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December 22, 2023

No.788: A Poem for Christmastime

A Christmas Carol

by Gilbert K. Chesterton

The Christ-child lay on Mary’s lap,
His hair was like a light.
(O weary, weary were the world,
But here is all right.)

The Christ-child lay on Mary’s breast,
His hair was like a star,
(O stern and cunning are the kings,
But here the true hearts are.)

The Christ-child lay on Mary’s heart,
His hair was like a fire.
(O weary, weary is the world,
But here the world’s desire.)

The Christ-child stood at Mary’s knee,
His hair was like a crown,
And all the flowers looked up at Him,
And all the stars looked down.

Art is “Adoration of the shepherds” by Gerard van Honthorst

Wishing you a very blessed Christmas from our family to yours. xo

November 25, 2022

No.708: What We Bought Our Little Cousins For Christmas

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One of the tasks I wanted to accomplish this week was to wrap up the Christmas gifts I bought for our little cousins.  There are seven of them, ages five and under!  Why are little ones so easy and fun to shop for?  The older my kids get, the more difficult and expensive shopping becomes!  Anyway, I thoroughly enjoyed picking out just the right toys and I wanted to share the sweetness before they get shipped off.


Sweet Christmas Gifts for Little Ones, Ages 0-5

That’s Not My Snowman board book and Snowman Stacker

That’s Not My Penguin board book and Penguin Musical Wobbler

Wooden Food Play Set

Forest Animal Stacker Toys

Warmies Teddy Bear (gently scented with real dried French lavender!)

Lego Safari Wildlife Tree House kit

Wooden Bow and Arrows

December 21, 2020

No.466: Last Week at the Farmhouse // The Third Week of Advent



O Lord, we beg Thee, incline Thy ear to our prayers and enlighten the darkness of our minds by the grace of Thy visitation. Through Christ our Lord, Amen.

advent wreath prayer for the third sunday of advent

Gaudete Sunday is a big deal at our house because this is the day the kids get to decorate the tree! I had to laugh as I watched them pull out the hodgepodge of homemade decorations and “unbreakable” balls from the bins. Our tree is definitely not Pinterest-worthy, but it’s perfect for the stage of life we’re in and isn’t that what matters most? Someday I’ll get to trim the tree completely in beautiful glass ornaments…and I’ll miss those little hands that clumped all the decorations in one small spot. Ahh, motherhood.

With the joy that is ushered in with Gaudete Sunday, I finally start the process of decorating the house. My budget was pretty small this year (and I decided to spend it on outside decorations) so I made the best of things I already had with a mix of evergreen branches from the property. Simple and beautiful.

The highlight of the week was our first snowstorm of the year! So many things to be grateful for: that we are all healthy and strong enough to shovel our long driveway, that our Internet connection remained strong so Mark could work, that we didn’t lose power, that almost all of the kids can dress themselves in their snow gear, those pink cheeks on happy, exhausted kids…I could go on and on.  Snow days are just good for the soul, I think.

I finally mailed out our Christmas cards. There was a delay in delivery from the post office (of course, #2020) and I didn’t receive them until late last week. Coupled with the snowstorm and the fact that the mailman couldn’t get to us on our untreated roads…well, they’ll get there when they get there.

Without fail, there is one day during Advent (some years, more than one day!) where I feel completely overwhelmed with the demands of December and this year is no exception. A challenge parenting day, a to-do list still full, and just utter exhaustion made me feel like sobbing and throwing up the white flag! Being the head merry-maker is a big responsibility! Over the years, I’ve learned to combat this with a long shower or walk, deep breaths and choosing just one thing on my list to complete.

My parents came over on Saturday to celebrate a mini-Christmas since we’ll be apart this year on December 25.  They created a little game for the kids to find out their gift…and it was a trampoline!  The kids were thrilled as this has been something we’ve talked about for years, but has always gone on the back burner.  Now to wait until this snow melts to start construction… 

December 14, 2020

No.465: Last Week at the Farmhouse // The Second Week of Advent


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O Lord, stir up our hearts that we may prepare for Thy only begotten Son, that through His coming we may be made worthy to serve Thee with pure minds. Through Christ our Lord, Amen.

Advent wreath prayer for the second week of advent

The Second Sunday of Advent was also the feast of Saint Nicholas, so the kids woke up to chocolate coins and two games to play as a family. Having kids preschool to teen is a tricky combination for group gifts, so I went with Guess in 10: Animal Planet Edition for the younger crew and What Do You Meme? Family Edition for the older ones. Fair warning that the meme game contains its fair share of potty humor (I probably should have read the reviews first), but a big hit with the boys. I haven’t heard them laugh so hard in awhile.

On the decorating front, simple decorations went up outside, including two artificial trees around the front door and a live wreath from L.L.Bean. Nothing too fancy as my decorating budget wasn’t very big this year, but I love it all the same. I also dried orange slices to hang in my kitchen – I was distracted toward the end and a few ended up a tad crispy, but if you hang that side toward the back, no one’s the wiser, ha!

For the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception, we celebrated with a big dinner of chicken cordon bleu casserole, cheesy broccoli with crumbled bacon and rolls before heading out to attend a late High Mass. There is something so peaceful about the being in the church at night during the winter.

I’m reading through The Sermons of St. Francis de Sales for Advent & Christmas and finished his sermon from the Second Sunday of Advent about John the Baptist sending his followers to Christ. The entire sermon was profound, but I found his comments about humility and works to be especially inspiring. Two quotes:

Oh wonderful humility of our dear Savior who comes to confound our pride and to destroy our false sense of superiority! They ask Him: “Who are You?” and His only answer is: “Relate what you have heard and seen.” He answers thus to teach us that it is our works and not our words that give testimony to what we are, we who are so full of pride.

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When asked, “Who are you?” do not be content to answer like little children in catechism class: “I am a Christian”; rather, live in such a manner that one will recognize clearly in you a person who loves God with his whole heart, one who keeps the Commandments, frequents the Sacraments, and does all things worthy of a true Christian. I do not mean that when we are asked who we are we must not say that we are Christians. Oh, certainly not! It is the most beautiful title we can give ourselves… All I mean is that it is not enough to be called a Christian if we do not perform the works of a Christian. After all, what are we? A little dust and ashes.

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To round out the week, we celebrated the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe with a big Mexican meal. We love learning more and more about the apparition each year – it’s so fascinating. If you’ve read here for any length of time, you know how much I love the Blessed Mother and the message she said to Juan Diego all those years ago is so comforting: “Am I not here, I who am your mother? Are you not under my shadow and protection?…Are you not in the hollow of my mantle, in the crossing of my arms?”

December 7, 2020

No.464: Last Week at the Farmhouse // The First Week of Advent

O Lord, stir up Thy might, we beg Thee, and come, That by Thy protection we may deserve to be rescued from the threatening dangers of our sins and saved by Thy deliverance. Through Christ our Lord, Amen.

advent wreath prayer for the first week of advent

We may be a little counter-cultural (maybe a lot counter-cultural?), but our family uses the month of December as a way to build anticipation for the coming King. Over the years, we have created a gradual approach to our preparations/decorations that really works for our family. It’s non-stressful for me and the kids get more and more excited as the house fills with décor and baked goods. For Catholics, Christmas doesn’t end on December 25 – it’s just the beginning! This year, I’ll finally be jotting down what we do during Advent for posterity (anyone else use a blog to help remember things?).

On the first Sunday of Advent, we start with the theme of hope…and I like to add the theme of “light” here too: the Christmas tree goes up with only the lights, we put our electric candles in the windows, and we roll beeswax candles for the Advent wreath. Our little manger is set on the side table with a mug full of paper straw, ready and waiting for a month of good deeds. We set out the Nativity scene but keep Jesus tucked away for later.

We aren’t doing our typical “Advent School” this year because I just didn’t have it in me to tackle all of the crafts, ha! The big boys are growing older and my little boys have little interest in coloring and construction paper. I’m hoping that picture book reading and baking will still make for some happy memories. I did get Sophie the Christmas paint-by-number book (affiliate link) but have only given her one page to work on each day. She flies through them in hours otherwise!

On another happy note, my first year forcing paperwhites has been a success! They are beautiful and don’t actually smell as bad as I remembered. Next year, I will definitely add some vodka to the water to stunt their growth – mine are looking a little gangly and some are falling over from being so tall.

Beautiful background music that I found this week:

November 30, 2020

No.463: A Simple Advent Season

We recently had a guest homilist at church and one of the things he said really stood out to me: “Isn’t it funny that Christmas has become a time of extreme consumption to celebrate a Savior born in extreme poverty?”  Whew.  Gut punch.

This year, I’m looking forward to a super simple Advent. For the first time ever, I managed to finish just about all of our shopping before Thanksgiving and it’s so nice not to have that stress hanging over my head! I look forward to preparing our home and our hearts this month, staying off of social media and the news, and seeing the wonder of the season through the eyes of my children. I’m so grateful for our rich Catholic traditions that guide us through the month and help us remember the reason we celebrate in the first place.

A few other things on my calendar (affiliate links below):

  • roll beeswax Advent candles
  • say the Saint Andrew Novena
  • read through the book of Luke & The Sermons of St. Francis de Sales on Advent & Christmas
  • work on my 3rd year of December Daily scrapbooking
  • set out a new puzzle to work on
  • get to Confession
  • celebrate Saint Nicholas with chocolate coins and a new game for family game night
  • dry orange slices to decorate the kitchen
  • make homemade cinnamon gingerbread man ornaments, also for the kitchen?
  • brainstorm a few ways that we as a family can give generously
  • celebrate the Immaculate Conception with a big family dinner
  • take the kids on an evergreen-seeking nature walk
  • celebrate Our Lady of Guadalupe with a Mexican feast
  • observe the Ember Days
  • drive through town to see the lights

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December 20, 2019

No.324: Advent School 2019

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One of the best things I ever introduced into our homeschool year is something I affectionately call Advent School.  We’ve been working steadily since mid-August and adding to that sports and extra-curricular activities…we’re all just tired.  I can see it in their attitudes and the quality of their work.  We all need a little break.

For our family, Advent School looks like lots of reading and lots of extras.  You know how you have the best of intentions, but your schedule never seems to allow for the extra baking sessions or consistent nature study or free-form art lessons?  This is what I try to aim for during this time of year: learning, creativity and memory making.  (We still complete our math lessons though, much to the kids’ disappointment, ha)  The kids are welcome to follow the rabbit trails that the season naturally invites.  It’s about as “unschooling” as I get!

In all honesty, this was the first year where I could feel a tangible transition.  My oldest two boys, now a teen and tween, weren’t as interested in the picture books and crafting like in years before.  They happily filled their time with drawing and novel writing and coding.  They had free rein of the kitchen and baked scones and cookies and even made us dinner a few times.  And this is good – really good! – but it felt weirdly bittersweet.  I still continue the yearly traditions for the younger ones, but whew.  Kids growing up is hard on a mama’s heart.

Here were our plans for this year:

ADVENT SCHOOL 2019
Whole Family Read Aloud: The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe
M (7th grade) Novel: A Christmas Carol
D (5th grade) Book: Truce
Read Every Night at Dinner: Advent Storybook

First Sunday of Advent: We put up the Christmas tree (just lights) and the Nativity (minus Jesus, of course) and brought out the Advent wreath with beeswax candles that the kids rolled.  We also re-instituted this tradition after a few years off.  (Thanks for the reminder, Rosie!)

Monday, Dec 2: We read Richard Scarry’s Best Christmas Book Ever and played the “board game” inside the book.
Tuesday, Dec 3: We read Merry Christmas, Strega Nona and then made chocolate pretzel bites.
Wednesday, Dec 4: We read Jolly Christmas Postman and the kids helped to label, stamp, and mail our Christmas cards.
Thursday, Dec 5: We read Country Angel Christmas and then baked star-shaped sugar cookies.
Friday, Dec 6: Saint Nicholas Day! We read St. Nicholas and The Bakers Dozen and then spent the day eating chocolate coins and trying out the different games from Lucky 13: Solitaire Games for Kids and The Ultimate Book of Family Card Games (books I bought secondhand for a steal!).


Second Sunday of Advent: We celebrated the Immaculate Conception with a big Sunday dinner, followed by decorating a gingerbread house.  We also put a few more decorations up around the house.


Monday, Dec 9: We got caught up on a few chapters of The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe and tried Turkish Delight.
Tuesday, Dec 10: We read Frosty the Snowman and Snowmen at Night and made snowball cookies.
Wednesday, Dec 11: We read Bear Stays Up for Christmas, chatted about hibernation and then went on a nature hike to find evergreen trees on our property.  We even foraged a piece to keep on our dining room table!
Thursday, Dec 12: Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe! We read Our Lady of Guadalupe and watched the animated video on Formed.
Friday, Dec 13: We read The Legend of the Poinsettia and then painted watercolor versions.


Third Sunday of Advent: We celebrated Gaudete Sunday with our 3rd annual gingerbread man decorating party!  A few more decorations went up around the house and the ornaments were put on the tree.


Monday, Dec 16: We read Ella Bella Ballerina and The Nutcracker and watched the ballet on Amazon.
Tuesday, Dec 17: We read The Night of Las Posadas and then drew Mary, Joseph, and baby Jesus from Art for Kids tutorials.
Wednesday, Dec 18: We read I Spy Christmas and Can You See What I See? Toyland Express and then made a scene of our own to photograph.
Thursday, Dec 19: We read Merry Christmas, Curious George and made our own ornaments to add to the tree.
Friday, Dec 20: We will read Room for a Little One and celebrate the beginning of Christmas break!


Fourth Sunday of Advent: Wrapped gifts will go under the tree!

P.S. This probably seems like a lot for an already busy time of year, but has actually just become a part of our family culture.  Every family has their “thing” (my hat’s off to you, creative Elf on the Shelf mamas!) and this is ours.

December 8, 2014

{shop small} Vol.01: Stocking Stuffers for Her

As the Creative Director for Big White Farmhouse, I am constantly searching for new products.  Our company is passionate about supporting the “little guys”, the ones who are working tirelessly to create a life doing what they love.  I love that entrepreneurial spirit and I hope you do too!

Since I can’t carry all the cool products I find in my store, I thought I’d pop in every so often to share some of my discoveries with you!  So welcome to a new series: Shop Small!  Volume 01 is a collection of ideas that would make perfect stocking stuffers for the ladies in your life.  (I’m adding that goal clipboard to my wish list!)  Hope you enjoy.

She Is…Pink Pencils Set of 6 by Amanda Catherine Designs 
Monogram Journal and Pencil Set by Happy Dappy Bits
Complete Spa Gift Set by Little Flower Soap Co. 
Hedgehog Embroidery Kit by dioramatist
Goal Clipboard by Decoylab 

December 1, 2014

{christmas} A Literary Advent Calendar

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It’s Advent! How are you counting down the days to Christmas at your house?  With a little baby in the house this year, I wanted something super simple with very little prep work.  So for 2014, a literary advent calendar was the perfect solution!  

In case you’re unfamiliar with the idea, I took every Christmas book we own and wrapped them.  After years of collecting, we finally have enough for all 25 days!  If you don’t have 25 books, you can always borrow from the library, which is very cost-effective if you remember to return them on time.  

The goal is to unwrap one book a day.  I labeled each one with a number (using this awesome printable) and recorded the book titles in my planner, but it will be a complete surprise for the kids.  Some days we’ll only read the book; on other days, I want to include a craft or activity.  Our list of “must-do” traditions include gingerbread houses, hot cocoa in their special snowman mugs, making Santa cookies with Poppa, and an after-bedtime drive around the neighborhood to see the lights.  

For record’s sake (and in case anyone is interested in the books we’re reading), this is the list:

1. Merry Christmas, Curious George 
2. Tomie’s Little Christmas Pageant
3. Gingerbread Baby
4. Through the Animals’ Eyes: A Story of the First Christmas
5. The Jolly Christmas Postman
6. Saint Nicholas: A Veggie Christmas Story

7. Pete the Cat Saves Christmas  
8. The Clown of God 
9. Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer 
10. I Spy Christmas: A Book of Picture Riddles 
11. Christmas Cookies: Bite-Size Holiday Lessons 
12. Franklin’s Christmas Gift  

13. Story of Christmas
14. Frosty the Snowman
15. The Night Before Christmas
16. Santa’s Favorite Story: Santa Tells the Story of the First Christmas
17. Santa’s Reindeer 
18. Twelve Days of Christmas

19. Christmas in the Manger
20. The Christmas Angel
21. Madeline’s Christmas
22. Room for a Little One: A Christmas Tale
23. Spot’s First Christmas
24. The Night Before Christmas

25. The Christmas Story

What are your favorite Christmas books?  When I was little, I loved The Jolly Christmas Postman!  

November 19, 2013

{christmas} The Perfect Advent Calendar & a Giveaway!

Advent is a really special time of year for our family.  December can often feel so rushed and hurried and I love Advent for keeping our eyes focused on what matters most.  Because my kids are still pretty little, we’ve tried a few different activities.  One year, we wrapped 24 storybooks and opened one to read each night.  Another time we did an arts and craft project every day.  For 2013, I was on the hunt for something simple and I think I’ve found it! 


The Perfect Advent Calendar was created by Jessica, a graphic designer, entrepreneur and fellow mamma to four.  In her words, “I designed the perfect advent calendar after searching for one that would teach my kids about Jesus as well as provide activities for us to do as a family.”

So let me tell you how it works: The long white cards are the daily activity cards.  There are a few extras, so you can pick and choose which work best for your family.  After you read the cards, determine the order you want to complete them and fold and tuck each card in the corresponding pocket.  I love how easy it is to switch around too.  Say on December 15th, you get invited to a party and won’t have time to make gingerbread houses at home like you planned.  Quick switch of the cards and instead you’re singing Christmas carols!   Easy!


I also love that Jessica included a supply list (“get it”) for each day, so you know ahead of time exactly what you need.  

Once you’ve tucked all of the cards in the pockets, thread them onto the red ribbon and tack in place!  We have ours on our big, blank wall in the dining room.  My hope is that it is covered in Christmas drawings and crafts by the end of the month.

Want an advent calendar for your family?  Jessica has graciously given me one kit to give away!  Please enter in the Rafflecopter widget below.  The giveaway will be open just until November 24, 2013 at 12AM, so I can get it to you before December 1!  If you just can’t wait for a calendar, please contact Jessica here and she can give you the details with how to purchase one directly!

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**I was given a calendar to review, but all opinions are mine**

November 26, 2012

{christmas} My Christmas Season Goals 2012

Source: blog.craftzine.com via Ashley {Big White Farmhouse} on Pinterest


1. Be okay with simple.  I have a newborn in the house this year, so all of my lofty baking and crafting plans just may not happen.  And that’s okay.  My hope is to try ONE new recipe and ONE crafty project with the boys.  Anything more is just icing on the cake.

2. Quality is more important than quantity.  The kids don’t need gobs of new toys, regardless of the pressure from outside sources.  A few thoughtfully planned gifts are more than enough.

3. Corny and cliche, but true: Remember the reason for the season.  I want to make an effort this year to keep my eyes on the bigger picture, instead of getting bogged down on the details.     

In order to fully experience this beautiful season, I’m taking a blogging break throughout December.  I want to be fully present to my little family!  But be sure to check back here at the Big White Farmhouse in January…I’ve got big plans for this space! 

Wishing you and yours a blessed Advent season! xo

December 21, 2011

{in the kitchen} Reindeer Cupcakes

I surprised the boys right before bedtime last night with a little cupcake decorating party.  Their excitement was contagious.  I truly believe that if you’re stressed this Christmas season, you need only to stop and experience something through the eyes of your children.  It’s amazing how simple they make things.  

So on that note, blogging will be taking a back seat so I can fully experience the last few days of Advent with my sweet boys.  I want to thank all of you readers for coming back time and again to my humble little blog.  Your comments truly make my day (seriously…I excitedly tell my husband at dinnertime about every single one!).  What a blessing to meet and connect with girlfriends who have similar interests. 

Here’s wishing you a wonderful and relaxing Christmas holiday with the ones you love!      

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