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April 26, 2018

No.113: My Latest Reads // April

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THE WOMAN IN CABIN 10 by Ruth Ware
My Rating: ★★★★☆

I love ports. I love the smell of tar and sea air, and the scream of the gulls. Maybe it’s years of taking the ferry to France for summer holidays, but a harbor gives me a feeling of freedom in a way that an airport never does. Airports say work and security checks and delays. Ports say… I don’t know. Something completely different. Escape, maybe.

I found The Woman in Cabin 10 at the thrift store and couldn’t put it down!  There are twists and turns throughout and I couldn’t quite figure it all out – a sign of a good book!

IN THIS HOUSE OF BREDE by Rumer Godden
My Rating: ★★★★☆

‘We don’t put much faith in ecstasies here,’ Dame Ursula had told them.  ‘The nun you see rapt away in church isn’t likely to be the holiest.  The holiest one is probably the one you would never notice because she is simply doing her duty.’ (p.41)

In This House of Brede is a beautiful look at monastic life.  I found the book to be a great reminder that priests and nuns, while living a holy vocation, are still human, with likes and dislikes and annoying character traits just like the rest of us!  I was also really struck by God’s hand in Philippa’s life, from beginning to end.  We can’t always see the “why” of situations in our lives, but God is faithful.


FLAT BROKE WITH TWO GOATS: A MEMOIR by Jennifer McGaha 
My Rating: ★★★★☆

Until that moment, self-sufficiency had been a strange and abstract concept, something my forebears had had to do, but nothing I would have chosen. Now, the enormity of what I had been missing all along struck me—this, the simplest of joys, the pleasure of nurturing living things that would then give back to me in return. (46%)

When I was in my twenties and even my thirties, fifty had been unimaginable—a lifetime away. I had so much to do before then. I had kids to raise, a career to tend to, so much to do and see and accomplish. But now, here I was on the cusp of fifty, and the only thing I really knew was how very much I did not know, how much I would never know. (82%)

My life before revolved around doing what I thought I should do or what I believed other people thought I should do, and I was so busy doing those things, I never really understood what I wanted. I didn’t stop consider other possibilities or to listen to those parts of me that longed for a simpler life, for some deeper connection to the people I loved. So I think I have made some progress toward figuring out how to do that, how to create a life that is meaningful with the people I love. (98%)

I stumbled upon this while it was on the front page of my library app.  While I didn’t necessarily agree with the way they handled their money (and the initial lack of responsibility regarding losing everything), I loved the goat antics!  I learned so much about raising goats and kept reading parts aloud to Mark. The lessons she learned because of the catastrophe were so good too.

BRAIN ON FIRE: MY MONTH OF MADNESS by Susannah Cahalan
My Rating: ★★★★★

The healthy brain is a symphony of 100 billion neurons, the actions of each individual brain cell harmonizing into a whole that enables thoughts, movements, memories, or even just a sneeze. But it takes only one dissonant instrument to mar the cohesion of a symphony. When neurons begin to play nonstop, out of tune, and all at once because of disease, trauma, tumor, lack of sleep, or even alcohol withdrawal, the cacophonous result can be a seizure. (18%)

Dr. Najjar, for one, is taking the link between autoimmune diseases and mental illnesses one step further: through his cutting-edge research, he posits that some forms of schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and depression are actually caused by inflammatory conditions in the brain. (80%)

I wouldn’t take that terrible experience back for anything in the world. Too much light has come out of my darkness. (90%)

Brain on Fire is an incredible medical memoir about a twenty-something journalist who within the course of a month, went from being totally healthy to strapped to a hospital gurney with doctors debating whether to admit her to a psychiatric ward.  I found it so fascinating and couldn’t put it down!  I learned so much about the intricacies of the brain and the fine line between psychological issues and neurological ones.



LITTLE BROKEN THINGS by Nicole Baart
My Rating:  ★★★☆☆

Jack’s death taught Liz that sometimes the surface is not an accurate indicator of what lies beneath. Sometimes these things just happen. There’s no way to know. No way to predict. (6%)

Little Broken Things was another one that I stumbled upon at the library.  The story is about a mysterious request from one estranged sister to another to keep a little girl safe and hidden.  It was suspenseful, although I did figure it out quite early into the story.  A little slow-moving, but good.

THE ONE AND ONLY IVAN by Katherine Applegate
My Rating: ★★★☆☆ (more like 3.5 stars)

I can just make out Bob’s little head sticking out of Julia’s backpack. “You are the One and Only Ivan,” he calls.  I nod, then turn toward my family, my life, my home.  “Mighty Silverback,” I whisper. (p.300)

We read this one as our school read aloud for April.  This was a moving story about an adult gorilla living inside a glass cage in a mall and his mission to find freedom for his friend.  I found the book absolutely heart-breaking and said on more than one occasion, “This is just the saddest thing ever!”  I can’t believe it was inspired by real-life events too.

LOST BOY: THE TRUE STORY OF CAPTAIN HOOK by Christina Henry
My Rating: ★★★☆☆

We were still children, for all that we thought we weren’t. We were in that in-between place, the twilight between childish things and grown-up things. Childhood still held out a friendly hand to us, if we wanted to go back to it, while the unexplored country was ahead, beckoning us to come there and see what new pleasures were to be found. (73%)

A pick outside of my usual genres, Lost Boy explores the Peter Pan story through Captain Hook’s eyes.  The premise is a really interesting twist and I don’t think I’ll ever look at Peter Pan the same way again.  A good book, but super dark, violent and bloody.

FOUR SEASONS IN ROME: ON TWINS, INSOMNIA, AND THE BIGGEST FUNERAL IN THE HISTORY OF THE WORLD by Anthony Doerr
My Rating: ★★★★☆

We need habit to get through a day, to get to work, to feed our children.  But habit is dangerous, too.  The act of seeing can quickly become unconscious and automatic.  The eye sees something – gray-brown bark, say, fissured into broad, vertical plates – and the brain spits out tree trunk and the eye moves on.  But did I really take the time to see the tree?  I glimpse hazel hair, high cheekbones, a field of freckles, and I think Shauna.  But did I take the time to see my wife? (p.53)

Anthony Doerr is the author of All the Light We Cannot See, so if you’ve read that one, you can imagine how beautifully written this little book is.  I couldn’t put it down!  I loved his reflections about living in Rome for a year with his wife and twins.  The way he looked at the world in such wonder…it makes me want to look more carefully at my own ordinary life.  And now I want to visit Rome too.  



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MY 2018 READING IN NUMBERS
Books Read: 26
Fiction: 17  // Non-Fiction: 9
Kindle Books: 14  // Paper Books: 12
Original 2018 books “to-read” total on Goodreads: 443 // Current “to-read” total: 435

April 24, 2018

No.112: 20 Things I Love – A Gratitude Journal vol.7

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deep orange sunrises
the smell of freshly mowed grass
frothy milk bubbles on my morning cup of coffee
listening to one brother read aloud to another one
my baby’s long, dark eyelashes as he carefully inspects a toy
bird calls and woodpecker noises
the twinkle in my mother’s eyes when she’s surrounded by her grandchildren
tiny purple wildflowers sprinkled around the mailbox
sidewalk chalk drawings covering our driveway
a novena prayed for a loved one
jotting down notes to send to friends
the salt and pepper growing more apparent in Mark’s beard (so distinguished!)
curtains swaying as the breeze comes through open windows
the rush of riding a bicycle (at full speed – “you can do it, mama!”) with my big boys
five tiny bird eggs snuggled in a nest on top of our porch fan
watching a hesitant writer start to try words out on his own
a countertop basket overflowing with fruit
the way running first thing in the morning changes the entire course of my day for the better
spotting the white tail of a deer as it dashes across our property
this quote from Four Seasons in Rome: “We need habit to get through a day, to get to work, to feed our children.  But habit is dangerous, too.  The act of seeing can quickly become unconscious and automatic.  The eye sees something – gray-brown bark, say, fissured into broad, vertical plates – and the brain spits out tree trunk and the eye moves on.  But did I really take the time to see the tree?  I glimpse hazel hair, high cheekbones, a field of freckles, and I think Shauna.  But did I take the time to see my wife?”

April 20, 2018

No.111: Our Farmhouse Schoolhouse in Photos (Week 31)

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I have major spring fever (already!) and you can tell with the lack of school posts lately.  I think I’m ready for the break more than the kids are!  At almost 17 months, the “baby” is definitely a toddler now and is such a distraction: climbing on the school table, whining constantly for me to hold him, or destroying everything he can reach.  He’s exhausting!  Just five more weeks to go… I think I can, I think I can… 

NOTES AND HIGHLIGHTS

+ We added The Blue Fairy Book to our morning basket and I’m surprised at how much my older boys enjoy the stories.  Favorite so far: Jack the Giant-Killer.

+ M (5th grade) started his Edison unit in science.  He’s reading A Story of Thomas Alva Edison and then keeping a journal, writing as if he were Thomas himself.  It has been a nice way to change up his narrations.  I love seeing his creativity.

+ TJ (age 3) is suddenly fascinated by dinosaurs.  A few of his favorite things right now:

  • Favorite show: Dino Dan (on Amazon Prime) 
  • Favorite picture books: Dinosaurumpus!, Digging Up Tyrannosaurus Rex and we just ordered DK Dinosaur!
  • Favorite toys: TOOB of Baby Dinos
  • His brother and sister have been helping him draw using these art tutorials
+ We have a nest on our front porch fan and just discovered four little white eggs inside.  After a little research, we think they are from an Eastern Phoebe.  We signed up with Nest Watch (a free program with the Cornell Lab of Ornithology) and will be recording our data to help their scientists.  The perfect spring nature study, just two steps from home.

+ Last week, we watched a few episodes of “Chasing Monsters” on Netflix, including one episode where the Bear Grylls/Crocodile Hunter-like host got bacteria samples from the teeth of live sharks to help with shark bite antibiotic research.  It was so random, but also really interesting.  And in some strange way, it tied back to our science bacteria study from a few weeks ago. 

+ We’re starting to wrap up our African Geography Studies for the year – just three weeks left!  This week we went to Zambia and read Beautiful Blackbird.





MOTHER CULTURE & SELF-CARE

+ Health: Running again!  I’m starting slow, just a couple of miles at a time, but it feels good to be back and pain-free.
+ Reading: A random library pick called Lost Boy: The True Story of Captain Hook.  It’s not something I generally read and I’m not sure how I feel about it yet.  It has really great reviews though, so we’ll see.
+ Fun: I’m in a bit of a creative slump right now.  I need to brainstorm to get that spark back!

April 19, 2018

No.110: Our Extraordinary Ordinary Life // April 2018 Edition

A monthly project featuring ten photos throughout the day that show a peek into our extraordinarily ordinary life.

Highlights from Wednesday, April 18, 2018:
  • I was awake at 6:00, but stayed in my warm bed for a good 15 minutes before officially starting the day.  It was cold!
  • The gutter cleaning guys were supposed to come tomorrow, but showed up bright and early today and caught me in a hot mess of an outfit: black leggings, brown socks, an oversized shirt and a navy blue sweater.  My pride is officially gone.
  • I took yesterday off from laundry (such a rebel), but made up for it with four loads today. 
  • I baked a loaf of honey wheat bread for lunch.  We ate it with ham and white cheddar cheese.  Simple and delicious.
  • We spent three hours outside in the sunshine.  The little kids dug in the dirt and the big kids learned how to make different types of knots.  I paced the driveway, drank my afternoon cup of coffee and read my book.
  • P took a morning and afternoon nap and his whiny “I want to be held always” mood changed drastically for the better.  A miracle!

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