We still haven’t moved into that dream forever house.
This life of mine is messy and loud and oh so hard at times – but isn’t that the sign of a life well spent? This is what thriving looks like.
intentional living, little by little
September. A month of new beginnings and busier schedules. A month of happiness and hardship. A month filled with lots of laughs and a few tears too. A month of celebration for our two littlest. Transition months are always a bit tricky and September was no exception. But at the end of the day, it was good.
+ Better than Before: A Review
+ The Inspired Readers Book Club: Book Three
+ 20 Things I Love: A Gratitude Journal vol.4
And my one goal for October:
1. Start and complete 31 days of writing on the blog. // This is a totally crazy time of year for me to attempt something like this, but I’m jumping in anyway! Hoping for the best…we’ll see how it goes!
August…holy moly, where did it go? With school back in session, the weeks have been flying. As is usual for me as we adjust to new seasons, I’m still struggling to find that sweet spot of getting it all done. Trying to learn as I go, but I’d be lying if it didn’t stress me out a bit.
+ 100 Little Things: Round Two
+ Our Homeschool Curriculum Choices for 2015-2016
+ Five Reasons We Love Jet.com
And a few new goals for September:
What goals do you have planned for September?
If you’ve been reading here for awhile, you may remember my first 100 Little Things list back in 2014. I loved the process and while I didn’t cross everything off by year’s end, the list was so helpful when I was feeling uninspired or overwhelmed. At the beginning of this year, I tried to change things up, but that quickly crashed and burned.
So it comes as no surprise that as I’ve been learning more about myself, I’ve been thinking, “How do I like to get things done? What fires me up?” And the 100 Little Things list immediately came to mind. I considered starting on my birthday in October or waiting until January 1st, but then I thought, “Why wait? Why put off what I can start right now?” So here I am, making a list of little things I’d like to accomplish, smack dab in the middle of summer.
Like last time, this list is a mix of silly things and important things. They are things that really need to get done and things that just sound like fun. They are things I’d like to do and things I really should do. They are things that excite me and things that scare me. My goal is to finish them all before the end of next summer, but we’ll see. I love the process as much as the finish line.
Oh July. I struggled a bit this month, but am slowly digging myself out. Feelings of overwhelm, uncertainty and restlessness (I won’t go into details here, but let’s just say that Rosie is living my dream!) A few days ago, I read this quote from Elisabeth Elliot: “Restlessness and impatience change nothing except our peace and joy. Peace does not dwell in outward things, but in the heart prepared to wait trustfully and quietly on Him who has all things safely in His hands.”
And then there was this one too: “Does it make sense to pray for guidance about the future if we are not obeying in the thing that lies before us today? How many momentous events in Scripture depended on one person’s seemingly small act of obedience! Rest assured: Do what God tells you to do now, and, depend upon it, you will be shown what to do next.” Boom. Sucker punch right to the core of my problem. I’m entering August with a new perspective.
+ 20 Things I Love: A Gratitude Journal vol.2
+ Superhero Cross-Stitch Pillows
+ What Self Care Looks Like for Me Right Now
+ What Would a Calm, Thriving Life Look Like?
June. What a wonderful month we had and so full of great things: memories with our One Fun Thing a Day activities, my brother’s long-awaited engagement, vacationing with extended family, my cousin’s beautiful wedding…so many examples of what matters most. With school out for the summer, I’ve also stepped back and started evaluating what’s working and what is not in my life. Always a work in progress.
A few of my favorite blog posts in June:
+ The Introduction to the Inspired Reader’s Book Club
+ One Fun Thing a Day: The Plan
+ 20 Things I Love: A Gratitude Journal
+ Ten on Ten: June 2015
+ One Fun Thing A Day: Update Number One
+ Our Five Favorite Games for Kids
My June goals, reviewed:
May Goals
1. Have M take his standardized testing and mail back to Seton.
Done. We received his results last week and he did great! So glad to have that checked off the list. On to third grade!
2. Finish my training strong in preparation for my half marathon mid-month.
Done. I did miss two runs at the end, but still felt like I was as prepared as I could have been. Recap of my first half-marathon here.
3. Support my blogger friends in a more active way.
Done. Always a work in progress, but I think I’ve made a solid start. I wrote about my five favorite ways to really support bloggers in this post.
4. Start up Big White Farmhouse‘s newsletter again.
Didn’t get to this one. My biggest hang-up was trying to think of something interesting to share! Instead, I worked a lot behind the scenes: brainstorming a new series for the shop blog, purchasing new products and making a few marketing attempts.
5. Buy a new welcome mat.
Didn’t complete this one, because I haven’t found one exactly right! In my head, I’m looking for a simple one that says “hello” or “welcome” in a script/cursive font. Still on the search!
What are your goals for June?
April Goals
1. Order M’s standardized testing.
Done. I ordered from Seton and it was very straight-forward. We’ll be testing (hopefully!) this week.
2. Sell unneeded school books and clothes on ebay.
This one is half complete. I listed most of the school books for sale, but still need to tackle the box of clothes. At this point, I’m debating whether it’s worth the effort or if I should just donate instead.
3. Drop off boxes to our local donation center.
Done! Feels so good to get those boxes out of the back of the van!
4. Switch out the kids’ cold weather clothing and put in the warm.
Done. This is one of my least favorite seasonal tasks. I decided to tackle it randomly one day when I was putting away the kids’ laundry; I just started throwing the winter things in a big pile on the floor! I went through and got rid of anything that was really stained or had holes and the rest got folded and put in a bin. So glad that project is completed!
5. Work on a new daily routine for spring and summer.
This is still a work in progress, but we’ve made a good start. New expectations for daily chores, less screen time and an emphasis on playing and exercise. We only have a few more weeks of school left, so I’ll be shifting to a more consistent summer schedule soon.
May Goals
1. Have M take his standardized testing and mail back to Seton.
2. Finish my training strong in preparation for my half marathon mid-month.
3. Support my blogger friends in a more active way.
4. Start up Big White Farmhouse’s newsletter again.
5. Buy a new welcome mat.
What goals do you have for May?
A fourth of the year has already come and gone, can you believe it? I’m finding it ironic that I chose the word “thrive” for 2015…so far, I feel like I have been anything but thriving! Perhaps the lesson for myself is redefining what that means in my wonderful, full and messy life? I’m thankful for new months and new chances to try again.
March Goals
Done. I finished the plans for history and science (complete with activities!) and have a rough outline for math and spelling. Five more weeks to go!
1. Order M’s standardized testing.
2. Sell unneeded school books and clothes on ebay.
3. Drop off boxes to our local donation center.
4. Switch out the kids’ cold weather clothing and put in the warm.
5. Work on a new daily routine for spring and summer.
What goals do you have planned for April?
Like many people, I really struggled through February. A lot. I was in some sort of funk and I just couldn’t seem to find my groove! I definitely didn’t feel like I was thriving; I was barely above surviving. Some months are like that, I guess. Thank goodness for new months and new chances to try again.
February Is For Organization Challenge.
I don’t quite know how to categorize this month’s challenge. On one hand, I failed miserably, falling quickly behind on the assignments and never really able to catch up. On the other hand, though, the mentality of “What will work best for my family?’ has really filled my thoughts this month. This has led to an overflowing donation pile and plans to make our spaces work better. So final verdict: my home may not be totally deep-cleaned and clutter free, but the foundation has been laid and we’re slowly working toward an organized home.
February Goals:
1. Try something new creatively.
Done. I tried arm-knitting for the first time and it was really good for me to stretch in a new way. I loved the knitting process and even though my finished product was a bit um, interesting, I can’t wait to try again.
2. Drink 6+ glasses of water daily.
This was my biggest struggle this month. I found that I could easily drink five cups, but that sixth one just rarely happened. I’m blaming it on that second cup of coffee I nurse all afternoon. Oh well…baby steps.
3. Floss every day. Or every other day.
Even though I flossed pretty sporadically (ie. remembering 3 days in a row, then promptly forgetting the next two), I’m calling this a success. Do I dare admit this was probably a personal monthly best?
4. Read two books, one fiction and one non.
Done. I read The Boxcar Children #1, Everyday Sacrament: The Messy Grace of Parenting, and It Was Me All Along. A full book report to come soon.
5. Make a Valentine’s memory with the kids.
Valentine’s Day was pretty low-key for us this year, but we did surprise the kids with a trip to Sweet Frog and they were so excited. We looked like crazy people going into an ice cream shop when it was 20 degrees outside, but the kids didn’t seem to mind.
What five things do you want to accomplish this month? Share in the comments!
1. Complete a 2014 Blurb book of my Instagram photos.
Done. We just got the finished product in the mail last week and the kids have already looked through it countless times. I love hearing all of the memories they have associated with the photos. A blog post with more info coming soon!
2. Work on art for the dining room.
Didn’t get this one finished, but I’ve finally decided what I want to do. It will be my first wood-working project and I’m both excited and nervous. Hoping to knock it out in February.
3. Celebrate Big White Farmhouse‘s first birthday!
Done. We had two really successful giveaways and some new interest brought to the store. So excited to get working on new things for year two.
4. Start to run regularly, 3-4 times a week. Continue to strive for 10,000+ steps daily.
I consider this one mostly a success. I have been running pretty regularly, but with the introduction of Insanity workouts, I’ve only been on the treadmill twice, maybe three times a week. Monthly total mileage: 22 miles. As far as my step count goes, I hit my goal 25 out of 31 days. Pretty good!
5. Return to regular meal planning and making healthy dinners. No eating out!
Done. We did eat out twice, but they were treats instead of the typical “I’m too tired/lazy to make dinner, so let’s buy something” mentality. And honestly, after cooking some delicious meals, the takeout just didn’t taste as good as I remembered it.
1. Try something new creatively. // I’m thinking arm knitting?
2. Drink 6+ glasses of water daily. // I have been making an effort to drink more water, but I can’t seem to get over four glasses a day! I’m hoping to change my habits a little to see if I can increase my intake.
3. Floss every day. Or every other day. // This is a lesson on practicing what you preach. I’m on my kids about oral health, while I let mine slide.
4. Read two books, one fiction and one non. // I have so many great choices on my nightstand!
5. Make a Valentine’s memory with the kids. // I want to make the day special, but in a simple way. Right now, I’m thinking about doing a craft and maybe surprising them with ice cream…they have been asking to go to Sweet Frog for awhile now.
What five things do you want to accomplish this month? Share in the comments!
If you’ve read this blog for any length of time, you know how much I love setting goals. Today I thought I would describe the process I take when deciding what I want to tackle each month. I hope it will be helpful, especially if you find goal setting totally overwhelming. Here we go!
Step 1: Make statements with a bigger vision in mind.
Goal-setting is only fruitful when it’s getting you closer to your ultimate objectives. This is the time to start with the big and broad statements. Here are a handful of mine:
Step 2: Ask questions relating to those statements.
Now that I’ve fleshed out my vision for the year, I start asking myself more specific questions related to the statements I made above:
Step 3: Choose a handful of answers from the questions above to make your monthly goal list.
Here is where you finalize your goals for the month! I like to write it out and put the list somewhere I see it often: in my planner, on the fridge, taped to the wall in my office…anywhere I will see it on a regular basis. This helps me to stay on track. I designed this simple worksheet and you are welcome to download it too.
For January, here are the five things I hope to accomplish:
1. Complete a 2014 Blurb book of my Instagram photos.
2. Work on art for the dining room. Maybe DIY a wooden frame?
3. Celebrate Big White Farmhouse’s first birthday!
4. Start to run regularly, 3-4 times a week. Continue to strive for 10,000+ steps daily.
5. Return to regular meal planning and making healthy dinners. No eating out!
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