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February 29, 2016

{learn goals} What I Learned in February

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(1) MEMORIZING LATIN IS HARD.

I got a wild hair to memorize the Pater Noster (the Our Father in Latin) and wow. So hard.  I listen/watch the chant on Youtube (with the words – crucial) almost daily and am making small victories.  You know you’re a little bit crazy when the house sounds like a monastery and nobody bats an eye!  I told Mark that when I get it down, I’m going to stand in front of the living room and present it like I’m in the fifth grade, hah!


(2) TODDLER WEANING IS ALSO HARD.
TJ will be 18 months in March and I’m ready for a break!  Unfortunately, this is the first time that I’ve had a baby who shows no interest in weaning and I’m trying to figure out what to do.  We’ve reduced nursing to nap and bedtime, but he’s not above having a full-out fit when he doesn’t get his way.  It’s totally a battle of wills and I’m exhausted already.      

(3) GOD’S TIMING IS MYSTERIOUS, BUT I’M GETTING BETTER AT ACCEPTING IT.
You don’t have to read here long to know about me and my never-ending quest for contentment.  We had yet another teaser of an opportunity fall through and while this one stung, I’m slowly learning to accept that God knows best.  I’ve also been repeating the phrase, “And if not, He is still good”, which is sort-of based on Daniel 3:18.  I’m still not sure if God’s answer to our prayers is no or not yet, but God is faithful and I have peace.

(4) MY NEW FAVORITE SAINT IS JOSEPHINE BAKHITA.
I am ashamed to say that I had never even heard of her before working on February’s Living Seasonally post, but after hearing her story, I feel connected to her in a special way.  Not because our stories are similar in any way (the suffering she endured throughout her life was absolutely horrendous), but because I feel she has so much to teach me.     

(5) THERE IS A LOT TO LEARN ABOUT THE STARS.
I’m taking a new class on The Great Courses Plus called Our Night Sky.  When I chose it, I thought, “Huh.  I don’t know much about the constellations and it would be fun to learn along with the kids.”  Um wow.  Astronomy is no joke!  The professor is knowledgeable, but talks fast, and I’m trying my best to keep up!  I’m easily lost when he starts in on how this planet is this many light years away (all of the numbers, ahh), but I’m excited to save up for a telescope and actually learn through hands-on experience.  Until then, I downloaded the Google Sky Maps app on my phone and that’s been really fun to explore with the kids. (Another good resource: printing off the month’s Evening Sky Map) 

(6) WHEN SOMETHING ISN’T WORKING, IT’S OKAY TO CHANGE THINGS UP.
I’ve been in a big exercise rut the last few months.  And then came the “DUH” moment: as much as I love a plan set out for me, sometimes you just need to shake it all up and try something new.  I’ve been trying a variety of exercises and trainers and I’m actually waking up excited to work out!  

(7) MY LAUNDRY DRIES FASTER AND SMELLS BETTER TOO BECAUSE OF ONE SMALL CHANGE.
Through the rabbit hole of Pinterest, I came across this blog post and knew I had to try it myself.  I found a wonderful seller on etsy (more about that shop soon!) and tried them out right away.  And all of the claims in that post are true! 

(8) I SEE COOKING AS A DREADED CHORE AND I WANT TO CHANGE THAT.
I’ll blame it on my very stressful toddler (sorry TJ), but I just have zero enthusiasm for the kitchen right now.  Every meal seems like a chore and I get embarrassingly stressed about what to feed the family and myself.  I stare blankly at my meal planning notepad.  I just can’t get it together and it’s something I want to change.  And that’s got to be the first step to improvement, right?  

(9) I’M STILL BABY STEPPING INTO ESSENTIAL OILS AND VERDICT: SO FAR, SO GOOD!
Last month, I was pretty overwhelmed with all there is to learn about essential oils.  When there is a steep learning curve, I tend to paralyze myself with uncertainty: where do I even begin?!  In February, I decided to just jump in somewhere.  I finally tried the Stress Away from the Starter Kit, which has a roller attachment for applying to your wrists and neck.  (Mark likes it too.)  I took a class about the digestive system and am experimenting with ways to heal some symptoms I’ve been having.  I purchased the V-6 Vegetable Oil, so I can start trying the oils topically.  I have also been adding a few drops to my dryer balls and love the subtle scent on our clothes.   
(My member number is #3507725 if you ever want to order something!)

(10) WHEN YOU FEEL THE PROMPTING OF THE HOLY SPIRIT, ACT.
Too often, I ignore that feeling in my gut for so many reasons: I doubt my ability, I don’t want to impose, I’m afraid I’ll look silly, etc etc.  Trying to remember that trust and going outside of my comfort zone can create good things in this world, if only I have the courage.




What I Learned Archives // January

February 26, 2016

{around here} Week 8/52: Week of 2.22.16


A collection of our ordinary days, recorded every week.


Around here, I have been:


parenting solo while Mark worked a very big conference this week.  He had long days and was only home to sleep before getting up early to repeat it all again.  The kids are understanding and tend to take it all in stride, but Sophie had one sad moment and cried, “This is not a good idea!”  Needless to say, she is quite excited to have her Daddy back this weekend!


playing at the park on Monday with friends.  When the weather is 50 degrees and sunny, especially when the rest of the week is rainy and cold, you take full advantage!  It was so good to smell the fresh air and see my kids running and laughing.  I can’t wait for spring.


reading A Man Called Ove, 84, Charing Cross Road and Bakhita: From Slave to Saint.  I finished the first two and just began the third.  All so good.


starting Easter shopping.  I have everyone’s Easter outfits (thank you, ThredUp!) and have just started on the baskets.  The goal this year (like every year) is simple, practical and fun.  


staring at the coat rack Mark and I made last weekend every time I pass the laundry room.  There’s something so satisfying about seeing a project from idea to finished product, even if there were MONTHS in between the two!


watching TJ and trying to enjoy this adorable, yet challenging stage.  I want to remember how he always gets his white blanket when it’s time to watch a show, how much he loves Daniel Tiger and how he initiates “Ugga Mugga” nose kisses.


homeschool notes:
+ We started a big knights and castles unit and we are excited!  This week, we made catapults, learned about castles (this book is a good one) and are reading Castle Diary as our readaloud.

February 25, 2016

{book report} My Latest Reads // February

As my part of my Learn goals for 2016, I’m reading a variety of styles and genres of books in the attempt to discover new ideas and expand my horizons.  My goal is to read at least 25 this year, of which I’m keeping track on Goodreads.  Are you over there?  Let’s connect! 

Eleanor by Jason Gurley
I’m the annoying girl, who when watching a suspenseful movie, will constantly whisper, “What’s going on?  What’s happening?  I don’t get it.”  And for the first half of this book, I was audibly saying those same words.  A mix of science fiction, fantasy and drama, Eleanor is definitely a book outside of my normal.  It’s the story of a family with generations of tragedy.  Eleanor, the main character, carries much of this grief and through a series of unexplainable events, travels into the unknown in an attempt to again bring peace to her family.  Hard to explain, but a good (albeit sad) read. 
(I received this book from Blogging for Books, but all opinions are my own.)


You: A Novel by Caroline Kepnes
Let me preface this by saying that I don’t recommend this book.  As you know, I’m trying to expand my literary horizons this year and after reading a brief synopsis of this psychological thriller on a blog, I thought I’d give it a shot.  Um…totally not prepared for this one!  While the premise was creepy but interesting (a psychopathic stalker who “falls in love” with a woman he meets in a bookshop), the book itself was way too dark and graphic for my taste.  I pushed through and skimmed the raunchiest parts in hopes for a worthwhile plot twist at the end, but was left disappointed.  I’d definitely pass on this book for something less crude and more entertaining.   


A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman
I’m leading book club this month and can I just say how much I love this book?  An easy read about a grumpy old man who’s really not as angry as he seems.  I love how the Ove’s backstory is given piece by piece, chapter by chapter.  And the way he loves his wife?  Ahh, so good.  

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My Reading in Numbers

Books Read this Month: 3
Total Books Read this Year: 6
Books Read for the Modern Mrs. Darcy 2016 Challenge: 3
A book published this year
A book you’ve been meaning to read
A book chosen for me by my spouse

What books did you read this month?

February 24, 2016

{five favorites} Vol.14: February’s #5Faves Prize Pack

Welcome to the Five Favorites linkup!
A reminder about a new twist I’m adding to the linkup this year: At the end of each month, I’ll be giving away a prize pack to one #5Faves participant!  Here’s how it works: every time you link up a blog post, it counts as one entry.  So if you link up a post every week, you’d get four entries.  I’ll keep track throughout the month and then randomly pick a winner on March 1.  


Since today is the last Five Favorites linkup of the month, I’m sharing the five items in February’s Prize Pack!  A few notes for any newcomers:  I wanted to start the Prize Pack incentive as a way to thank you for visiting here and linking up your posts.  It’s my small way of showing you that your words are being heard!  I read every single entry and try to comment on or share a few (I wish I could do this for every one – not enough hours in the day!)  

The giveaway items I’ve chosen are a mix of some of my favorite things: etsy finds, vintage pieces and little bits picked up from various stores.  All have been purchased by me and nothing has been sponsored.  Here’s what I have for one lucky winner in February: 

1 // “Love Lives Here” Mini Sign from Rustic Little Roost

2 // Gray T-Shirt from Pray Hustle Repeat (now closed!)

3 // “Best Day Ever” Mug

4 // Graze Sharing Bag of Salted Fudge & Peanut Cookie

5 // Hair Ties from The Giving Girl


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I’d love to hear above five of your favorite things too!  Need some ideas?  Here are a few to get you started:
+ Spring is just around the corner.  What are five things you can’t wait for?
+ Have you started your Easter basket shopping?  Share five ideas.
+ Tell us about your favorite clothing store and five tips for shopping there.


An InLinkz Link-up


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