July 8, 2024
If you didn’t think I was an odd duck before, this will probably convince you: I like to read the local obituaries...
intentional living, little by little
July 8, 2024
If you didn’t think I was an odd duck before, this will probably convince you: I like to read the local obituaries...
August 12, 2024
A theme I keep coming back to in 2024 is the idea that despite what society tells us, we are not machines. Have you ever noticed the language we’ve adopted that is completely technology/machine-focused?
June 17, 2024
Lately, I’ve been thinking about the concept of enemies. I’ve been reading the current news stories about skirmishes and wars around the world. I’ve also been reading about past conflicts in history and the lasting repercussions of war on a person’s psyche...
April 15, 2024
Guys. There’s a name for my piles of unread books! It’s an anti-library!
January 15, 2024
I recently fell down a Youtube rabbit hole where multiple, seemingly unrelated videos expressed their difficulties with life outside of technology... I watched these videos with such a sadness in my heart. What is happening to us as a society?
What if… we did away with the anxiety-ridden expectations of what a good mother should be and lived our lives in the freedom that we’re doing the best we can?
What if… instead of saying no (largely because we’re inconvenienced or lazy), we said, “Why not?”
What if… we stopped obsessing about our “pre-pregnancy” weight and now embraced our new normal and the blessing(s) that got us this way?
What if… we fed our children the best we could afford, but didn’t stress about the occasional chocolate chip cookie or Happy Meal?
What if… we stopped worrying about what everyone else thought of us and instead focused on what we thought of us?
What if… we lived our lives with the joy of the front row instead of living in the third row?
Have a wonderful weekend, friends!
Do you read the Nester? Today she’s talking about home goals for the new year and I thought I would play along. Here are a few of the things we hope to accomplish in 2012:
1. Finish up the living room.
Our living room is one of the first rooms you see when you walk in our home. My goal is for this room to yell, “Welcome! We’re so glad you’re here. Come sit and visit for awhile.” Does that make sense? I think I can accomplish that really inexpensively with a few fun accessories: pillows, a few frames with pictures of the boys, fresh flowers…that sort of thing. I also have an empty wall that needs a little something…I’ve had my eye on this sign.
Guess it’s time to check back in on my to-do list from last summer…gotta love blogging for keeping all of your ideas catalogued and ready to retreive!
2. Update a few things in the kitchen.
We have slowly been working on our kitchen. SLOWLY. So far, we’ve changed out the appliances and countertops and added a butcher block island. This year, I hope to paint the walls, replace the lighting (goodbye brass!), and decide whether or not I want to paint our cabinets white. An inspiration picture:
3. Plant a little container garden on the back deck.
Last year, we tried this and came up with black thumbs! Within weeks, our poor plants had fried in the hot sun! This year, we are determined to redeem ourselves.
An inspiration picture:
4. Declutter and organize.
I’ve got my action plan in place and have already filled two bags for Goodwill. Read this post if you’re feeling overwhelmed by all of the kids’ toys. I literally read her post, closed the laptop and spent the next hour working through the toys in our living room. A lot of work, but so worth it.
More importantly than the physical improvements, my biggest goal for 2012 is to create a fun and yet peaceful home for my husband and children. I want my home to feel warm and inviting for the guests that come through that front door. And if that’s all I accomplish, I’ll consider this year a success!
Check out the Nester’s link-up for more inspiring home goals!
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