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March 10, 2023

No.738: Five Good Things // Vol.16

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1 // BACK TO MY CHILDHOOD HAIR ACCESSORIES

Back in December, I learned that tying your wet hair back with elastic hair ties was terrible for your hair health.  I was doing that all the time, oops!  Thankfully, my daughter generously let me borrow one of her scrunchies until I can buy more for myself.  And update: it’s hard to explain in words, but I can see new growth and can feel strength in the area where the elastics would normally rest.  Really exciting!  (P.S. The scrunchies we use are from etsy seller, Vivacie, and are such great quality!  They’d make a great Easter basket filler.)

2 // A NEW ADDITION TO THE KITCHEN

My husband is a big fan of cast iron skillets, but wanted something a little lighter.  He recently got a Matfer fry pan and loves it.  It’s made with carbon steel and had to be seasoned just like cast iron.  With proper care, it should last us a long, long time.

3 // THIS PASSAGE FROM MY LENTEN READING

We are now living in a time of faith.  The Holy Spirit writes no more gospels except in our hearts…We, if we are holy, are the paper; our sufferings and our actions are the ink.  The workings of the Holy Spirit are his pen, and with it he writes a living gospel; but it will never be read until that last day of glory when it leaves the printing press of this life.

And what a splendid book it will be – the book the Holy Spirit is still writing!  The book is on press and never a day passes when type is not set, ink applied and pages pulled.  But we remain in the light of faith.  The paper is blacker than the ink and the type is pied; the language is not of this world and we understand nothing.  We shall be able to read it only in heaven.  We could understand something of the complexity of God’s activity if we could see our fellow humans not just as they appear superficially but in their very essence and see, too, how God is working on and within them.  Yet there are difficulties.  How can we read this book when its letters are unknown, of infinite variety and upside down, and its pages smeared with ink?  Just think what an infinite number of different and worthwhile books are produced by the mixing up of twenty-six letters.  We cannot understand this wonder, so how can we comprehend what God is doing in the universe?  How can we read and understand so vast a book, one in which every single letter has its own special meaning and, within its tiny shape, contains the most profound mysteries?  We can neither see nor feel these mysteries.  Only by faith can they be known…

So teach me, Holy Spirit, to read in this book of life!  I long to become your disciple and, like a little child, to believe in what I cannot see.  It is enough for me that my master speaks.  He talks and explains, arranges the letters of the book and makes it comprehensible.  That is all I need.  (Abandonment to Divine Providence, p.45)

4 // AN ADDED-SUGAR FREE SWEET TREAT

Have you ever tried dates in the refrigerator?  I was never a big fan of them at room temperature, but after getting a tip that they tasted incredible chilled, I’ve been converted!  Super sweet and almost a taffy, caramel consistency.  Yum.

5 // A SOLUTION FOR PESKY, ALWAYS MOVING THROW RUGS

We had a throw rug near our side door which never seemed to stay in place.  The kids would accidentally kick it around, the door would catch on a curled corner…it was a first-world problem frustration, ha!  Enter: Gorilla Grip.  It’s a double-sided adhesive strip that you stick to the bottom of the rug and then the floor.  No more movement!  Supposedly, it’s removable and reusable too, but I haven’t tried yet.

March 1, 2023

No.737: February in Review & Goals for March 2023

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FIVE THINGS I LOVED
  1. a new licensed driver in the house!
  2. our sweet little kitten
  3. the new gravel pathway in the garden
  4. my husband’s dietary changes that are making a difference
  5. opening the windows on a record-breaking hot day
THREE LESSONS I LEARNED
  1. My reaction to hardships last fall may have been due to my poor nutrition. // I’m obviously not a doctor and can’t really prove this, but I can feel a huge difference in my mental health since focusing on proper nutrition.  Last fall, my diet was terrible, with lots of sugary treats, and I felt like I couldn’t handle life.  2023 hasn’t gotten easier, but my response is completely different.  Amazing.  I’m so grateful.  I’d like to find some books that dive into the connection between nutrition and stress/depression/anxiety.
  2. There’s a reason that kitten collars have bells on them. // I thought it was a little silly but I now see how handy that is!  The kitten is so tiny and mischievous and we often can’t find him anywhere.  Thank goodness for that bell.  (Even if it is quite annoying and I now hear ringing bells in my sleep, ha!)
  3. I really, really love this farming life. // I feel like I harp a lot about the amount of work required to start a new farm (which is true) and don’t spend enough time talking about how much I love it.  I love being outside, I love creating something beautiful from nothing, I love giving my animals the best life possible.  It’s a hard life, but a good one.
FIVE “LITTLE PEOPLE” I SUPPORTED
  1. Books from an amazing(!!) used bookstore
  2. Caramels from Farmhouse Chocolates
  3. Gravel from a local nursery
  4. Greeting cards from Cheeky Beak Card Co.
  5. A tea towel from Jean Choe Art & Design
FIVE GOALS FOR FEBRUARY REVIEWED
  1. ✔ Go on a date with my husband. // We went on a day date for his birthday and had so much fun.
  2. ✔ Start seeds under grow lights. // Yes!  Tomatoes, jalapenos, marigolds and celery have been started with many, many more to come.
  3. ✔ Send out Valentines to far-away family members. // Yes!  I mailed cards and a few treats to our little cousins (the under-6 crowd) and chocolates for my mama, just because.
  4. Do a quick decluttering and then drop off the donations. // I had the best of intentions, but didn’t even start this project.  No time!  Maybe next month.
  5. ✔ Choose a book for Lent. // I’ll be reading Abandonment to Divine Providence.  (The post with the reading schedule is here.)
FIVE GOALS FOR MARCH
  1. Get everything prepared for chick arrival.
  2. Install the fence around the garden.
  3. See if we can find dining room chairs that will closely match the ones we already have.  (Maybe the Amish outlet?)
  4. Purchase Easter basket goodies.
  5. Deep clean my master closet.

Help me transition away from “traditional” blogging income streams while still keeping the lights on at the BWF!

February 28, 2023

No.736: What I Read in February 2023

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#8. EAST OF EDEN by John Steinbeck // ★★★☆☆
(amazon // bookshop // better world books)

First line: “The Salinas Valley is in Northern California.”

I read this chunky novel for book club.  (Not sure if I would ever pick this up on my own, so I’m glad for the push!)  A quote I’ve been thinking about: “In uncertainty I am certain that underneath their topmost layers of frailty men want to be good and want to be loved.  Indeed, most of their vices are attempted short cuts to love.  When a man comes to die, no matter what his talents and influence and genius, if he does unloved his life must be a failure to him and his dying a cold horror.  It seems to me that if you or I must choose between two courses of thought or action, we should remember our dying and try so to live that our death brings no pleasure to the world.” (p.412-413)

#9. THE SATURDAYS by Elizabeth Enright // ★★★★☆
(amazon // bookshop // better world books)

First line: “‘It would have to rain today,’ said Rush, lying flat on his back in front of the fire.”

We read this one for school read aloud.  The story is about four siblings who pool their weekly allowance so each child can experience something exciting outside the house.  I especially loved that the siblings were so good to each other, so unlike many modern books that emphasize sibling rivalry or annoyance.  (This book was also my 1941 pick for the 20th Century in Literature Challenge.)

#10. ARSENIC AND ADOBO by Mia P. Manansala // ★★★☆☆
(amazon // bookshop // better world books)

First line: “My name is Lila Macapagal and my life has become a rom-com cliche.”

More than half of my friends in high school were Filipino, so this cozy mystery was such a blast from the past!  From the attentive aunties to the delicious meals of lumpia, pansit and adobo, I loved all of the Filipino references.  The story itself was decent; a solid three star read.

#11. ONLY ONE LIE by Audrey J. Cole // ★★★☆☆
(amazon // bookshop)

First line: “Hattie sat up in bed at the sound of a door slamming.”

There is a lot going on in this book!  Set in WWII, the main character is a female pilot who becomes involved in solving a mystery regarding a kidnapped child, much like the Lindbergh baby case.  While I found it to be a quick read, there were just too many pieces that felt completely unbelievable.  (P.S. Thank you to Netgalley for the opportunity to read this book!  Only One Lie was released back in December 2022!)

#12. JUST SEND ME WORD: A TRUE STORY OF LOVE AND SURVIVAL IN THE GULAG by Orlando Figes // ★★★☆☆
(amazon // better world books)

First line: “Lev saw Svetlana first.”

From the description: “In 1946, after five years as a prisoner―first as a Soviet POW in Nazi concentration camps, then as a deportee (falsely accused of treason) in the Arctic Gulag―twenty-nine-year-old Lev Mishchenko unexpectedly received a letter from Sveta, the sweetheart he had hardly dared hope was still alive. Amazingly, over the next eight years the lovers managed to exchange more than 1,500 messages, and even to smuggle Sveta herself into the camp for secret meetings. Their recently discovered correspondence is the only known real-time record of life in Stalin’s Gulag, unmediated and uncensored.”  Really interesting look at human resilience and the power of love.  (I also read this for my Reading the Alphabet Challenge.)

#13. THE ICE CREAM GIRLS by Dorothy Koomson // ★★★☆☆
(amazon // bookshop // better world books)

First line: “Serena Gorringe, I love you.”

A good lesson in not judging a book by its cover: while this looks like chick-lit, it’s actually much deeper and darker.  There are themes like domestic abuse and inappropriate relationships between teachers and students.  I couldn’t put it down, although I did have to suspend my belief quite a bit.  At the end, I felt like this book showcased (unintentionally?) the far-reaching consequences of sin.  2.5 stars, rounded up.  (I also read this for my Reading the Alphabet Challenge.)


MY UNREAD SHELF PROJECT

Unread Books as of January 1, 2023: 207
Books Finished in February: 6
Finished Books Donated/Sold in February: 2
Books Added: +7
Unread Books Remaining: 209

February 24, 2023

No.735: Around the Farm in February 2023

Another expensive, but really productive month on the farm!  I’ve been getting outside and working on farm chores/projects each morning (for at least 30 minutes) and that has done so much for my mental health.  Regardless of what the rest of the day looks like, I know something farm-related was accomplished and I don’t feel like an overwhelmed failure.  A few other accomplishments:

+ The biggest and most time intensive project was installing gravel on the garden pathways.  Lots and lots of hauling the wheelbarrow back and forth.  Halfway through, my husband brought home a Gorilla duel wheel wheelbarrow, and while I balked at the price, it’s worth its weight in gold!  We knocked out the rest during a long weekend and oh man, the finished project is so neat and tidy.  I’m obsessed!  It looks so great.

+ We ordered animal feed in bulk, so we’re all ready for the first batch of broilers next month.  We also ordered rolls of Critterfence to protect all of the plants and trees from deer and the chickens.  Lastly, in anticipation of little piglets this spring, I ordered items for birth including shoulder length OB gloves and materials for castration.  Oooh boy, what have we gotten ourselves into?!  I’m excited and terrified.

+ Seed starting has begun!  Tomatoes, jalapenos and marigolds are all under the grow lights and I direct seeded two types of spinach.  Much more to come.

+ I planned out a new compost system using pallets and wire we already own.  (My inspiration came from this post.)  It will go inside the food forest/garden area, making it easily accessible.

Here’s what we were doing on the farm last February 2022!
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