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June 30, 2023

No.753: June in Review & Goals for July 2023

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My biggest goals for June were to significantly slow down the pace (it’s the year of endurance after all!), refocus my attention on my neglected house (in dire need of some deep cleaning), and make a few fun memories with the kids.  And I’m happy to say that I think we accomplished most of that!  I started off the month teetering on the precipice of exhaustion and burn out, but I think I addressed the issue before reaching disaster territory.  This life is a marathon not a sprint, and I’m constantly relearning how to pace myself.

FIVE THINGS I LOVED
  1. hours and hours with a book in my hands
  2. supporting our friend in a local theater rendition of Beauty and the Beast
  3. super fun cousin playdates
  4. a much-anticipated visit with my aunt and uncle (we haven’t seen them since 2017!)
  5. watching the little piglets grow and grow
THREE LESSONS I LEARNED
  1. 65% of fourth graders in the United States are not proficient readers. // I learned this from the Sold a Story podcast.
  2. “I will humble myself more for those virtues which I lack than pride myself on those I possess.” // Wise advice from Saint Augustine!  I read this in my current religious reading, Humility of Heart, (p.27).
  3. There are so many ransomware attacks happening right now. // I randomly heard about a ransomware attack on the city of Augusta, GA so I did a little bit of investigating.  Turns out this is happening just about everywhere to all kinds of places!  This website has a good summary of who has been affected so far this year.
FIVE “LITTLE PEOPLE” WE SUPPORTED
  1. Farm goods from a farmer friend
  2. Eggs from another farm friend (a fox has been eating our hens!)
  3. School books from a few different sellers on ebay
  4. Ice cream from a local ice cream shop
  5. Books for my daughter from a seller on Pango
FIVE GOALS FOR JUNE REVIEWED
  1. Try to write on the blog more frequently. // Meh.  A little better than the last couple of months, but not great.
  2. ✔ Go back to “strict-ish” intermittent fasting and no sugar. // Considering this goal a success.  This ebbed and flowed throughout the month, but better habits are being formed again!  I definitely indulged in some summer treats, but reducing my eating window and being intentional about my choices has me feeling so much better.
  3. ✔ Complete a summer reading challenge during June. // Yes!  The challenge was to read 100 pages every day.  Assuming I meet my goal today, I will have had a 63% completion rate and will have read 3,276 pages.  Not bad!
  4. Get a replacement for a broken piece of siding. // This task turned out to be trickier than I anticipated.  We know of a place where we can buy the single piece of siding, but it’s a bit of a drive.  Hoping to fit this in our schedule in July.
  5. ✔ Powerwash all the things (the house, rocking chairs, etc). // Is there anything more satisfying than powerwashing?!  One of my favorite yearly tasks.  Everything looks so fresh and clean!
FIVE GOALS FOR JULY
  1. Continue our “tour” of local ice cream shops.
  2. Clean and pack away all of the broiler gear after processing.
  3. Learn how to can homemade tomato sauce.
  4. Get our master bedroom fan replaced.
  5. Wean the piglets off of Mama and get her out to pasture.

Help me transition away from “traditional” blogging income streams while still keeping the lights on at the BWF!

June 28, 2023

No.752: What I Read in June 2023

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#37. WHEN WE BELIEVED IN MERMAIDS by Barbara O’Neal // ★★☆☆☆
(amazon // bookshop // better world books)

First line: “My sister has been dead for nearly fifteen years when I see her on the TV news.”

Well, this was a terribly sad book!  Every horrible thing that could happen seemed to have occurred to the two main characters.  It veered into the unbelievable.  I also didn’t realize there was going to be a strong romance component and there were a few too many open door love scenes for my taste.  Just okay.  (I also read this for my Reading the Alphabet Challenge.)

#38. VERMILION DRIFT by William Kent Krueger // ★★★★☆
(amazon // bookshop)

First line: “Some nights, Corcoran O’Connor dreams his father’s death.”

Number ten in the Cork O’Connor series and what a page turner!  I flew through this in less than two days.  Fair warning, though: this one had some really dark themes.

#39. A RAISIN IN THE SUN by Lorraine Hansberry // ★★★☆☆
(amazon // bookshop // better world books)

First line: “The Younger living room would be a comfortable and well-ordered room if it were not for a number of indestructible contradictions to this state of being.”

Changing things up with a play.  I read along while watching this production on Youtube (it’s not a word for word match, but close enough) and it was good!

#40. DEAR MRS. BIRD by AJ Pearce // ★★★☆☆
(amazon // bookshop // better world books)

First line: “When I first saw the advertisement in the newspaper I thought I might actually burst.”

This is a novel set in London during World War II about a young woman who becomes a secret advice columnist.  Some parts of the book were light and fluffy, some parts showed more of the reality of war.  Good, but a little forgettable.  (I also read this for my Reading the Alphabet Challenge.)

#41. CAUSE OF OUR JOY: WALKING DAY BY DAY WITH OUR LADY by Mother Mary Francis, PCC // ★★★★☆
(amazon // bookshop)

First line: “The Catechism of the Catholic Church has a most heart-shaking line about Our Lady: ‘In the faith of his humble handmaid, the Gift of God found the acceptance he had awaited from the beginning of time’ (CCC 2617).”

I love Mother Mary Francis’ writings.  This one centered around Mary was beautiful.

#42. AFTER THE FUNERAL by Agatha Christie // ★★★☆☆
(amazon // bookshop // better world books)

First line: “Old Lanscombe moved totteringly from room to room, pulling up the blinds.”

A solid Agatha Christie mystery.  The reveal at the end was really good (I didn’t guess “whodunit” which is typical for me with AC books) but I was disappointed that Poirot seemed to only have a minor part in the story this time.

#43. NAGASAKI: LIFE AFTER NUCLEAR WAR by Susan Southard // ★★★★★
(amazon // bookshop // better world books)

First line: “Off the eastern coast of the Asian continent, five hundred miles from Shanghai and less than two hundred miles south of the Korean Peninsula, a long, narrow bay carves deeply into the western coast of Kyushu – Japan’s southernmost main island.”

Whoa.  Everyone who flippantly supports nuclear war should read this book.  Absolutely devastating.  A few related things I discovered along the way:

  • this sobering and eye-opening site called Nuke Map
  • a documentary on Formed called All That Remains: The Story of Takashi Nagai
  • “Appeal for Peace at Hiroshima”, an address from Pope John Paul II in 1981
  • more books to read: Hiroshima and The Bells of Nagasaki

(I also read this for my Reading the Alphabet Challenge.)

#44. THE UNTHINKABLE: WHO SURVIVES WHEN DISASTER STRIKES – AND WHY by Amanda Ripley // ★★★★☆
(amazon // bookshop // better world books)

First line: “On February 26, 1993, when terrorists attacked the World Trade Center for the first time, Elia Zedeno was in an express elevator carrying a slice of Sbarro’s pizza.”

I really enjoyed this!  If you’ve ever wondered how you might react during a disaster, this book walks you through some of the common behavioral responses with lots of anecdotal stories to illustrate.  You’ve probably heard of fight or flight responses, but did you know how many people actually just freeze?  I found all of it fascinating.  Knowledge is empowering.

#45. MRS. DALLOWAY by Virginia Woolf // ★★☆☆☆
(amazon // bookshop // better world books)

First line: “Mrs. Dalloway said she would buy the flowers herself.”

Whew!  This one was a rough read.  The story is written as a stream of consciousness (I can’t imagine what my brain would look like all written out, ha!) through the minds of different characters…and it’s a lot.  Proud of myself for powering through!  (This was also my 1925 pick for The 20th Century in Literature Challenge.)

#46. DEATH IN THE CLOUDS by Agatha Christie // ★★★☆☆
(amazon // bookshop // better world books)

First line: “The September sun beat down hotly on Le Bourget aerodrome as the passengers crossed the ground and climbed into the air liner Prometheus, due to depart for Croydon in a few minutes’ time.”

My 7th grader and I have been on an Agatha Christie kick this summer and he recommended this one to me.  Another interesting mystery where I couldn’t guess the killer.

#47. THE OVERSPENT AMERICAN: WHY WE WANT WHAT WE DON’T NEED by Juliet B. Schor // ★★★☆☆
(amazon // bookshop // better world books)

First line: “In 1996 a best-selling book entitled The Millionaire Next Door caused a minor sensation.”

This book was written in 1998, so while the examples are a little dated, the concepts still definitely apply.  (Maybe with the invention of social media apply even more!)  Very well researched, but I disagreed with some of her solutions to the problem.  (I also read this for my Reading the Alphabet Challenge.)

#48. UNNATURAL ENDS by Christopher Huang // ★★★☆☆
(amazon // bookshop)

First line: “In the beginning was Linwood Hall, and Linwood Hall was the world.”

Unnatural Ends is a mystery set in 1921 after the death of Sir Lawrence Linwood. When his three adopted children come home for the funeral, they learn that their father was brutally murdered.  And according to his will, the one who can solve the crime will inherit his estate.  Throughout the book, we discover Sir Lawrence Linwood’s dark, manipulative history and how that affects his children.  An interesting premise, but I felt like it was 100 pages too long.  (And thank you to Netgalley for the opportunity to read this book.  Unnatural Ends was released on June 20, 2023!)


MY UNREAD SHELF PROJECT

Unread Books as of January 1, 2023: 207
Books Finished in June: 12
Finished Books Donated/Sold in June: 4
Books Added: +11 (a summertime treat!)
Unread Books Remaining: 193

June 26, 2023

No.751: Homemaking Notes on a Monday // Vol.44

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The weather outside is //

As I look outside my window // I’m so grateful for all of the rain we received last week!  (And from the forecast above, it looks like there’s more coming our way.)  My garden and the pastures definitely needed a good soak.  The downside is that the weeds also love the extra moisture and are popping up everywhere!  I’ve gotten in the habit of spending an hour or two every morning trying to tamp down the invasion.  It’s a losing battle, but something’s better than nothing.

As I look around the house // I’m feeling the itch to declutter and organize again.  This spring has been so fast-paced and I’ve just tried to keep my head above water.  But if I say, “I know we have that, but I don’t remember where I put it” one more time…I’m going to go crazy!

On this week’s to-do list //
– finish and mail the 2023-24 homeschool intent package
– figure out how to catch a sneaky fox that’s been eating our chickens (we bought a trap!)
– figure out how to keep pigs inside the permanent paddock (Ethel and the piglets have broken out 3 times in 4 days!)
– start hauling woodchips to the barnyard
– organize the garage
– bake bread

Currently reading // 

  • Fiction: Unnatural Ends by Christopher Huang
  • Nonfiction: The Politics of Envy by Anne Hendershott
  • Religious: Humility of Heart by Fr. Cajetan Mary da Bergamo

On the menu this week //

Monday: chicken caesar wraps
Tuesday: pulled pork
Wednesday: pesto chicken tortellini and veggies
Thursday: leftover pulled pork nachos
Friday: TBD – something with shrimp?

June 21, 2023

No.750: The Wednesday Five #32

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Happy Wednesday!

A QUOTE

Daily exposure to an economically diverse set of people is one reason Americans began engaging in more upward comparison.  A shift in advertising patterns is another.  Traditionally advertisers had targeted their market by earnings, using one medium or another depending on the income group they were trying to reach.  They still do this.  But now the huge audiences delivered by television make it the best medium for reaching just about every financial group.  While Forbes readers have a much higher median income than television viewers, it’s possible to reach more wealthy people on television than in the pages of any magazine, no matter how targeted its readership.  A major sports event or an ER episode is likely to deliver more millionaires and more laborers than a medium aimed solely at either group.  That’s why you’ll find ads for Lincoln town cars, Mercedes-Benz sports cars, and $50,000 all-terrain vehicles on the Super Bowl telecast.  In the process, painters who earn $25,000 a year are being exposed to buying pressures never intended for them, and middle-class housewives look at products once found only in the homes of the wealthy. – The Overspent American: Why We Want What We Don’t Need, p.10

This book was written in 1998 so naturally, the examples are a bit dated.  Yet I can’t help but think that this idea has exploded since the invention of social media!  We are constantly bombarded with photos and products and lifestyles that most of us cannot afford, which leads to envy, dissatisfaction, unhappiness and a lot of debt.  I’m excited to keep reading and learn about her solution to this problem.

TABS OPEN IN MY BROWSER RIGHT NOW
  • this site for canning recipes (getting ready for tomatoes!)
  • this book about Sister Mary Wilhelmina
  • this DIY stepping stone tutorial
A BEAUTIFUL PIECE OF ART

The Blue Kitchen by Margaret Olley

AN INSPIRATIONAL VIDEO

I loved this video about the Fairfield Carmelites and the attention and care taken for their new monastery.  I’ve been inspired to make the ordinary spaces of my home beautiful, just like them.

A LITTLE HUMOR

A true to life picture of myself last week!  We managed to go without air conditioning throughout most of May and I was really hoping for a cheaper bill.  No such luck.  What do electricity costs look like where you live?

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