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May 13, 2024

No.826: Last Week at the Farmhouse // We Are Meant to Be Naturalists

“Sunday Stroll” by Carl Spitzweg (1841)

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We were all meant to be naturalists, each in his degree, and it is inexcusable to live in a world so full of the marvels of plant and animal life and to care for none of these things. – Charlotte Mason

I have no big “aha!” moments to share this week – just this one quote that I’ve been chewing on from Charlotte Mason.

Hoping to document the abundance around me all year long!

Around here, abundance looks like…

+ beginning a new spring cleaning challenge.  For whatever reason, I am feeling super motivated to deep clean and ruthlessly declutter all the things!  (More on this in tomorrow’s post.)

+ re-purposing old things into something new.  I shredded old paperwork to add to the compost pile.  I also got the tiny bit of candle wax out of a used jar using this tutorial.  Now it holds little monk fruit packets by the coffee maker!

+ the healthy return of all of the perennials in the garden.  Everything is back and more lush than ever!  It’s so encouraging to see the fruits of our hard work and money.

+ selling twelve unneeded items for the Farm Sitter Vacation Fund: three pieces of curriculum, six pieces of clothing, an unused skincare product, a hair scarf and a book.  After shipping and fees, I made $93.44!

Reading //

  • Rectifying the Names: Is Conservation Liberal? from James Krueger at Front Porch Republic
  • Navigating Abundance from Hadden Turner at Over the Field // “Abundance is meant to satisfy us, is meant for our good and well being, and is a richly provided gift. Clearly our societal state of mind showcases we are not being satisfied or improved by the abundances we are confronted with. No — it is clear that what we are confronted with is not abundance, but extravagance and there is a vital distinction between the two terms.”
  • this poem by Maurice Manning:

The Fog Town School of Thought

They should have taught us birds and trees
in school, they should have taught us beauty
and weaving bees and had a class
on listening and standing alone—
the children should have studied light
reflected from a spider web,
we should have learned the branches of streams
spread out like fingers or the veins
of a leaf—we should have learned the sky
is the tallest steeple, we should have known
a hill is a voice inside the sky—
O, we should have had our school
on top and stayed until the night
for the fog to bloom in the hollows and rise
like cotton spinning off a wheel—
we should have learned a dream—a child’s
and even still a man’s—is made
from fog and love, my word, you’d think
with the book in front of us we should
have learned how Fog Town got its name.

New Additions to The List // 

  • Never No More by Maura Laverty
  • Waiting for Snow in Havana: Confessions of a Cuban Boy by Carlos Eire
  • Nuclear Folly: A History of the Cuban Missile Crisis by Serhii Plokhy
  • Into the Silent Land: A Guide to the Christian Practice of Contemplation by Martin Laird // A recommendation from a reader – thanks, Catherine!

Loving //

  • Grandma Donna’s thoughts and advice in her post, Be part of a memory // “How would a child feel if they came for a visit to your house? What would they see, smell, hear? Hopefully they will smell something simmering on the stove, hear only greetings, laughter, happy sounds because all electronics are turned off. The most important is do they feel love?”
  • Blueberry mug cake // My kids found this recipe stashed in my “To Make Someday” notebook and decided to try it out.  A hit.
  • my new Chom Chom roller // Another attempt to keep the obnoxious amount of dog hair at bay.

May 9, 2024

No.825: Making Spring Cleaning Fun

It’s that time of year again.  After a week off my feet, I’m ready to embark on a much needed household challenge: spring cleaning!  And because everyone loves a fun way to accomplish mundane things, I made a little bingo board to keep me motivated.  (I have it glued into my junk journal to keep for posterity.)

Below are some helpful links that I’ll be using as I go through the board:

  • How to Make DIY All Purpose Cleaner from Sunny Day Family
  • How to Organize a Refrigerator from Clean Mama
  • How to Deep Clean a Coffee Maker from Home Talk
  • How to Clean Pillows so they Look Like New from Making Lemonade
  • How to Wash White Clothes and Keep Them Looking as Bright as They Did on Day One from Martha Stewart
  • The Best Ways to Clean Greasy Wooden Cabinets from the kitchn
  • Simplest Way to Clean the Garbage Disposal from The Melrose Family
  • Homemade Outdoor Window Cleaner from Chemistry Cachet

DOWNLOAD YOUR OWN BINGO BOARD HERE!

May 6, 2024

No.824: Last Week at the Farmhouse // Contemplation

“Oleanders and Books” by Vincent van Gogh (1888)

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We live in a breakneck speed world.  Keep up or you’ll be left far, far behind!  (And people will mock you for it too.)  I’ve been thinking about the juxtaposition between that intensity and a section from the preface of Wendell Berry’s Home Economics:

The essays in this book continue an attempt to construct an argument that I began twenty or so years ago.  The subject of the argument is the fact, and ultimately the faith, that things connect – that we are wholly dependent on a pattern, an all-inclusive form, that we partly understand.  The argument, therefore, is an effort to describe responsibility.

Such an argument is necessarily an essay – a trial or an attempt.  It risks error all the time; it is in error, inevitably, some of the time.  The idea that it could produce a verdict is absurd, as is the possibility that it could be concluded.  I am never completely happy with this project, and sometimes I am not happy with it at all.  I dislike its necessary incompleteness, and I am embarrassed by its ceaseless insinuation that it is a job for somebody better qualified.  I keep returning to it, I think, because the study of connections is an endless fascination, and because the understanding of connections seems to me an indispensable part of humanity’s self-defense.

The essays appear here in the order in which they were written, each having been formed under influence of the ones before.  The pattern of the argument, by now, appears to be a sort of irregular spiral; any subject that it has passed through it is likely to pass through again, sometimes saying the same thing in a different way in a different connection, sometimes changing or developing what was said before. (p.ix-x)

Basically, he’s saying that he’s been wrestling with the development of an argument, using essays written over many years to try to clarify/mold one idea.  Isn’t that such a lost art in our age?  To ruminate on an idea, spinning it around and around, looking at it from all angles.  To read and read some more, listening to other people’s opinions and then weighing that against our original ideas.  To fortify those original ideas or yield to a new and better one.  Does anyone still do that?

I think that process takes margin; it won’t compete with the noise of today’s world.  It has to happen in relative silence.  Do your best ideas or prayers or decision-making happen in the shower?  There’s probably a reason for that.

2024 has been the year that I’ve been striving to cultivate the practice of contemplation: turning off the flashy screens and music (even Gregorian chant or classical!) and just sitting in that silence.  No multi-tasking, no distractions, no numbing my worries or stress with the easier choice.  And it is HARD.  It 100% feels like an intentional rewiring of the brain.  But it is also good and life-giving.

A few things I’ve noticed so far:

+ I don’t have knee jerk reactions to the hot button issue of the day.  There’s always something happening in the world and so many people want immediate reactions.  Contemplation allows me to step back from all of the emotional hysteria, learn from all sides and form a rational opinion on my own.

+ Deep thinking, information retention, and focus are all like exercising: the more you practice, the easier it gets.  I’m definitely not in the “easy” stage, but getting closer.

+ The more you learn, the more you realize all you don’t know.  At least for me, this has kept me humble as I seek to understand things more and more.  I also believe that the more you contemplate what you read, the more you buck the idea of binary boxes – you don’t have to choose Team A over Team B!  So much of life is very nuanced and gray.  You don’t always have to pick one side.

+ I see my words on this blog in a new light.  The thoughts I write are a representation of my wrestling with a complex world.  They will always be evolving, fine-tuned over time or possibly completely abandoned.  And this grace should be given to anyone, even when we don’t agree!  Wrestling with a complex world is okay.  This is the human experience.

Hoping to document the abundance around me all year long!

Around here, abundance looks like…

+ the tender way my family cared for me as I healed from my foot debacle.  I wasn’t able to do anything for days and they all stepped up to help, even (lovingly) yelling at me when I tried to hobble around.

+ selling ten unneeded items for the Farm Sitter Vacation Fund: six books, three pieces of clothing and one curriculum guide.  After shipping and fees, I made $52.29!

Reading //

  • Endangered Habitat: Why the soul needs silence from Stephanie Bennett at Plough // “Silence is disappearing. It’s disappearing because we’re being trained to hate it.”
  • Why Children Need Lego Now More Than Ever from Joshua Gibbs at Circe Institute
  • What Will Tech Mean to Gen Z Families? ​A Conversation with Ben Christenson from Hearth and Field
  • Be Present from Katherine Johnson Matinko at The Analog Family // Related to this idea is a book I read years ago but still think about: You’re Not Listening: What You’re Missing and Why It Matters by Kate Murphy)
  • “Two Economies” from Home Economics by Wendell Berry // This quote was thought-provoking:

One of the favorite words of the industrial economy is “control”: We want “to keep things under control”; we wish (or so we say) to “control” inflation and erosion; we have a discipline known as “crowd control”; we believe in “controlled growth” and “controlled development,” in “traffic control” and “self-control.”  But, because we are always setting out to control something that we refuse to limit, we have made control a permanent and a helpless enterprise.  If we will not limit causes, there can be no controlling of effects.  What is to be the fate of self-control in an economy that encourages and rewards unlimited selfishness? (p.68)

New Additions to The List // 

  • The Naturalist: Theodore Roosevelt and His Adventures in the Wilderness by Darrin Lunde // I’m interested in learning more about Theodore Roosevelt and how much he loved the natural world.
  • The Lonely Century: How to Restore Human Connection in a World That’s Pulling Apart by Noreena Hertz
  • Behind the Dolphin Smile: A True Story that Will Touch the Hearts of Animal Lovers Everywhere by Richard O’Barry // I watched an interview with the author and am curious to learn more about his backstory.

Watching/Listening //

  • the latest selection in the Learning to Look series from Fr. Hugh at St. Michael’s Abbey
  • St. Joseph talk from Fr. Sebastian Walshe // A great explanation of Biblical typology.  So good.

Loving //

  • Christian Classics Ethereal Library // A new find and what a gift to the world!  So much wisdom to learn…and for free.
  • RIND “straw-peary” snacks // yum.

May 2, 2024

No.823: Intentions for the Month of May

Well, I managed to find a dramatic way to send off April and enter into May.  On Monday, I had an altercation with the stairs…and the stairs won.  My left foot took the brunt of the fall and man oh man, I haven’t felt such pain since I gave birth seven years ago.  Praise be to God, I didn’t break anything but the bruising looks like Bob Ross painted a “happy little sky” on my foot – a visual masterpiece to commemorate my silliness!  Anyway, I’ve been on the RICE (Rest/Ice/Compression/Elevation) protocol and am trying to see this forced break as an unexpected rest period.  Still making plans below!


A REVIEW OF LAST MONTH’S INTENTIONS
  • schedule standardized testing for May (scheduled for next week)
  • plan out the rest of the school year
  • wash and put away everyone’s flannel sheets and heavy blankets
  • start packing away the kids’ winter clothes (in progress…)
  • put broiler chickens out to pasture
  • buy hen chicks (20 new ladies!)
  • add woodchips to the chicken/duck run
  • muck the chicken coops and duck house (we’ve definitely procrastinated on this one – must complete this weekend!)
  • amend the garden soil in one part of the garden
  • plant onion starts and seed potatoes
  • transplant the tomatoes and marigolds
  • fertilize all of the fruit trees and bushes (running behind on this task too…)
  • send Max and Ruby to the processor
  • move our breeder girls, Sally and Millie, onto pasture (scheduled to head out this week)
  • see if we can find 3-4 new piglets (we think we might have a lead!)
  • order chicken processing supplies (bags, stickers, zip ties, etc.)
  • keep listing on ebay/Poshmark/Pango and add to the Summer Vacation Farm Sitter Fund (update: we’re at 45% of our goal)
  • start a spring cleaning checklist (more on this in a future post)
  • declutter 15+ items in the kitchen (it took me about five seconds to find 15 things in the junk drawer!)
INTENTIONS FOR THE MONTH OF MAY
  • complete standardized testing and wrap up the school year
  • do something fun to celebrate the beginning of summer
  • buy ferns for the front porch pots
  • fertilize all of the fruit trees and bushes
  • add woodchips to the chicken/duck run
  • muck the chicken coops and duck house
  • secure a source for new feeder piglets
  • order chicken processing supplies (bags, stickers, zip ties, etc.)
  • process the first batch of broilers
  • move baby hens to the barnyard
  • finish sowing seeds in the garden
  • schedule bloodwork
  • go through curriculum and sell unneeded books on ebay/Pango
  • declutter the photos on my phone
  • vacuum out the cars
  • bake scones
  • work on my junk journal in new, creative ways (maybe paint?)
  • finish The Iliad
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