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June 28, 2018

No.151: 2018 Goals & Projects: Mid-Year Review

It’s been almost six months since I wrote my 2018 goals/project list, so I think I’m due for an update!

HOUSE TO HOME PROJECTS

✔ Find a special piece of artwork to add to the master bedroom.
I’ve had a limited-edition print from Caitlin Connolly on my wishlist for years.  I finally snagged it with Christmas money and I’m so glad I did – it was print #48/50!  I sent it to be matted and framed at Framebridge and was impressed with the entire process.  

✔ Buy a console table for the front hallway and decorate.
I have the console but am still working on the decorations.  For now, I’ve been pulling things I already own: a black and white photo of my grandmother as a child at the farmhouse, a few books, a milk glass jar that will eventually hold a plant, etc.  I’m also on the lookout for a lamp, but no luck yet.

✔ Work on the little boys room: paint their headboards, purchase one more mattress and decide on bedding.
Small progress: I bought the boxsprings and mattress in February and went with the same striped duvets from Ikea that the bigger boys have.  Now to paint their headboards navy!  I might experiment with chalk paint.

✔ Add one more rocking chair and a porch swing to the front.
We bought the rocking chair and are saving up for the porch swing.


✔ Have dead and fallen trees removed from our property.

Two guys came out with a bobcat and a chainsaw.  My kids watched from the window in awe!  We had one tree that had been ripped by the roots, but was dangling precariously on two other trees.  Watching them take down that tree (which, as we counted the rings afterward, looked to be over 30 years old!) was amazing!

✔ Build a 10-foot table for the back porch.
Our builder friend moved out of state, so we decided to just buy one with our tax return. I’ts not quite 10 feet long, but big enough to fit eight. We love it!

✔ Plan out and create front flower beds. (Possibly hire out?)
We contacted a local landscape architect and worked with her to create beds around the front of the house.  She also did a brick walkway that connects the driveway to the porch.  The result is fantastic and well worth the investment.

✔ Hang curtains in the dining room.

I had my favorite white linen ones from Ikea shipped to the house.  I love how it softens up the room.
Still on the list:
  • Paint the first floor. 
  • Paint Sophia’s and the little boys’ room.
  • Paint the shutters and the exterior doors. 
  • Strip and restain/seal the front porch.
  • Hire an electrician to replace the living room fan, front hallway light, dining room chandelier and outdoor lanterns.
  • Create a gallery wall of black and white family photos in the living room.
  • Paint the headboards in the little boys’ room.
  • Add a porch swing to the front.

HEALTH AND FITNESS

✔ Pace myself. 

I certainly have room for improvement, but I’m proud of my work in this area so far.  When I’m feeling frazzled or overwhelmed, I know it’s time to pull back and slow down.  This has taken the form of a week-long internet break or even just a semi-regular nap.  We’re heading into July and I haven’t felt burnt out yet – HUGE.

✔ Make major progress on the Amerithon Running Challenge.
I wouldn’t say major progress yet (I was sidelined for three months due to my injury), but I’ve recently made it to another checkpoint, which is exciting.  My first since last November!  

✔ Drastically reduce my sugar intake. 
This goal has ebbed and flowed…I was 99% sugar-free in January, fell off the wagon a bit in February, went back to about 75% for Lent…and on and on.  It’s a marathon, not a sprint, hah!

🗙 Run another half marathon and decide about running a full.
Due to the hip/groin injury I had in January, this goal has been postponed for now.

Still on the list:
Learn a few self-defense techniques.

FAMILY

✔ Learn new things directly from the source.
I’ve started an (almost!) monthly thrifting day with my mom – she has such a good eye and knows the best places to go!  She also taught me how to make strawberry freezer jam and helped me with my sourdough starter.

✔ Brainstorm new ways to spend time with my siblings. 
Small progress, but lots of room for improvement here: I’ve been texting more frequently just to say hello or share something funny.  My brother and I spent an afternoon completing a Finders Seekers subscription box, which was so fun.

✔ Start a savings account for traveling to see out-of-state relatives. 

I created the fund but haven’t been specific about adding money to it.  Need to add that to our budget!  

✔ Create new memories with my husband and my kids. 
My first thought was that this goal was a big fail.  We haven’t traveled anywhere exciting or done anything really big and new.  But on further reflection, we’ve made a ton of memories so far this year: reading together by the fireplace, snow days, science experiments, being without power for three days, baking all the things, watching baby birds hatch, playing baseball in the front yard, water gun battles, even making homemade ice cream!  It’s a simple life, but it’s still so good.

A HODGE-PODGE OF EVERYTHING ELSE

✔ Keep up with a year-long photo project.
We just wrapped up Year #1 and began Year #2 of One Second Everyday.  (We started the day we moved into the farmhouse.)  Can I just say how thankful I am for beginning this project?  In a little over six minutes, you can watch an entire year’s worth of memories and laughter and kids growing.  You watch P go from a little six-month-old baby to a busy toddler.  You see the seasons change, the house change, and the kids change.  This little video has become one of my most prized possessions.  I can’t wait to keep going.
I’m also going strong on my 2018 Coffee Project!

✔ Start a One Line a Day five year journal.
I started this in January and haven’t missed a day yet!  It has become almost a gratitude journal, making me reflect on the best part of each day before I go to bed.

✔ Check off tasks on my 100 Little Things list.
As of this writing, I’ve completed 38 tasks, including: reading a book over 500 pages, learning a new card game, making bread in the dutch oven, potty training TJ, buying an ice cream maker and tweaking the Week in the Life projects to a monthly Day in the Life.  So many fun things still to do, so I need to get them on the calendar.  Just a month to go!

✔ Read 25 books.
My current total is 38 books!  I’m reading more than ever.  (Check out my Book Report posts for details on all the books.)

✔ Dip my toes into homesteading.
I started with baking bread and have sort-of stopped there, hah!  It’s a skill that takes time and effort and I’m pleased with my results so far.  I’m sure I’ll be ready to move on to new things soon. 

✔ Invest in our new community.
Baby steps in this area are better than nothing, right?  We ate dinner at Chick-Fil-A for a spirit day supporting a new pregnancy center.  Mark volunteered to teach CCD again in the fall.  M is altar serving at church.  The boys started Trail Life.  Our neighbor passed our house on a walk and we jogged over to chat (with acreage between our houses, we don’t see them very often!).  Writing this out sounds pathetic but we’ll get there, little by little. 

✔ Dive deep into faith.
This is slow going because I tend to read religious books slower and more intentionally. But the “Into the Depths of Catholicism” series is still alive!

✔ Be creative again.
I wanted this goal to be purposefully vague since creativity can manifest in so many ways.  So far this year, I’ve cross-stitched, done some scrapbooking, had fun with snail mail, dabbled in home decorating and design…and this blog!  Probably my favorite creative hobby to date.

How are your 2018 goals going?  

January 1, 2018

No.63: My 2018 Goals & Projects List

Happy New Year!  After a year of rest (except for that whole buying and selling a house part), I’m ready to roll up my sleeves again and get to work.  This list is ambitious, but exciting.  If I can complete even half of it, I’ll be happy.

HOUSE TO HOME PROJECTS

I’ve spent six months getting a feel for how we use each room in the house and I’m ready to get started on all of the projects I’ve pinned on Pinterest!  The list in my head is a mile long, but I tried (tried!!) to be realistic for one year.  
  • Paint the first floor. // I’m leaning toward Benjamin Moore’s Classic Gray throughout.
  • Paint Sophia’s and the little boys room. // Colors TBD.
  • Paint the shutters and the exterior doors. // Color choice is Benjamin Moore’s Wrought Iron.
  • Strip and restain/seal the front porch.
  • Add one more rocking chair and a porch swing to the front.
  • Plan out and create front flower beds. (Possibly hire out?)
  • Have dead and fallen trees removed from our property.
  • Buy a console table for the front hallway and decorate.
  • Hire an electrician to replace the living room fan, front hallway light, dining room chandelier and outdoor lanterns.
  • Hang curtains in the dining room.
  • Create a gallery wall of black and white family photos in the living room.
  • Work on the little boys room: paint their headboards, purchase one more mattress and decide on bedding.
  • Find a special piece of artwork to add to the master bedroom.
  • Build a 10-foot table for the back porch.

HEALTH AND FITNESS 

Pace myself. // I tend to go full steam ahead for a few months and then crash and burn.  (Rinse and repeat.)  Hoping to avoid that this year by giving myself permission to slow down, taking frequent social media breaks and finding pockets of quiet, alone time to recharge.


Drastically reduce my sugar intake. // I am, no joke, addicted to sugar.  But I’m not getting any younger and I know it’s time to make some big changes.  This is one of those goals that I know is good for me, but I’m definitely not excited about, hah!

Make major progress on the Amerithon Running Challenge. // The Amerithon Challenge is a virtual fitness challenge which has you spanning the United States – 3,521 miles!  You can choose your mode of travel (run, walk, swim, bike, a mix of all, etc.) and there is also the option to do the challenge as a team.  I decided to go it alone, solely tracking my running mileage.  I’ve been chipping away since July and predict that it will take me two years to complete.  I really want to be a better, faster runner and this is just the challenge to help me toward that goal.  
Run another half marathon and decide about running a full. // I’m excited to visit the same course I ran in 2015 and see if I can beat my first time.  I’m still undecided about the full marathon and probably won’t make that decision until further into the year.    

Learn a few self-defense techniques. // I recently read a handful of scary stories from female runners, so I’d like to learn some things to stay safe.  My husband and boys are learning Jiu-Jitsu – I’ll have to start paying attention. 

FAMILY

Learn new things directly from the source. // I’ve been thinking a lot about things my grandmothers passed down to me and how thankful I am for both the skills and the time together.  I really want to continue that with other family members this year.  So for example, my mom makes delicious strawberry jam.  Instead of just Googling for a recipe, I want to put a date on the calendar and learn right beside her.

Start a savings account for traveling to see out-of-state relatives. // This goes along with the idea that close relationships are a choice, regardless of distance.  Time to save those pennies for plane tickets!

Brainstorm new ways to spend time with my siblings.  // With my baby sister turning 20 this year, we’re turning a corner – they’ve all finally joined me in adulthood!  I’d like to explore new ways that we can spend time together, both with and without spouses and children.  Ideas: monthly Sunday dinner at my parents, meeting for breakfast and giving experiences as gifts (an escape room sounds right up our alley)


Create new memories with my husband and my kids. //  More traveling.  More exploring.  It doesn’t have to be fancy or expensive, as long as we’re together.


A HODGE-PODGE OF EVERYTHING ELSE

Keep up with a year-long photo project. // I started a project a few years ago where I photographed what I was doing while drinking my morning coffee.  Thinking it may be a good year to try again.

Start a One Line a Day five year journal. // I’ve always wanted to do this!  I like the idea of having five years of memories in one little book.


Check off tasks on my 100 Little Things list. // As of this writing, I’ve completed 19 tasks since August.  I hope to keep chipping away – there are a lot of interesting things still to do.


Read 25 books. // I’m reducing my number (I read 38 in 2017) in an attempt to focus on quality vs. quantity.  There are some large books I’d like to get through this year. (I also think I should maybe start focusing on my to-read list on Goodreads.  The total there is 441 books!!)

Dip my toes into homesteading. // I don’t see us getting farm animals anytime soon, but I do love the idea of having a big garden, regularly making homemade bread and learning new skills.

Invest in our new community. // Join the local Facebook group.  Attend the parades downtown on Main Street.  Meet the neighbors.  Shop from small businesses.  Volunteer at church.  Take the first steps to know others and have others know us.

Dive deep into faith. // One of my favorite priests always says, “You can’t fall in love with someone you don’t know.”  My faith is precious to me, but I also know that there is SO much more to discover and learn.  I’d like to read, watch and pray widely this year.

Be creative again. //  This goal is purposefully vague.  I’m allowing myself the freedom to let it unfold naturally.  Maybe more blogging?  Scrapbooking?  Revisiting favorite handcrafts or trying something new?

December 29, 2017

No.62: My One Little Word for 2018: Roots

We’re just days from 2018.  Don’t think I’m too crazy, but this is one of my favorite times of the year!  I love a blank page, a fresh start, and the process of imagining the possibilities for the year ahead.

It’s also time to choose a new word.  This will be my sixth year, which is mind-boggling to me – how time flies!  My one little word for 2017, Slow, turned out to be the grounding point I needed when my life was clearly the opposite.  The process of buying and selling a house consumed my life for three long, stressful months.  And with the return to homeschooling, the pace really hasn’t lessened much.  Yet the biggest lesson I learned is that slow is a mindset.  I no longer believe that busy equals productivity.  I’ve (sometimes painfully) pruned back many areas of my life and have kept only the most important parts.  I’m more cognizant of quality versus quantity.

Slow.  It’s just one little word, but I’m a better person for it.

On to 2018.  I’d been throwing around some ideas, when a few things really stood out:

  • Mark and I finally feel like we can settle down in our new home.  Unless God has other plans, we’re here for the long-haul.
  • My grandmother’s death earlier this month (and then really feeling the weight of being grandparent-less) has me reflecting on family in a whole new way.
  • Closing my little home decor shop took a part of my identity with it.  I’ve been doing a bit of soul searching – who am I and what do I want to do?
So with those things in mind, my one little word for 2018 is….roots.

root (n): “the fundamental or essential part”
root (v): “to establish deeply and firmly”

In 2018, I’d like to prioritize and strengthen my roots
… in my role as a daughter
… in my role as a sister
… in my roles as wife and mother
… in my role as a friend
… in my new home
… in my garden
… in my new community
… in my faith

I think it’s going to be a good year.  Do you choose a word?  What’s yours?





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