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The Big White Farmhouse

intentional living, little by little

March 26, 2014

Is it almost April Already? Where I’ve Been…

We are thrilled to announce that baby number five is on the way and due to arrive in late September!  It’s been a rough winter, but I am so thankful to be out of the first trimester funk and starting to feel like myself again.  Can’t wait to write more in this space. 
Hope you all are well, friends! 

February 3, 2014

{brave} February’s Goals

1. Being brave creatively: make and print a book of our Instagram pictures from 2013.  Are you guilty of never doing anything with your photos too?
2. Being brave in the kitchen: bake a delicious gluten-free cookie.  All the new flours scare me a bit…definitely a departure from my comfortable baking ways.  Any tips or recipes you may have are appreciated!
3. Being brave in my giving: leave a big tip at a restaurant.  
4. Month-long challenge: write down at least five things I am grateful for everyday.  
5. Read one book.
6. Stay up to date in my Bible reading.  This month, I am in Numbers, Deuteronomy, Joshua, and Psalms.
7. Do a mix of walking and jogging to complete #44milesinfebruary.  I’m going to ease in slowly and see how my ankle feels.
8. Bring the boys to see a movie in theaters.  
9. Print out photographs from our session this fall and frame in the living room.
10. Send one “just because” gift.
11. Go on a date with my husband.
12. Buy new oven mitts.  

January 31, 2014

{brave} A Review of January’s Goals and Lessons Learned


1. Being brave creatively: cross-stitch something difficult and turn it into a wall hanging.  Did not complete.  The Mother Teresa cross-stitch kit that I chose from my stash has turned out to be much more time intensive than I thought!  I’m still working bit by bit, though, and I’m going to continue into February.  Hopefully I’ll be able to share next month.

2. Being brave in the kitchen: make a warm breakfast at least three times a week.  Complete!  Some days were a stretch (Eggo waffles count as a warm breakfast, right?), but most of the time, I was able to easily accomplish this before school.  We had lots of eggs and bacon, quiche, and pancakes.  


3. Being brave in my giving: donate items to our church’s Refugee Services.  While we did not actually donate our items to Refugee Services, I still consider this one complete.  We read in our church bulletin about a local organization that receives donations to give to community members in need.  Any extras go into their thrift store, where the proceeds also go to the community.  Win/win and all for a great cause.   


4. Read two books.  Done!  This month, I read Unbroken: A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption and Stepping Heavenward.  Both were very good.



5. Launch the Big White Farmhouse shop!  We launched on Monday the 13th and had such a positive response.  I am so humbled by the excitement and support I have received.    

6. Stay up to date in my Bible reading. I wasn’t sure if I would be able to pull this off, but I squeezed in the last chapters right under the wire!  


7. Walk #40milesinjanuary.  Complete!  
Walking all month was a huge adjustment for me, but I ended up loving it!  Grand total of mileage: exactly 40 miles.  

8. Make my handwriting a font.  Didn’t happen in January, but I’m hoping to download the app soon.  


9. Finally install the art wall in the master bedroom.  
Complete!  Projects like these make me wonder what took me so long.  I hung the frames on a rainy Saturday morning and knocked it out in no time.  I love how it turned out!  

10. Embrace the camera and get at least one picture with the entire family in it.  Partial success.  I took a few pictures of myself with the kids, but we didn’t get one of the entire family.  We need to remedy that in February.


11. Catch up on all correspondence.  Close, but not complete.  I did write all of my thank yous, but didn’t finish my penpal letters (seven to go!).  I also did not write to my Compassion kids this month, which is a habit I really want to change.       


12. Monthly challenge: No Sugar January.  I would consider this a partial success.  While I did splurge on a few occasions, the new habits I gained made the whole experiment worth it.  More lessons below.   



Honorable mention: I checked off eight items on my “100 Little Things” list.
Bonus: I wrote on the blog more than once a week all month and even popped over to write on the shop blog a few times.






Lessons from the No Sugar Challenge:
I needed this challenge to lose a few bad habits and get back on track to balanced eating.  I fell off the clean eating wagon a few times, but it served as a good reminder: when your diet is full of nutritious things, you just don’t desire the other stuff as much.  That’s not to say that I’ll never indulge in a piece of cheesecake again, but I definitely have regained a better sense of moderation.  
  
Other Lessons from the Month:
While I love a challenge, most of the goals here required quite a bit of time to accomplish.  As a mamma to four, with a house to maintain and a new business to run, sometimes something just has to give.  And that’s okay.  The monthly goals are a good way for me to stay intentional, but I don’t feel like a failure if I don’t complete everything.  I’m choosing to celebrate all I did do instead.

See you in February!

January 6, 2014

{brave} January’s Goals

January’s goals are exciting and scary, but I suppose that’s the point when you are trying to be brave, right?  The first three are specific to the areas I want to work on this year (creativity, food and giving), but I hope to complete all twelve.  Here’s January’s list:    

1. Being brave creatively: cross-stitch something difficult and turn it into a wall hanging.
2. Being brave in the kitchen: make a warm breakfast at least three times a week.
3. Being brave in my giving: donate items to our church’s Refugee Services.
4. Read two books.  Let me know if you have any favorites!  I’m always open to recommendations.
5. Launch the Big White Farmhouse shop!  I am so excited (and nervous!) about this one.  Stay tuned for lots of exciting announcements!
6. Stay up to date in my Bible reading.  Back in November, I decided that I wanted to tackle an item on my life list: reading the Bible in one year.  This month, I am in Leviticus, Numbers and Psalms!
7. Walk #40milesinjanuary.  Due to an ankle injury, I haven’t run in a little over a month.  I’m still not fully healed, so I am easing back into exercise by walking and following along with my fellow running ladies on Instagram. 
8. Make my handwriting a font.  One of my penpals introduced this idea and I’m excited to try it out.
9. Finally install the art wall in the master bedroom.  Those frames have been sitting on the floor for way too long.
10. Embrace the camera and get at least one picture with the entire family in it.
11. Catch up on all correspondence.  I’m looking at you, penpal letters, thank you notes and letters to my Compassion kids.
12. No sugar all month.  By far the hardest goal, but I need this detox ASAP.  Wish me luck.


What are your goals for January?  Share in the comments or leave a link to your post. I’d love to hear them!

January 3, 2014

{brave} 100 Little Things in 2014

If you follow me on Instagram, you may have seen the photo where I shared about the fun worksheets I found on Pinterest the other day.  Michelle created them as a less intimidating way to accomplish your goals.  I love how she says, “It’s the little things in life that end up becoming the big things when you look back on your memories.”


Goal-setting is one of my favorite activities and I really enjoyed the brainstorm process with these worksheets.  My list is a jumble of different things: paying off specific debt, craft projects to try, small home improvements, races to run, places nearby to see, activities and memories to make with the kids. I may not cross off every item this year, but it’s always fun to dream and plan.


I’ve had a few requests to share the specifics, so here is my list.  I’ll be back throughout the year to cross things off as I complete them. I hope it will inspire you to write out your own!


1. Pay off credit card
2. Pay off student loan
3. Pay off minivan
4. Save $1400 using the 52 week plan
5. Hire someone to paint the foyer and kitchen -August 2014
6. Read the entire Bible
7. Run a half marathon

8. Run 3 races

9. Simplify in a big way!

10. No Sugar January -January 2014

11. Whole30

12. Read 15 books – (14/15)

13. Install art wall in the master bedroom –January 2014

14. Make silhouettes of the kids

15. Launch Big White Farmhouse, the Boutique –January 13, 2014!

16. Visit Chicago -April 2014

17. Get carpets cleaned
18. Blog consistently (at least once a week)
19. See a movie in theaters
20. Reduce body fat to 19%
21. Potty train J -April 2014
22. Picnic lunch as a family -July 2014
23. Beat Mark at Words with Friends –January 2014
24. Make my handwriting a font
25. Make jam
26. Join the library
27. Learn to knit or crochet
28. Sew a dress for Sophie
29. Grow succulents
30. Start the Cookie Project -March 2014
31. Give a big tip at a restaurant -February 2014
32. Do a blog post about Stitchfix and model the clothes
33. Wear red lipstick
34. Learn how to curl my hair
35. Make a quilt
36. Cook fish
37. Try a new vegetable
38. Make a gluten-free dessert -March 2014
39. Make a Blurb book for IG 2013 pictures -February 2014
40. Go antiquing -May 2014
41. Run/Walk at least a mile a day for 30 days -July & August 2014
42. Find and hang curtains in guest room
43. Spend a week in Maine
44. Write down all the kids’ birth stories
45. Purchase a lamp for the living room –January 2014
46. Open a second part/room to the BWF Boutique –The Garden in May 2014
47. Help D prepare for Kindergarten -May & June 2014
48. Self portrait challenge for 30 days
49. Give away 30 things on my birthday
50. Repaint kitchen table
51. Get to the dentist -July 2014
52. Buy new oven mitts -October 2014
53. Hold second Pajama Drive -October 2014
54. Deep clean bathrooms –January 2014
55. Hang up bathroom art and jewelry rack –January 2014
56. Send 3 “just because” gifts -finished August 2014
57. Organize kitchen utensil drawer –February 2014
58. Make my own salsa
59. Go to the American History Museum
60. Put wreaths on Arlington Cemetery
61. Go apple picking
62. Begin learning about photography and shooting in manual –December 2014
63. Donate 100 things challenge -April & May 2014
64. Go to the Air and Space Museum
65. Make pasta from scratch
66. Plant a mini herb garden
67. Watch 10 documentaries –May 2014
68. Have a picture printed on canvas -July 2014
69. Pray a novena -May 2014
70. Find a way to organize all the Legos -summer 2014
71. Hang curtains in the kitchen -May 2014
72. Send a care package to a college student
73. “Real” date night 4x (out of the house, dressed up)
74. Write Mark love letters at least once a month
75. Find a vintage globe to start a collection
76. Host another Penpal Circle signup
77. Hang curtains in Sophie’s room –December 2014
78. Buy a new dress -March 2014
79. Practice stretching on a regular basis
80. Make an office inside the guest room closet -February 2014
81. Bake a cake
82. Donate hair for Locks of Love
83. Take the boys to the movies –February 2014, the Lego Movie!
84. Paint the boys’ room
85. Finish my first gratitude journal
86. Work on gallery wall in Sophie’s room
87. Do a Bible study -June 2014
88. Invite someone over for dinner -Fr. V in January, “I” Family in May
89. Make a pie
90. Plant something in my hanging baskets
91. Attend a wedding -December 2014
92. Write a letter everyday for 30 days
93. Read a book about Mother Teresa -July 2014
94. Buy big girl pajamas
95. Make felt ornaments for the tree
96. Host a game night
97. Grow tomatoes
98. Use up a lot of my scrapbook stash
99. Make sorbet
100. Make a list for 2015!

January 2, 2014

My Word for 2014: Brave

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Happy New Year!  I hope you had a wonderful holiday and are feeling rejuvenated and excited for 2014.  I know I am!


Last year, I participated in the practice of choosing one little word to define my year.  Back then, I was an overwhelmed mamma who was tired of just coasting through life.  I felt like I was standing on the sidelines and I really wanted to fully experience all this precious life had to offer!  Knowing that this goal would take some effort, I chose the word “intention” and it has been amazing how much that one word has guided me. 


After a lot of thought and prayer, I’ve decided that 2014’s word will be a further extension of the idea of intention. 


My word for this year is brave.


I want to get uncomfortable.  I want to push myself to do things I’ve never done before.  I want to try things that scare and intimidate me.  I want to fully allow myself to be molded and used by God.


Each month, I’ve decided to focus on three areas:
1. In the Kitchen: I want to try new recipes, learn new techniques, and embrace the joy of feeding my family instead of eating out.
2. Creatively: I want to branch out to new ideas and materials.  I want to create beautiful things with my own hands.
3. Giving: Giving back is such an important thing for me and I want to do even bigger things this year.


Of course, there will be so much more.  And as always, I plan to use this space to share my experience along the way.  I hope you’ll follow along!

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