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June 3, 2019

No.249: Five Reasons to Send a Letter in June

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If you’ve read here for any length of time, you know that I am a passionate supporter of keeping snail mail alive!  This is a monthly series that I hope will inspire you to start putting thoughts on paper.  There’s nothing like finding a handwritten note among the piles of bills and junk mail.   
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JUNE 3-7 // NATIONAL GARDENING WEEK
National Gardening Week is celebrated on the first full week in June.  This is a great week to jot a note to your favorite horticulturalist or encourage someone to try it out! I would add a little seed packet for a fun touch.
A few gorgeous cards created by small businesses:

  • Clipped Peony Letterpress Card by The Grits
  • “There are always flowers for those who want to see them” Card by Lindsay Brackeen
  • Gardening Greeting Card Set by Lindsey Balbierz
  • Rooting for You Card by Amy Heitman

JUNE 7 // NATIONAL DOUGHNUT DAY 
Celebrated on the first Friday in June, “National Doughnut Day was established in 1938 by the Chicago Salvation Army to raise much-needed funds during the Great Depression, and to honor the work of World War I Salvation Army volunteers who prepared doughnuts and other foods for thousands of soldiers.” (source)  This is a great day to celebrate a delicious sweet treat and thank those who serve others.  Maybe you could deliver a box of Krispie Kremes to nurses at the hospital too?
A few cards created by small businesses:

  • Donuts Watercolor Card by Amy Y Art 
  • Donut Birthday Card by Love Light Paper 
  • You Complete Me Card by Tiny Bee Cards
  • Printable Donut Thank You Card by Pebble Creek Studio 

JUNE 8 // BEST FRIENDS DAY
This one is self-explanatory: time to live it up with your BFF!
A few cards created by small businesses:

  • You’re the Best Letterpress Card by Spacepig Press
  • World’s Best Friend Card by Onderkast Studio
  • Thankful for our Friendship Card by Honey Be Merry
  • Your Heart and My Heart are Old Friends Letterpress Card by DeLuce Design

JUNE 16 // FATHER’S DAY
Dads, husbands, brothers, uncles and grandfathers are all important men we can honor on Father’s Day.  Take the time to jot a few words letting them know how much you appreciate their example, wisdom and humor.
A few cards created by small businesses:

  • Love You Papa Bear Card by Glass Half Full Studio
  • Daddy Dance Letterpress Card by Violet Press and Paper
  • You’re the Best Pop! Card by Mudsplash Studios
  • Outta This World Card by Hmacdo Paper Co.

JUNE 26 // FORGIVENESS DAY
I had never heard of Forgiveness Day before, but I love the idea.  Did you mess up?  Send a card to make amends or set things right.  Has someone hurt you?  Work through those feelings of forgiveness in a journal or a card that you never send.  Use this day as an opportunity to shrug off the heavy load of hurt feelings.
A few cards created by small businesses:

  • I’m Sorry for Being a Cranky Pants Card by Hen Pen Paper Co.
  • Hangry Card by Spade Stationery
  • Push Your Buttons Card by Hello Small World
  • Forgive Me, Pretty Please Card by Onderkast Studio

June 2, 2019

No.248: New Habits, Little by Little: Cooking at Home (End of April & May 2019)

Oh May…you were not a good month for healthy eating.  I debated even posting this because it’s so ridiculous; it seems eating out and frozen food were our staples!  With Lucy finally sleeping through the night and our summer schedule calming down, I’m hoping to get back into a groove soon.

Week 95 (cont.):
Sunday, April 21: Easter! pulled pork, Mark’s homemade mac & cheese, biscuits and strawberries with candy galore for dessert!
Monday, April 22: pulled pork quesadillas
Tuesday, April 23: kielbasa veggie bake with rice
Wednesday, April 24: taco hand pies
Thursday, April 25: breakfast for dinner – crepes
Friday, April 26: frozen taquitos

Week 96:
Saturday, April 27: grilled pork tenderloin and crispy potatoes
Sunday, April 28: Refrigerator Clean-Out Night
Monday, April 29: tacos
Tuesday, April 30: grilled chicken salads
Wednesday, May 1: out for pizza
Thursday, May 2: one pot kielbasa pasta
Friday, May 3: to celebrate the completion of standardized testing, we had ice cream for dinner!

Week 97:
Saturday, May 4: pesto chicken tortellini and veggies
Sunday, May 5: Mark and M had events at church, so the rest of us just had cereal
Monday, May 6: frozen taquitos
Tuesday, May 7: hotdogs and chips
Wednesday, May 8: burgers in town while we were out running errands
Thursday, May 9: breakfast for dinner – breakfast tacos
Friday, May 10: pizza

Week 98:
Saturday, May 11: J’s First Communion! BBQ from his favorite local spot, chocolate chip cookies and ice cream for dessert
Sunday, May 12: Mother’s Day! burgers and hotdogs, chips, fruit salad and Bluebell ice cream for dessert
Monday, May 13: leftovers
Tuesday, May 14: frozen taquitos
Wednesday, May 15: we grabbed burgers while we were in town for a vet appointment
Thursday, May 16: grilled chicken salads
Friday, May 17: Refrigerator Clean-Out Night

Week 99:
Saturday, May 18: Mark’s homemade pizza and s’mores ice cream
Sunday, May 19: we were all sick with summer colds, so just ate whatever sounded good
Monday, May 20: tacos
Tuesday: May 21: one pot cheesy smoked sausage pasta skillet
Wednesday, May 22: cheesy pasta #carbalicious
Thursday, May 23: hotdogs and chips
Friday, May 24: garlic-parmesan sausage and veggies with rice

Week 100(!!!):
Saturday, May 25: Mark’s homemade pizza
Sunday, May 26: cold cut sandwiches, chips and fruit
Monday, May 27: Memorial Day! pulled pork sandwiches, coleslaw and fruit salad
Tuesday, May 28: burgers on the grill and pasta salad
Wednesday, May 29: Refrigerator Clean-Out Night
Thursday, May 30: we grabbed burgers while in town dealing with car issues
Friday, May 31: pork sliders and chips

June 1, 2019

No.247: Intentions for the Beginning of June

It’s June and that means one thing – it’s time to complete my 100 Little Things task to…

WRITE EVERYDAY FOR A MONTH!

Like last year, these posts will be a hodge-podge of the same sort of things I always write about: family, goals, food, books, and home.  In lieu of my usual intentions list, these are a handful of ideas that I hope to accomplish here this month:
  • five fun reasons to send some snail mail in June
  • how we’re welcoming in summer with both big and little ones in the house
  • our favorite iced tea recipe
  • a new list of small businesses from around the United States
  • thoughts on a new book I’m reading (I’m underlining almost every page!)
  • a new skill I’m learning for Homesteading 101
  • a reading project I’ve been quietly working on since January
  • a giveaway to celebrate my blogiversary (it’s been 8 years!)

Writing everyday is a fun challenge for me, but I know 30 posts may be a lot for a reader.  I hope you’ll come along, but I totally understand if you skip out until July. 😊 Here we go!

May 30, 2019

No.246: My Latest Reads // May

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P.S. I highly recommend Book Outlet!  Use my link to receive $10 off your first order of $25 or more.


#27. THE LYING GAME by Ruth Ware
My Rating: ★★☆☆☆

A lie. I’d almost forgotten how they feel on my tongue, slick and sickening.

I enjoyed Ruth Ware’s The Woman in Cabin 10 last year, so decided to give The Lying Game a shot.  And…it was okay.  It’s categorized as psychological thriller, but that may be generous.  Long meandering plot with a lackluster twist.

#28. AMERICAN RADICAL: INSIDE THE WORLD OF AN UNDERCOVER MUSLIM FBI AGENT by Tamer Elnoury
My Rating: ★★★★☆

How do we defeat an enemy who is willing to die for a cause that they believe in?  That is the question I ask every one of my students at the FBI undercover school before I start my lesson on radical Islam.  Over the years, I have heard many different answers, but never the correct one: education.  In order to defeat your enemy, you must first understand them. (p.342)

I had a feeling I would like American Radical just from the description and I was right.  I blew through it in days!  So much respect for undercover agents who have to do this type of work to keep us safe.  (Also available at Book Outlet here.)

#29. THE LAST ROMANTICS by Tara Conklin
My Rating: ★★☆☆☆


What I wanted to say about this man was that the greatest works of poetry, what make each of us a poet, are the stories we tell about ourselves.  We create them out of family and blood and friends and love and hate and what we’ve read and watched and witnessed.  Longing and regret, illness, broken bones, broken hearts, achievements, money won and lost, palm readings and visions.  We tell these stories until we believe them, we believe in ourselves, and that is the most powerful thing of all. (p.195)

The Last Romantics is a hard book to rate.  From the reviews I’ve read, you either love this one or hate it, so take this with a grain of salt.  I enjoyed the first half of this family saga, but felt it took an unnecessary turn with its feminist undertones.  I’m just turned off by the idea that to be a “true” feminist, you must also be anti-men and make them look idiotic or a hindrance to your success.  

#30. BE BRAVE IN THE SCARED by Mary Lenaburg
My Rating: ★★★★★

Back to our choice.  It is our pride – our desire to be in control and fix the situation – that directs us to fight against instead of through trials.  Fighting through challenges allows us to accept the reality of a difficult situation without having the ability to change it.  Oddly enough, fighting against challenges ourselves –  alone – does’t help us avoid the pain; it simply puts off and prolongs the misery.  (p.62)

Acceptance is where healing begins.  Life didn’t get any easier for us.  It did, however, become richer and more filled with love and meaning.  This shift can happen only when you’re ready to hear God’s truth and move beyond your desire and need to fix the situation.  If you wallow in the misery, you allow no room for the joy God has for you.  And there is joy, even in the difficult times. (p.68)

Be Brave in the Scared is the first book I’ve ever pre-ordered!  I have read Mary’s blog and followed her story for years now.  We said prayers and held vigil for her daughter, Courtney, on her last days in 2014.  Mary is funny and real and just an awesome lady.  I knew I would love her new book and I did.  So much honesty and wisdom and the ability to make you laugh and cry, which I think is Mary’s specialty.  Highly recommend.  I definitely think Be Brave in the Scared is the perfect compliment to The Louder Song (the book on suffering I read in April.)

#31. AND THEN THERE WERE NONE by Agatha Christie
My Rating: ★★★★
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“From now on, it is our task to suspect each and everyone amongst us. Forewarned is forearmed. Take no risks and be alert to danger. That is all.” 

Oh my goodness.  Agatha Christie totally fooled me with this one. I’m pretty good at figuring out “whodunit” in these types of mystery books, but I was so wrong with And Then There Were None! What a crazy psycho-thriller of a book.

#32. MWF SEEKING BFF: MY YEARLONG SEARCH FOR A NEW BEST FRIEND by Rachel Bertsche
My Rating: ★★☆☆☆

“Psychologists have long described four major types of friendships,” she wrote. “1) The acquaintance, someone you’d chat with on the street or at a local café, who gives you a sense of belonging; 2) the casual friend, a ‘grab lunch’ pal who often serves a specific purpose, such as a tennis or running partner; 3) the close buddy, an intimate, trustworthy comrade you can say anything to; and 4) the lifer, who’s as deep and forever as family.” Frankel’s research found that women should have 3 to 5 lifers, 5 to 12 close friends, 10 to 50 casuals, and 10 to 100 acquaintances. (3%)

Teenagers spend nearly 33 percent of their time with friends, but that number drops to less than 10 percent for adults. When we do have time for friends, most people would rather spend it with already-established BFFs than having to be “on” with a possible new one. Because when we’re not busy, we’re tired. (23%)

I’ve had MWF Seeking BFF on my Goodreads TBR since 2012, so when I stumbled on it at the library, I snatched it up.  The idea had a lot of promise, but fell short in execution.  Her blanket statements about women and friendship had me scratching my head, mostly because I am the complete opposite of what she describes.  (I think temperament plays a much bigger role than she believes.)  A few interesting parts, but could have definitely been 100 pages shorter.  Just okay for me, although I am inspired to join a local book club now.

#33. THE WIZARD OF OZ by L. Frank Baum
My Rating: ★★★☆☆

“But how about my courage?” asked the Lion anxiously.
“You have plenty of courage, I am sure,” answered Oz.  “All you need is confidence in yourself.  There is no living thing that is not afraid when it faces danger.  True courage is in facing danger when you are afraid, and that kind of courage you have in plenty.” (p.140)

I know this story but have never read the book before!  Now I’m anxious to watch the movie again.  (Also available at Book Outlet – in a gorgeous hardcover! – here.)

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MY READING IN NUMBERS FOR 2019
Books Read: 33
Pages Read: 10,209
Fiction: 19  //  Non-Fiction: 14
Kindle Books: 7  //  Paper Books: 26
Original 2019 books “to-read” total on Goodreads: 424 // Current “to-read” total: 424

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