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October 15, 2019

No.305: What I Decluttered // October 2019

I officially started the 1,000 Item Declutter Challenge on September 15 and just finished the first full month yesterday!  Here were my ground rules:

  1. Only spend 10 minutes at one time and only in one specific area.  
  2. Monday through Wednesday, seek out items that we no longer need and make a pile.  Then Thursday through Saturday, make a plan for how to deal with them.  (This worked so well and avoided that dreaded box of “what should I do with these?” items.)
  3. Possible places to find new homes for items: Ebay/Poshmark, Facebook Marketplace, Trash Nothing website or the local Buy Nothing Facebook group and as a last resort, Goodwill

I feel a responsibility for the things I have and want to be intentional with how I dispose of them.  Questions I asked myself: If it’s here, what purpose does it serve?  Can I use it up?  Can I enjoy it vs. keeping it tucked away in drawers and boxes?  And if not, can I let it go to someone who may need it more?

So…Month #1!  I haven’t really looked critically at our belongings since we moved in two years ago and…it’s time.  The kids are getting older, our tastes are changing, and it just feels like a big time of transition.  Two big things I learned this month:

  1. I was surprised to feel very emotional as I decided to let things go.  This shocked me because I don’t consider myself to be an emotional person!  However, through the years, I’ve held on to many things that have sentimental value, but actually get rarely used.  So many memories from the early years of my marriage!  It’s time to let someone else enjoy them, but whew!  Some were hard to part with.    
  2. I have all that I need – and a whole lot more.  Lately, I’ve been whining to myself about all the things I don’t have.  Nothing like a good decluttering to see how much I’ve already got!  

I’m really proud of the work I put in this month.  Looking forward to continuing the process in month #2.

WHAT I DECLUTTERED THIS MONTH

  • 44 books.  I sold a set of 20 little religion books on ebay for (after fees) $31, as well as five books the boys read and no longer wanted.  I also donated 11 saint books to our church’s CCD program.  The rest went to Goodwill.
  • 18 pieces of Sophia’s outgrown clothing from last year.  My girl is growing like a weed and has grown out of all of her size 6 fall clothes already.  I made a post on Trash Nothing and received an answer within 10 minutes!  We have been the recipients of so many hand-me-downs over the years and I always love to give another mama that gift as well.  
  • A Christmas dress and shrug.  Sold on ebay for $17.
  • One winter coat. 
  • Two Willow Tree figurines.  This was a hard one because they were gifts, back when we were just beginning parenthood.  They’ve been sitting in a closet collecting dust, so I decided to put them on ebay for someone else to enjoy.  Sold almost overnight for (after fees) almost $13!
  • One board game.
  • A big diaper box full of P’s 2T clothing.  All in all, I think there were 32 pieces with everything from shirts to pajamas to last year’s winter jacket.  I found a mama on Trash Nothing and that makes it so much easier to part with them.
  • 8 old magazines. Into the recycling bin.
  • One arrow quiver for archery.
  • Ten various pieces of clothing. Off to Goodwill.  These were clothes in good condition, but didn’t have much resale value and weren’t substantial enough to warrant creating a post on Trash Nothing.
  • One pair of snow boots.
  • Four brand new pieces of Heather Ross fabric and a new bobbin of thread.  Waaay back in the day, I used to really be into quilting, a skill my grandmother taught me.  I purchased many beautiful fabrics, but life and lots of babies happened and most of that fabric has been sitting untouched in a box for years.  Finally ready to let some of them go.  I listed this group on ebay and they sold for $18.
Items decluttered: 125
Money made: $124.72

P.S. To “count,” the item had to physically leave my house.  So while I have listed a handful of things online, those aren’t counted until they have sold.

October 14, 2019

No.304: Intentions for the End of October

“I cannot endure to waste anything so precious as autumnal sunshine by staying in the house.”
― Nathaniel Hawthorne, The American Notebooks

INTENTIONS FOR THE END OF OCTOBER

  • buy upholstery pins and finally finish the living room chair slipcover project
  • purchase slippers for the kids who need them
  • start collecting items to assemble Birthday Boxes for the food pantry
  • buy a fabric shaver and try to save some of my older sweaters
  • sew the button back on my wool coat
  • condition the leather on my booties
  • clean my indoor/outdoor rug
  • try to take a decent family photo in our yard for Christmas cards
  • make a soup
  • get our oven fixed
  • bake pumpkin chocolate chip cookies
  • give P a haircut
  • catch up on snail mail correspondence
  • hang curtains in the little boys’ room

            PREVIOUS INTENTIONS

            If you’re reading on your phone or in a reader, be sure to click over to see what I checked off the list!

            • continue the 1,000 Item Declutter Challenge (reach 100 items)
            • order daffodil bulbs (my boys even planted them as my birthday present!)
            • figure out what we want to do for family photos
            • read a nature non-fiction book (I’ve started The Lost Art of Reading Nature’s Signs)
            • finish buying birthday presents for D and wrap
            • clean my indoor/outdoor rug

            October 9, 2019

            No.303: The Wednesday Five

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            I recently started reading a new-to-me blog called Through Clouded Glass and I loved the writing prompt she used called The Wednesday Five.  It’s the perfect solution to my almost-mid-month writer’s block!  Here are my five:

            A QUOTE

            Jesus deigned to teach me this mystery.  He set before me the book of nature; I understood how all the flowers He has created are beautiful, how the splendor of the rose and the whiteness of the Lily do not take away the perfume of the little violet or the delightful simplicity of the daisy.  I understood that if all flowers wanted to be roses, nature would lose her springtime beauty, and the fields would no longer be decked out with little wild flowers.
            And so it is in the world of souls, Jesus’ garden.  He willed to create great souls comparable to Lilies and roses, but He has created smaller ones and these must be content to be daisies or violets destined to give joy to God’s glances when He looks down at His feet.  Perfection consists in doing His will, in being what He wills us to be.
            – Story of a Soul by Saint Therese, p.14

            A BOOK

            I’m slowly making my way through The Lost Art of Reading Nature’s Signs by Tristan Gooley and while I’m only about 50 pages in, I’m really enjoying it!  So far, it’s been a good mix of common sense and things I’ve never considered before.  I probably should start taking notes.

            A BIT OF NATURE

            Fall always takes its time to arrive here in Virginia and this year, I’ve had an unexpected treat: the wildflowers that we planted this spring are still blooming.

            A RECOMMENDATION

            I just made a batch of homemade chicken broth and froze it using my new Souper Cubes.  I’m a fan!  Each spot holds one cup, which makes cooking with the frozen “bricks” so easy.  I think I might make a big pot of chicken soup to keep in the freezer (for sore throats and easy winter lunches) next.

            A MOMENT OF HAPPINESS

            One day last week, my oldest took our dog, Lucy, outside to play.  After a little while, I peeked out but couldn’t find them.  I immediately started thinking worst case scenarios (Lucy has had a couple of stressful “book it to the street like a crazy lady” moments) and ran outside in a panic.  To my surprise, I found both my son and my dog sharing a rocking chair and shooting the breeze.

            October 4, 2019

            No.302: This Week at the Farmhouse // vol.07

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            WHAT WE LEARNED 

            + D (5th grade) read Iron Thunder: The Battle Between the Monitor & the Merrimac as part of his Civil War studies.  It was a quick read and he really liked it. 

            + In Around the World, we went to Thailand!  Our favorite book from this country was Hush: A Thai Lullaby.  We also learned about the bumblebee bat, which only has a wingspan of five inches!

            + M’s (7th grade) Ancient History studies have been a little dry, so I tried to liven things up by having him “mummify” one of his brothers in toilet paper.  It definitely wasn’t a very academic activity, but the amount of laughter was 100% worth it.

            + We were gifted a set of Polydrons and while there was a bit of a learning curve, the kids figured it out and now are hooked!  They’ve been making 3D shapes galore all week.

            TEN THINGS I’M GRATEFUL FOR

            small room changes that have a big impact
            my hard working football player
            a fixed lawn mower (finally!)
            when Lucy lays her head in my lap
            hot cups of peach tea
            crunchy leaves all over the driveway
            pink sunsets
            when P takes a nap
            a book I can’t put down
            our home warranty policy

            IN THE KITCHEN

            + On the menu:

            M: pasta and meat sauce with garlic bread and salad
            T: breakfast for dinner – pancakes, bacon and Orange Julius
            W: beans and rice kielbasa skillet
            Th: pepperoni pizza
            F: Mark brought home burgers and fries

            + G is for Granola, so we were going to make our go-to recipe, but our oven broke!  Always something.

            + How much I spent on groceries this week: $280.46

            GOOD THINGS

            + Maybe this notepad will help me stay on top of the housework?

            + I’m considering doing this project for the cold weather months.

            + Have you heard of Rad Mail?  Looks like a fun monthly subscription.

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