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October 4, 2021

No.571: Last Week at the Farmhouse // Keeping Busy

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I’ve been in my head too much lately and all the worries and stressors and to-do lists and contingency plans have been reeking havoc. I feel like I’ve been walking in a fog…there but not there, distracted. I finally had to put my foot down and firmly say, “Self, it’s time to stop thinking and start doing. We have (pardon my ‘French’) shit to do.” So I did.

+ I found two little packs of water beads left over from years ago and surprised the little boys with them one morning.  They were thrilled!

+ In honor of Saint Therese’s feast day, I made sacrifice beads with my daughter.

+ We’ve officially declared that Wednesday afternoons are for baking.  This week, we made thumbprint cookies (using delicious Four Fruits jam!), English muffin bread and a coffee cake.

+ I just started reading Get Your Life Back: Everyday Practices for a World Gone Mad and I stopped in my tracks with this paragraph: “Thanks to the smartphone and the web, you are confronted on a daily basis with more information than any previous generation had to deal with!  And it’s not just information; it’s the suffering of the entire planet, in minute detail, served up on your feed daily.” (emphasis mine, p.4)  This put in words something I have felt, but couldn’t describe.  While it’s important to be aware of the suffering of others around the world, is man supposed to shoulder the burden of everyone all the time?  For me, that burden sometimes feels crushing.

Eldredge provides a solution to this that he calls benevolent detachment: “You’ve got to release the world; you’ve got to release people, crises, trauma, intrigue, all of it.  There has to be sometime in your day where you just let it all go.  All the tragedy of the world, the heartbreak, the latest shooting, earthquake – the soul was never meant to endure this.  The soul was never meant to inhabit a world like this.  It’s way too much.  Your soul is finite.  You cannot carry the sorrows of the world.  Only God can do that.  Only he is infinite.  Somewhere, sometime in your day, you’ve just got to release it.  You’ve got to let it go.” (p.24)  Thought provoking.

+ The entire family has been playing Trouble and it’s pretty intense!  We even made a family leaderboard on the chalkboard and sadly, I’m nowhere near the top, ha!  Hoping to win a few this week.

October 1, 2021

No.570: Living Intentionally in October

Well, September was a bit of a bust.  Some of us were sick at the beginning of the month and I never seemed to regain my momentum!  We didn’t complete most of the list, but some months are like that.  A few highlights from last month: We celebrated the Nativity of Mary with my daughter’s cookie bars.  We also observed the fall Ember Days.  The boys continued cutting firewood and we got a good start on our property fence.  I tidied up the coat closet and pulled out too small or unneeded coats to sell on ebay.  I also wiped down the light switches and knobs, which was perfect timing after being sick!  My biggest project of the month was finally finishing the painting on the little boys’ headboards.  I slowly started rotating the kids’ clothes as the temperature starts to cool.  Here’s what I’ve got for October:

Eating Seasonally 

Bring on all the cozy, comfort foods!  I am excited to start adding soups and stews to our dinner menu this month.  Also in season in October:

  • apples
  • pumpkins
  • sweet potatoes
  • squash
  • cranberries
Celebrating the Liturgical Year

The month of October is dedicated to the Holy Rosary.  In my Saintmaker Planner, it says, “In 1206, Mary appeared to St. Dominic to praise his fight against the Albigensian heretics and to give him the Rosary as a mighty weapon.”  (My post on how we started saying the Rosary as a family is here.)

  • Therese of the Child Jesus (1)
  • Holy Guardian Angels (2)
  • Our Lady of the Rosary (7)
  • Margaret Mary Alacoque (16)
  • Ignatius (17)
  • Isaac Jogues (19)
  • John Paul II (22)
  • John of Capistrano (23)
Homesteading and Self-Sufficiency 
  • Get our propane tank filled.
  • Prepare for the arrival of a new animal on the homestead!
  • Continue work on the property fence.
  • Invest in alternative light sources (candles, lanterns, flashlights).
Homemaking 
  • Clean out and vacuum the car interior.
  • Organize the garage.
  • Wipe out and organize the refrigerator shelves.
100 Little Things Revisited
  • Make a cookie cake. (100LT #7 from Round Seven)
  • Make my own laundry detergent. (100LT #88 from Round Six)
  • Reread To Kill a Mockingbird. (100LT #9 from Round Two)
Family Fun
  • Celebrate two birthdays!
  • Celebrate some silly holidays:
    • Do Something Nice Day (5)
    • National Dessert Day (14)
    • National Pumpkin Cheesecake Day (21)
    • National Tell a Story Day (27)
    • Frankenstein Friday (29)

September 29, 2021

No.569: What I Read in September 2021

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#68. PATTERN OF WOUNDS by J. Mark Bertrand
★★★★☆
The “Series September” Readathon was held this month and even though I don’t read a lot of series, I still wanted to participate!  I decided to start with this police procedural, which is the second book in the Roland March Mystery series.  (I read the first book back in June.)  Gritty and dark for sure, but without all of the swearing and gratuitous descriptions of violence and sex.  I’ll definitely be picking up book #3 soon.

#69. SAINT MONICA: MODEL OF CHRISTIAN MOTHERS by F.A. Forbes
★★★☆☆

“So it is, my child,” said the old woman.  “It is those who are strong and true in the little things of life who are strong and true in the great trials.” (p.5)

A little book about a mother’s great love for her son.  I need to add Saint Augustine’s Confessions to my TBR list now!

#70. CONFESSIONS ON THE 7:45 by Lisa Unger
★★☆☆☆
Meh.  I heard about this thriller from someone on Youtube and it was described as a story about two women who, stuck on a train together, strike up a conversation and each divulge a secret.  Sounded intriguing!  Other than that description, I went into it completely blind and did not realize that infidelity was such a huge part of the story line.  (I’m sure I’ve mentioned before that infidelity, especially one where the reader is pushed to feel sympathetic toward such behavior, is one of my literary pet peeves.)  The level of “man hate” was over the top as well.  The whole story just felt crass and icky and I was happy to be done.

#71. DAYS ON THE ROAD: CROSSING THE PLAINS IN 1865, THE DIARY OF SARAH RAYMOND HERNDON
★★★☆☆

If I was gifted with a talent, with which I could give pleasure to people, I would certainly do so whenever opportunity was afforded.  I would be glad to promote the happiness, and dispel as much sorrow as possible, in this sorrowful world. (p.42)

This was a diary written by a 24-year-old woman as she journeyed to Montana via wagon train.  There were lots of little details from her everyday life, but I still wanted more!  Hard to rate someone’s personal diary in that way, though.  Solid three stars.  (This was also my 1902 pick for the 20th Century in Books Challenge.)

#72. WATCH HER FALL by Erin Kelly
★★☆☆☆
The beginning of this mystery/thriller hooked me as we dove into the cut-throat world of professional ballet.  The costumes, rehearsals, the complicated relationships between dancers and coaches…all so good!  Unfortunately, the storyline deviated significantly from the ballet world and into something completely different.  I found much of it implausible and far-fetched and struggled to stay invested in the story.  Just an okay read for me.  (Thank you to Netgalley for the opportunity to read this book!)

#73. IN THE COMPANY OF CHEERFUL LADIES by Alexander McCall Smith
★★★☆☆
Another book for the Series September readathon!  This is the sixth book in the No.1 Ladies’ Detective Agency series, so it fit the prompt “Read a book in a series that is longer than 5 books.”  I sure do love that Mma Ramotswe.  Some of the tongue-in-cheek references to her being a “traditionally built woman” cracked me up in this one.  Solid three stars.

#74. THE GLOVEMAKER by Ann Weisgarber
★★☆☆☆
This book was really slow going, which is not necessarily a bad thing if I cared about the characters.  Unfortunately, I couldn’t just connect with the concept of hiding polygamists and the extensive lies it required. On a positive note, Weisgarber’s descriptions of the cold, snowy weather were great.  And fun fact: this won the WILLA Literary Award for Historical Fiction in 2020.

#75. IRON LAKE by William Kent Krueger
★★★☆☆
One more book for Series September!  I really enjoyed Krueger’s book, Ordinary Grace, so I was excited to dive into his Cork O’Connor mystery series.  Unfortunately, infidelity was a big part of this storyline (you know how I feel about that…) but man, the writing was so, so good.  The ending was great too!  I ultimately settled on three stars for this one and I’m curious to see what I think about book #2.

#76. THE GIFT OF FEAR: SURVIVAL SIGNALS THAT PROTECT US FROM VIOLENCE by Gavin de Becker
★★★★☆
This book was fascinating and an important one for people who tend to second guess their instincts.  Becker details a handful of violent crimes and ultimately argues that crimes don’t just happen out of nowhere.  There are always signs and predictions, most of which we intuitively recognize.  I found it to be an empowering read and challenged me to let go of unnecessary anxiety/fear and instead listen to my gut.  Very thought-provoking.


September 24, 2021

No.568: Simple Ordinary Days in Photos

It is no bad thing to celebrate a simple life. – J.R.R. Tolkien

What can I say about the past two weeks?  The laundry was washed, dried and folded.  The dinners were planned and cooked.  Little treats were baked for the kids.  The schoolwork was tackled, each day filled with reading and math and science and crafts.  The tasks in my planner were slowly crossed off.  Tiny pockets of “me time” were tucked into the afternoons, allowing me the freedom to stitch or read.  My chickens and garden were tended to with care.  None of these things were seen by anyone outside of my family.  They aren’t particularly interesting or noteworthy, but these unseen things make a life.  A full life!  I need to remember the worth of this “invisible” life.

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