vintage glass container on my bathroom counter.  I’m hoping this little action will help me actually use them up!

+ I started adding more potatoes to our meal plans.  Potatoes are cheap, filling and are a starchy alternative to bread. (Mark may have a minor gluten sensitivity).  And bonus: the kids love them in all their forms and eat without complaint!

+ I made my own Soap Scum Cleaner (from a “recipe” I found on Pinterest) using dish soap and vinegar.  It worked fine but wasn’t amazing, so I won’t share it here.  I’m on the hunt for another option.

Your turn!  What did you do to save a little money this month?

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Previous Frugal Accomplishments: 
JULY  //  AUGUST  //  SEPTEMBER  //  OCTOBER  //  NOVEMBER

January 22, 2020

No.340: The Wednesday Five #05

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Happy Wednesday!

A QUOTE

To listen does not mean, or even imply, that you agree with someone.  It simply means you accept the legitimacy of the other person’s point of view and that you might have something to learn from it.  It also means that you embrace the possibility that there might be multiple truths and understanding them all might lead to a larger truth.  Good listeners know understanding is not binary.  It’s not that you have it or you don’t.  Your understanding can always be improved.  – from You’re Not Listening, page 88 

TWO BOOKS 

I like to have two books going at the same time, one fiction and one non-fiction.  For my non-fiction choice, I’m reading You’re Not Listening, but I can’t seem to make up my mind on a novel!  Top contenders right now are Ordinary Grace and Behold the Dreamers.  So many good books, so little time.

THREE WEBSITES THAT ARE HELPING ME BE A BETTER HOMEMAKER

  • Faith and Flour // I just came across this Youtube channel and have only watched her weekly cleaning routine video so far, but I was already taking notes about cleaning “tools” and techniques.  
  • Sweet & Simple Home // I’ve mentioned this Youtube channel before, but she is just the sweetest and I’m always inspired by the way she views her home.
  • Clean Mama // I just re-subscribed to this blog…I think I read hers awhile back and then probably got overwhelmed…but I’m back and ready to learn!

FOUR TABS OPEN ON MY COMPUTER RIGHT NOW

  • A local farm’s CSA program // participating in this is on my 100 Little Things list, so I’m starting to do the research & calculate the cost
  • Walmart Grocery // I always keep this open and add things throughout the week as we use them up
  • A video series on the Holy Spirit // I’m thinking about going through these videos next month
  • Valentine cards on etsy // so many cute options!  I’ll be sharing some of my favorites in my Five Reasons post for February

    FIVE THINGS ON MY FEBRUARY TO-BUY LIST

    Since this is No Spend January, I’ve been jotting down the things that fall into the middle of need vs. want: they aren’t immediate needs, but probably should be purchased sooner than later.
    • an outdoor broom
    • two new hand towels for the downstairs bathroom
    • a coffee maker: ours is leaving more and more grounds in the coffee, which is always a fun surprise to find in your mug
    • shower curtain liner for the boys’ bathroom
    • I Love Lucy DVDs: Amazon took the free episodes off of Prime Video and my kids were so sad!  I’m going to see if I can find them for cheap on Second Spin.

    January 21, 2020

    No.339: Top Ten Tuesday // The 10 Newest Books on my Bookshelf

    Linking up for the first time with Top Ten Tuesday!  This post contains affiliate links.

    This will come as no surprise to you, but I asked for books for Christmas.  Mark graciously agreed to work from my specific list (my Goodreads TBR) and we found almost all of the books at Book Outlet.  I’ve already read the first two on the list and can’t wait to get to the rest.  Here are the ten newest books on my nightstand:  


    1 // What Made Maddy Run: The Secret Struggles and Tragic Death of an All-American Teen by Kate Fagan
    This was the first book I read from the pile.  It’s the true story of a driven college athlete who struggled with depression and eventually took her own life.  It was a heart-wrenching read, but I learned a lot.  (Read my full review here.)

    2 // 102 Minutes: The Unforgettable Story of the Fight to Survive Inside the Twin Towers by Jim Dwyer and Kevin Flynn
    I just finished this one last week and it was my first five-star read of the new year.  It takes you through the minutes between when the planes crashed into the Twin Towers and when they collapsed.  I know this book will stay with me for a long time.

    3 // The Widows of Malabar Hill by Sujata Massey
    (The rest of the books from here on out are ones that I haven’t read yet, so these descriptions will be a little lame.)  I saw this one recommended in a few difference places and my friends on Goodreads gave it pretty high stars.  A historical mystery with an Indian twist – sign me up!

    4 // I Let You Go by Clare Mackintosh
    I enjoy thrillers with vague descriptions that give nothing away and I Let You Go falls right into that category.  My friends on Goodreads gave it anywhere from two to five stars, so I’m curious to see where I will fall.

    5 // Countdown to Pearl Harbor: The Twelve Days to the Attack by Steve Twomey
    This military history book seems to be in a similar vein to 102 Minutes: looking back at a moment in history and dissecting the things that went right and the things that went wrong.  I’m a firm believer that you can’t be wise about the future without learning from the past, so this type of book is fascinating to me and right up my alley.

    6 // Roots and Sky: A Journey Home in Four Seasons by Christie Purifoy
    I have no memory of this memoir, but after reading the description again, it does seem to be something I’d enjoy, ha!

    7 // The Time in Between by María Dueñas
    I shelved this one back in 2012 and I don’t have any recollection about where I heard about it.  A translated historical novel from Spain and I didn’t realize that it was so huge!  Over 600 pages.

    8 // Townie by Andre Dubus III
    I’ve never read anything by Dubus, but this memoir about his childhood and how he was saved by writing sounds really interesting.

    9 // Bury My Heart at Wounded Knee: an Indian History of the American West by Dee Brown
    I think this book came on my radar after reading Killers of the Flower Moon in 2018, when I realized that my knowledge of Native American history was really lacking.  I’m sure this will be a heavy read, but again: the more you learn from the past, the wiser you can be about the future.

    10 // Ordinary Grace by William Kent Krueger
    And last but not least, a book that gets really high ratings from my friends on Goodreads!  One person said that it reminded her of To Kill a Mockingbird and Peace Like a River, two books I love.  Can’t wait to dive into this one!

    Have you read any of these?  What did you think?  What’s new on your nightstand?

    January 20, 2020

    No.338: Intentions for the End of January

    Take care to preserve your heart in peace; let no happening of this world upset it…Even if everything here below crumbled apart and all things were against us, there would be no use in upsetting ourselves over it, for that upset would bring us more harm than benefit.
    – St. John of the Cross

    INTENTIONS FOR THE END OF JANUARY

    • try to remember to say the Angelus twice a day
    • find a muffin recipe that uses applesauce
    • get paperwork ready for taxes
    • clean the Dutch oven (100LT #5)
    • order Mark’s birthday present
    • start browsing Valentine’s Day cards on etsy for family and friends
    • read one book on my Kindle
    • list 5 items on Poshmark/ebay
    • cross-post 5 items
    • clean and organize the garage
    • clean out the car interior
    • join in on the “One Box Declutter Challenge” with Sweet & Simple Home
    • make homemade playdough (100LT #58)
    • look into what it would cost to build a Little Free Library (the very beginnings of 100LT #76)

    PREVIOUS INTENTIONS

    If you’re reading on your phone or in a reader, be sure to click over to see what I checked off the list!
      • get a solid start on No Spend January (Definitely not perfect, because…life.  Money spent was on our bills, gas, groceries, an oil change, dental copays, and a new phone when Mark’s suddenly would not hold a charge)
      • try out The Confident Mom’s free Household Planner (LOVING this so far!)
      • slowly get back into the 1,000 Item Declutter Challenge
      • write thank you notes
      • finish up my 2019 December Daily album (I’m so pleased with how it turned out)
      • list 5 new items on Poshmark/ebay (Official total was 7)
      • cross-post 5 items (2/5)
      • try to get a photo of the six kids all together (thank you, snow day!)
      • keep track of all grocery spending (I even came up with a fancy Excel sheet)
      • have a “Top Chef Night” to use up some of the random items in our pantry and fridge
      • start demo-ing Sophie’s bathroom
      • finally set up the telescope (Sophia is thrilled!)
      • watch and practice one video from my new self-defense course (I watched the first lesson about the combat base, but will need to keep practicing until it feels natural)
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