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August 20, 2018

No.169: Intentions for the End of August

It seemed wrong not to post something in light of what’s happening in the Church right now, but articulate words have escaped me.  This Facebook post by Stephen Lenahan has made its way around my circles and while I don’t personally know him, he expressed much of what I’ve been feeling the past week:

To all my non-Catholic friends…please pray for your Catholic friends & family!
The most recent revelations of horrific abuse in our Church are gut wrenching. Right now, we don’t want to have to explain our faith or our religion because we ourselves are extremely vulnerable and raw. And most of us are asking the same questions you are when seeing headlines. Thousands have been physically violated. Some of us are friends with or related to victims. Millions of us have been spiritually violated by the scandal of it all. We are enraged at those who were supposed to shepherd us. We are devastated for the victims. And now we will have to try to root out the filth and rot that has been lurking in the shadows of our hierarchy since they failed in doing so 15 years ago.
You might ask…why don’t you just find a new church/home and be done with it? But it’s not that simple for us. Home is where the heart is and our hearts are devoted to the sacraments, scripture, and tradition we hold dear because they are where we encounter a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. Right now our spiritual home and our hearts are broken. We know our Church to be one that endures the sins of the ages and triumphs for the sake of Christ in spite of the broken humanity that surrounds us. Right now we are trying to figure out how to be like the saints who faced evils in centuries past…but it is gut wrenching and this is why we need your support!
Thank God, like many of you, our hope is in Jesus Christ…not clerics…and so we know that better days are ahead but first we have to endure repentance, shame, anger, extreme reform, and hopefully justice! It will be a purge long overdue but it will leave our Church better than what we inherited. So please…pray for us, pray WITH us, and support us in this uphill battle.
To my Catholic family & friends…saddle up y’all! It’s time to take back our Church and it ain’t going to be easy. No more apathetic Catholics. No more lukewarm Catholics. No more “cafeteria Catholics.” Entrench yourself in prayer and scripture. And be bold in your parishes and dioceses!

“From the crisis of today the Church of tomorrow will emerge — a Church that has lost much. She will become small and will have to start afresh more or less from the beginning. She will no longer be able to inhabit many of the edifices she built in prosperity. As the number of her adherents diminishes, so it will lose many of her social privileges. In contrast to an earlier age, it will be seen much more as a voluntary society, entered only by free decision. As a small society, it will make much bigger demands on the initiative of her individual members…And so it seems certain to me that the Church is facing very hard times. The real crisis has scarcely begun. We will have to count on terrific upheavals. But I am equally certain about what will remain at the end: not the Church of the political cult, which is dead already, but the Church of faith. It may well no longer be the dominant social power to the extent that she was until recently; but it will enjoy a fresh blossoming and be seen as man’s home, where he will find life and hope beyond death.” – Ratzinger in 1969 German Radio Broadcast

INTENTIONS FOR THE END OF AUGUST

  • iron out our new routine as the school year begins
  • make sure we have everything we need for co-op
  • buy new sneakers for M and S
  • schedule Sophie’s Kindergarten immunizations
  • go through the kids’ fall clothes and see what needs to be tossed/purchased
  • replace dryer balls
  • start purchasing birthday gifts for TJ and S
  • weed and mulch the front flower beds
  • write a snail-mail letter
  • research possible places to source inventory for Poshmark
  • commit to 40 days of prayer and fasting for the victims of abuse and the healing of the Church (starts on August 22)

    PREVIOUS INTENTIONS

    If you’re reading on your phone or in a reader, be sure to click over to see what I checked off the list!
    • buy the last supplies needed for school
    • write the first six weeks of lesson plans
    • order two lunchboxes for S and TJ (for co-op) (snagged them for 50% off during Lands End’s big sale!)
    • buy new sneakers for M and S
    • schedule Sophie’s Kindergarten immunizations
    • finally finish my Dorothy Day book (no time yet – I’ve had a steady stream of library holds for almost two months now!)
    • list five items on Poshmark
    • work on the piecing of my “Memere quilt”
    • Draino the bathroom sink
    • hang art in the living room
    • book a photography session for family photos in the fall (we haven’t had photos done since TJ was a year old – WAY overdue!)
    • download the Duolingo app and make a plan to review a little Spanish daily (I’m trying to do at least one lesson every evening before bed…haven’t missed a day so far!)
    • sign up to get on the email list for our church’s HOOPS (Helping Our Own Parishioners) program

    What about you?  What do you hope to accomplish in the next two weeks?

    August 16, 2018

    No.168: Summertime Wins

    We had a wonderfully lazy summer…or so I thought.  For the majority of the last three months, I stayed off of social media.  I was blissfully unaware of what the rest of the world was doing!  I focused on my family and my local community and it was so good.  But with school around the corner, I dusted off my Instagram account, scrolled to catch up, and quickly became riddled with guilt.

    Families were going on amazing trips.  Homeschool moms were schooling through the summer.  Ladies were baking and crafting and just generally being productive and awesome.

    Our summer was nowhere near that exciting.  And in just a few scrolls, our wonderfully lazy summer suddenly seemed boring and lame.  Why does social media have the power to make you feel like you aren’t enough?  After a significant amount of internal scolding, I decided to pull myself out of that ridiculousness and make a list of the things I did do.  Here’s my humble list of summertime wins for 2018:

    + The kids and I learned how to make strawberry jam from scratch with my mom

    + I started baking sourdough bread

    + Mark and I went on a date (!!), the first time in over a year

    + We roasted marshmallows at dusk

    + I painted the front and side doors and finished half of the shutters

    + We hosted friends and family for playdates and celebrations

    + I flew on an airplane alone and spent a long weekend with extended family and my new baby cousin

    + We bought an ice cream maker and made our own dessert

    + I finally finished the paint touch-ups in the living room

    + We surprised the kids with an adventure to the Metro Richmond Zoo and Zaxby’s

    + I went through my Big White Farmhouse office, organized and gave away things, and brought the bookcase up to the school room

    + We hung twinkling lights on the back porch and installed a dinner bell

    + I ran consistently and started making significant progress on my speed and endurance

    + We played baseball and football and ultimate frisbee in the front yard

    + I read 13 books

    + We committed to hardcore debt reduction and were able to pay off over $1,000

    + I started a little reselling side business that’s proving to be fun and lucrative

    + We laughed and played and enjoyed each other’s company

    Turns out that our simple summer wasn’t so bad after all.

    August 14, 2018

    No.167: Our 2018-2019 Homeschool Plan: Term One

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    And just like that, the school year is upon us again!  Charlotte Mason once said, “And all the time we have books, books teeming with ideas fresh from the minds of thinkers upon every subject to which we can wish to introduce children.”  This is the feast of ideas for the first twelve weeks:

    TERM ONE: AUGUST 20 – NOVEMBER 9

    MORNING BASKET
    • Poetry for Young People: Robert Frost
    • The Presidents Visual Encyclopedia
      • Presidential Fact Files
    • First Language Lessons for the Well-Trained Mind: Level 2
    • Art History
    • Read Alouds:
      • From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler
      • The Mouse and the Motorcycle
      • Edge of Extinction #1: The Ark Plan
      • A Long Way from Chicago

    SIXTH GRADE HISTORY
    Spine: Beautiful Feet’s Modern American and World History program
    We are continuing this program from last year.  I haven’t decided yet, but we probably could fill an entire school year just on WWII to current day.  There’s so much to learn!
    Books:
    • Air Raid–Pearl Harbor!
    • Number the Stars
    • The Little Riders (and then watch the movie)
    • Louis Zamperini: Redemption
    • Twenty and Ten
    • Code Talker: A Novel About the Navajo Marines of World War Two

    K-FOURTH GRADE HISTORY
    Spine: Beautiful Feet’s Early American History program and Beautiful Feet’s Western Expansion program
    We’re finishing up the last few books in American History before moving onto Western Expansion.
    Books and Field Trips:
    • George vs. George: The American Revolution As Seen from Both Sides
    • The Winter at Valley Forge
    • The Fourth of July Story
    • Abraham Lincoln
    • Buffalo Bill
    • field trip to Jamestown
    • Abraham Lincoln’s World
    • Daniel Boone: The Opening of the Wilderness

    MATH
    • 6th grade: Teaching Textbooks 7
    • 4th grade: Teaching Textbooks 4
    • 2nd grade: Abeka 2
    • K: Math Lessons for a Living Education: Level 1, Grade 1

    WRITING
    • 6th grade: Writer’s in Residence (part is done at co-op, part is done at home)
    • 4th grade: Usborne Creative Writing
    • 2nd grade and K: illustrated narrations
    LITTLE KIDS READING & PHONICS
    • J: Explode the Code Level 2.5 and Level 3 (this is largely review, but we’re working on his confidence)
    • S: Get Ready for the Code A & Get Set for the Code B
    • S: ABC See, Hear, Do
    • tons and tons of picture books
    SCIENCE
    All of the kids will have their primary science curriculum through co-op.  We’ll supplement with extra reading and/or activities at home.

    • 6th grade: Apologia’s Exploring Creation with Physical Science
    • 4th grade: Earth Science
    • 2nd grade and K: various scientific activities with our co-op
    • Nature Study: Outdoor Hour challenges using the Handbook of Nature Study
    RELIGION
    The three big boys will also be attending religious education at our parish.
    • The Great Adventure Storybook
    • Saint Thomas Aquinas
    • St. Patrick’s Summer: A Children’s Adventure Catechism
    GEOGRAPHY
    Spine: Beautiful Feet’s Geography Through Literature program
    Books:
    • Geography Map Sets
    • Paddle to the Sea
    • Tree in the Trail

    August 10, 2018

    No.166: Our Extraordinary Ordinary Life // August 2018 Edition

    A monthly project featuring ten photos throughout the day that show a peek into our extraordinarily ordinary life.

    Highlights from Thursday, August 9, 2018:

    Such a typical lazy summer day at home.  After breakfast, we played outside for a quick second before it became blazing hot and humid.  (The high was technically only 88°, but the real feel was more like mid-90s!)  The rest of the day included a tempo run, sourdough bread for lunch, and a little lesson planning during naptime.  We did Refrigerator Clean-Out Night for dinner and sourdough waffles with vanilla ice cream on top for dessert.  It was a good day.

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