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August 29, 2018

No.173: My Latest Reads // August

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THE EXPATS by Chris Pavone
My Rating: ★★☆☆☆

The best hiding spots are not the most hidden; they’re merely the least searched. 

I read and enjoyed one of Chris Pavone’s books years ago, so I was excited when The Expats came off the hold list at the library.  A story about a former CIA agent turned stay-at-home mom and the secrets that find her?  Sign me up!  After reading, though, I was a little disappointed.  It read more like a travelogue than a spy thriller, the story line was sometimes hard to follow and I wasn’t invested in any of the characters.  I was happy to close the book and move on.  Just okay for me.  I liked Pavone’s The Travelers way better.

THE BEAR AND THE NIGHTINGALE by Katherine Arden
My Rating: ★★★☆☆

“Nothing changes, Vasya. Things are, or they are not. Magic is forgetting that something ever was other than as you willed it.” (81%)

Another one from the library!  The Bear and the Nightingale is a young adult fantasy, which is a genre I rarely read, but I’m all about expanding my horizons and wanted to give it a shot.  The story is set in fairy tale-like Medieval Russia and is filled with Russian folklore.  There’s demons and spirits and even a vampire, so if that’s your jam, you’ll love this book.  Personally, I have a hard time with that stuff!  (The demons totally creep me out, which I know is ironic given my love for true crime novels.)  A solid three stars.

THE INNOCENT MAN: MURDER AND INJUSTICE IN A SMALL TOWN by John Grisham
My Rating: ★★★☆☆

“God help us, if ever in this great country we turn our heads while people who have not had fair trials are executed…” -Judge Frank Howell Seay

The Innocent Man is a true crime story about a man sent to death row for a crime he did not commit.  It was an interesting book, but long and sometimes tedious.  After finishing, I read some reviews on Goodreads and it seems Grisham may have embellished some of the facts to make the prosecution look worse. Totally a “he said/he said” moment, but it does give the book a little less credibility.

TEARS OF GOD: PERSEVERING IN THE FACE OF GREAT SORROW OR CATASTROPHE by Fr. Benedict J. Groeschel, CFR
My Rating: ★★★☆☆

It’s important to pray quietly and let the sufferings of Jesus sink deeply into your soul, and to match some aspect of the Passion with your own sufferings and sorrows.  Whether your suffering be great or small, whether the catastrophe is something that will pass or a horror that has permanent effects, every one of us can sit down and say with Jesus, “I am so grateful that you are here with me.” (p.59-60)

We who believe in Divine Providence, in life after death, in salvation and resurrection; we, of all people, when faced with catastrophe, must go on with courage, faith, and hope.  We must make things different.  We must not remain fixed in the grief of the past, but move on to doing good and making things better in the future.  The wound of sorrow will always be there.  We don’t want it to go away.  We want the wound to heal and scar.  We can work while the scar exists.” (p.70)

With all the horrible things talked about in the Church right now, I felt like it was an appropriate time to pull this book off the shelf.  While it doesn’t necessarily address the issue at hand, Fr. Benedict had many wise things to say about suffering that were helpful.

STATION ELEVEN by Emily St. John Mandel
My Rating: ★★★☆☆

She was thinking about the way she’d always taken for granted that the world had certain people in it, either central to her days or unseen and infrequently thought of. How without any one of these people the world is a subtly but unmistakably altered place, the dial turned just one or two degrees. (66%)

Post-apocalyptic science fiction isn’t my go-to genre, but after hearing so much buzz for this book over the years, I decided to give it a shot.  And…it was good!  In hindsight, though, after seeing how many people love it, I don’t think I really got it.  One positive: I had fresh eyes filled with gratitude for the modern conveniences we take for granted.

HILLBILLY ELEGY: A MEMOIR OF A FAMILY AND CULTURE IN CRISIS by J.D. Vance
My Rating: ★★★★☆
 
Not all of the white working class struggles. I knew even as a child that there were two separate sets of mores and social pressures. My grandparents embodied one type: old-fashioned, quietly faithful, self-reliant, hardworking. My mother and, increasingly, the entire neighborhood embodied another: consumerist, isolated, angry, distrustful. (58%)


It was in the Marine Corps where I first ordered grown men to do a job and watched them listen; where I learned that leadership depended far more on earning the respect of your subordinates than on bossing them around; where I discovered how to earn that respect; and where I saw that men and women of different social classes and races could work as a team and bond like family. It was the Marine Corps that first gave me an opportunity to truly fail, made me take that opportunity, and then, when I did fail, gave me another chance anyway. (68%)

Another one off the hold list at the library!  There was a lot of talk about Hillbilly Elegy the last few years and you know how much I enjoy a good memoir.  His reflections on his childhood trauma in Appalachia and how that affected relationships as an adult was really interesting.  Overall, I thought the book was insightful and gave me a lot to think about. 

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MY 2018 READING IN NUMBERS

Books Read: 49
Fiction: 27  // Non-Fiction: 22
Kindle Books: 30  // Paper Books: 19
Original 2018 books “to-read” total on Goodreads: 443 // Current “to-read” total: 427

August 27, 2018

No.172: Five August Favorites (A Link-Up!)

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Welcome to the Five Favorites linkup!  Here are five of my favorite things this month:

1 // AN EASY MIDWEEK DINNER
Our favorite weekday meal this summer has been garlic-parmesan veggies and sausage.  The majority of the work is just chopping, which I find strangely calming.  Generally inexpensive and a great way to use up vegetables that are going bad.  I usually make two sheet pans full and a big pot of rice and it feeds my crew with a tiny bit leftover for Mark’s lunch.

2 // PRIME WARDROBE
My oldest started serving at Mass and needed black pants, black socks and black shoes.  He is growing like crazy, so instead of searching multiple stores, we decided to try out Prime Wardrobe.  I chose three pairs of pants (in different brands because I wasn’t sure what would fit him well), a package of socks and black dress shoes.  When the box came, he tried everything on, picked his favorites and we sent the rest back to Amazon.  So easy and a lifesaver for this busy mama. 

3 // MY SMALL PACKAGE SCALE 
Since I’m back to selling things online, I pulled out my trusty postage scale this month.  I’ve had the same one for years and years and it is so handy.  You can purchase shipping from home through USPS and even have them pick up your packages too.  No need to drag six kids to the post office!
4 // ASK FATHER JOSH PODCAST
Mark just recommended this podcast to me, so I’ve been catching up during my runs.  Each episode is a handful of Q&As sent in by listeners and it’s another interesting and entertaining way to learn about the faith.  I’m really enjoying it and the way Fr. Josh randomly breaks into song like he lives in a musical?  So funny and awesome.

5 // NEW SHOES FOR P
Ever since he could walk, we’ve always put P in soft moccassins.  I recently pulled out some of the big boys’ outgrown sneakers for him to wear and oh man, you’d think he was wearing platform shoes!  He wouldn’t walk naturally and it was hilariously pathetic.  I finally caved and bought him a pair of barefoot-like sneakers and all is well in the world again.
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I can’t wait to hear about what you’re loving this month!  Here’s what to do:

1. Write a blog post sharing about five of your favorite things.  You could also share a photo on Instagram too! (hashtag is #bwffivefavorites)  It can have a theme (ie: five of your favorite slow cooker recipes) or just a mishmash like I usually do.
2. Please link back to this post so your readers know where to find the Five Favorites hub (posts not mentioning “Five Favorites” or not linking back to this post will be subject to removal).
3. Not mandatory, but feel free to visit some of the other posts in the link-up!  Sharing and/or leaving a comment is even better.
4. Make sure to add a link to your specific post or Instagram picture, not just your blog address.
Thanks for linking up!


An InLinkz Link-up


August 24, 2018

No.171: Our Farmhouse Schoolhouse in Photos (Week 01)

Every year around this time, I get a twinge of anxiety.  All of the doubts come flying and I wonder: Did I make the right decision?  Is this going to work for all of them?  Am I screwing them up for life?  Public school or homeschool, the agonizing questions are always the same.

We jumped back into school this week and the transition was incredibly easy.  The kids were eager and the younger ones couldn’t get enough.  They were asking for more and more!  Our calendar is filling up with co-op, CCD, Trail Life, and youth group.  What a gift it is to begin a new school year knowing we’re exactly where we’re supposed to be.

August 22, 2018

No.170: Getting Gazelle Intense // Side Hustles Edition

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In August, I focused on a few “side hustles,” making a little money on the side that could be thrown on debt.  I obviously won’t be getting rich off these things, but every little bit helps!  And bonus: I gave a bunch of unused items a new home in the process.

1 // EBATES
It will be birthday season around here starting in September and I’ve started purchasing gifts.  Ebates is helping!  For example, I found a princess set for Sophia on the Playmobil website and they had 2.5% back through Ebates.  Almost $1 back on something I would have purchased anyway!  Total cash back (to date) coming soon: $6.
Quick tip: be sure to install the Ebates button in your browser; it automatically will tell you when a store participates in the program!  So helpful.

2 // FACEBOOK YARD SALE SITES
I have a love/hate relationship with Facebook yard sale sites, but decided to give it another shot.  I haven’t had much luck, but I did manage to sell a brand new grill cover in an easy transaction at the local gas station.  Final profit: $10

3 // EBAY
Ebay is the place to sell all of those random things you don’t know what to do with, but you know have some worth.  I posted some homeschooling books we aren’t using as well as some out-of-print Heather Ross fabric I’ve hoarded and never used.  90% sold in the first week.  Final profit: $107

4 // KIDIZEN
Kidizen is a buying/selling app for children’s clothes, toys and maternity wear.  I posted and sold a backpack.  Next up to list are a few things P has outgrown.  Final profit: $13
P.S. If you sign up with my link, you get $5 off your first purchase!

5 // POSHMARK 
Poshmark is another buying/selling app, mostly for men and women’s clothing although there are kids clothes for sale too.  I listed a handful of pieces from my closet, plus a few things I found on super sale while out shopping.  I’ve had so much fun with this one!  Final profit: $120
P.S. If you sign up with code BWFARMHOUSE you get $5 off your first order!


Do you have any side hustles on your debt-free journey?  I’d love to hear your experiences, tips and tricks!

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